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Ok so one of my best friends liked this guy for a while and he liked her but they just couldnt be together because of her dad. but they still liked eachother but then i started talking to him because she wanted me to get to know him because we figured that eventually we could all hang out cuz they will prolly end up going out but they didnt now she dosnt like him anymore and i do..and i have a bf but things are not going well with my bf right now and i have kinda felt that i like him for a while now but one of my friends told me this week that maybe i just like him because i dont get that kind of attention from my bf and hes not the friendliest person ever but this other guy is really really nice and i still want my friend and him to be together but she told me its just not gonna happen and i know i shouldnt like him i just cant help it. so i guess my question is should i start flirting with him now or just completely stop and keep things normal..break up w/my bf or not to? sorry for this being long!
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hey, well your friend is exactly right. your not getting the kind of loving attention that a boyfriend is suppose to be giving you. girls long for that kind of love and attention. maybe you should break it off with your boyfriend if your not happy. it seems like you like that other guy better than your boyfriend and he seems to have a lot of good qualities that you like and that your searching for in a guy. if you do decide to make it over with your boyfriend, make sure that your friend is 100% okay with you liking him and maybe possibly starting a relationship with him. whatever you do, don`t stay with your boyfriend and flirt with the other guy, techinally that would be cheating. and even if you and your boyfriend are rocky right now, no one deserves to be cheated on. also dont go out wiht the other guy like a day after you break up with your boyfriend.
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Well maybe your friend is right, maybe you're not getting the kind of attention from your boyfriend, and if he isn't very friendly then maybe you need to break it off. Don't stay with your boyfriend and go talk to the other guy, that's cheating, and isn't fair for to him, even if he isn't giving the attention you need. Do what you want, but ask yourself this question, do you really like this other dude? Is this other dude really worth it to break up with your boyfriend for (but don't cheat on him) if you decide to break it off w/ your b/f tell him it just isn't working out. But you wanting your friend hooking up, it don't really sound like you like this other guy too much if you want them to be together. So maybe he's not worth breaking up for.. And you can't make your them be together if your friend is not up to it. Flirting with this guy while you still have a boyfriend can be considered cheating, and your leading this other guy on, if you don't really like him, Hope this helps.
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It's fine, but honestly, it's your complete decision. If your boyfriend and you aren't working out, maybe you should just calmly tell your boyfriend that it's over. But, if you do like this other guy, don't rush into a relationship with him, since you and your boyfriend had just broken up. Take things slow with this new guy, so you can tell if you want to start a relationship with him. Get to know him a little better, and maybe start hanging out more often. Also, ask your friend if it's okay that you and this guy might have a relationship. Then, you can always try talking to the guy and seeing if he wants to try something with you
Sorry if this confused you, and if you need any other help, just let me know.
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