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I have a crush on a senior, i think he likes me.
We spoke likes a couple of times nothing serious.
I want to make it more serious and i think he does to, how do i do that? I dont have the guts to go over and say HEY WHATSUP! Like what should i do? The years almost over! Should i start with a wave?!!?!
hey, alright well i think that you should find out the scoop on him before you make a move. you need to see if he`s interested in another girl that you don`t know about. if you don`t do that and he is interested in someone else, he may deny you immediately. if you find out that the coast is clear, start by talking to him on AIM or on the phone. i personally think that AIM is way easier, that way akward silences can be avoided by a simpe "brb". once you get comfortable, you can talk to him in person. another option is asking him out on AIM and then on your date getting to know him better. good luck!
no i dont ned to see a therapist i think its since my cusun died i told one of my frends but not the others and im moody now :(
hey, alright well you never mentioned that before or i overlooked it. you need to tell all of them about your loss. being moody for no explanation [it`s no explantion to them because they don`t know about your loss] comes off as bitchy. they will be 100% more understanding about your mood changes if you let them know what`s up. also if they are your true friends, they will be there for you and stick with you through this.
my bf and i have been going out for 2 months 2mrw, and i love him to death. he sends me these messages telling me how much he loves me and how he was never truely in love until he met me. well him and his ex gf went out for about 8 months and then they went through a big break up. some how they remained friends and "best" friends at that.even though im not particulary found of her,(i have never met her, but talked to her on the fone), i don't care that they are friends, i don't want to be one of these gf's whose says that he can't be friends with her because shes his ex. but she calls him all of the time talking to him about how she madeout with this 19 year old guy when shes 15 and all this stuff that she can go tell her girlfriends, and she asks him all sorts of personal questions about us, like how many times have we made out (like we count) but anyways its driving me nuts and i don't want him to think that im jealous, i just don't kno wat to do about her????what should i do?????thanks for any help that you can give me
hey, well she is just an ex girlfriend and he seems crazy about you! i don`t think that you have much to worry about, but if you can`t just resist letting it get to you, than you need to talk to him about it and tell him how you feel - not us. if he cares about you enough, he will stop talking to her as much.
like stuff we're not allowed to eat.. like i end up eating the whole thing. like ever since i was little.. like we cant eat candy.. id take 1 and soon the whole thing will be gone. the same thing happened with gum my mom got in a big pack, and now she bought honey and i've basically just licked almost half of the bottle. and before i ate some sweet tasting like milk mix with lots of sugar.. and today she was looking for it and i had to lie.. ugh i dont know whats happening to me. its so annoying becase if i dont improve on my behavior and blah, then my mom wont sign me up for spring soccer!
tomorrow im scared.. cuz my mom's comming home and she'll probably yell at me for licking the honey.. and i'll be more steps away from being able to join soccer.. and registration is due in a little less than a month!!! i dont know why.. like when its something bad, i feel like i cant stop eating it, especially if its sweet or tastes good. and i usually have meals before i sleep with is why my stomach probably hasnt been shrinking. ive noticed quite a difference with my weight.. ive gained some pounds and im like 10-20 pounds over average! well.. im 5'3 and a half, and weigh about 155 pounds (and that was the last time i checked.. at the doctors office because our scale at home doesnt work. i hope hose numbers have been decreasing.. though i doubt it.) anyways.. like these topics are closely linked. how can i stop this habit of excessively eating? like usually im not hungry when i eat stuff like that.. or sometimes i'll eat something healthy like an apple.. then like 2 apples just because they taste good. my parents cook pretty healthy foods but we also have a little bit of unhealthy stuff, so how do i deal with the fact that they are there? i mean its technically stealing even if its in the same house. i hate that.. like after trying some snack or whatever once, i think i'll just take one more, then that really increases..
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hey, well since it`s only food that your not allowed to eat, tell your mom to tell you to eat whatever you want. that way you`ll only eat what you crave, not what your mind tells you too. you could also tell her to lock up the foods that are making you gain weight or the problem foods.
I have very oily skin. I use liquid foundation and powder. It stays on when I put it on in the morning but usually when it hits around noon my face is oily, and you can see all the foundation that I put on. I have to re-touch my make-up all day. Does anyone know a kind of really good make-up to use that can stay on all day without me having to do touchups?
hey, well i like maybelline coverup the best. i like the one that is in the tube that looks like lipgloss. i`ll show you a picture.
http://i.timeinc.net/instyle/images/2006/products/April/BBB/031406_bbbb_loreal02.jpg
i have long periods like a 12 days long is there any way i can make them shorter without taking pills..please help!
hey, well there`s really no way to make them shorter unless you visit your gyno. im pretty sure that the only way to fix this problem is by getting pills from the gyno, but i could be wrong, maybe there`s an alternative. there`s also something called an ablation. im pretty sure that you`d have to be kind of older to get this, but maybe a parent signature would suit it just fine. here`s some info.
http://www.gynalternatives.com/ablation.htm
its none of them we get along its just i snap or im moody and dont talk so i dont know what it is
hey, well maybe it`s stress. can you sleep at night? do you often not find time to do the things that you used to enjoy doing? maybe you should seek a therapist. they will probably know what to do with you and if you do have a mood disorder, will be able to supply you with the proper medicine. ask around if your family notices any change with you.
ive got 3 amazing best frends but naw im starting to be moody and nasty around them and i dont know why but they are asking me whats wronng im saying nothing i have told one of them my cusun died and thats how i get moody sumtimes but i dont know what it is??
hey, well it could be a number of things. do you feel as if they do things without you or that they exclude you a lot? do you feel as if they talk about you behind your back and aren`t loyal to you? what about if your extremely different from them and just don`t click together anymore? tell me which one it is and i`ll help you then. sorry if i really didn`t help you much this time around, but i just need more info and i`ll be a big help.
ok last night i wore a pad
and i got a little blood on my underwear
and i have ben throwing a lot of underwear out
because they are stained too much
how can i try to clean them
hey, well just fill up your bathroom sink and soak them in washing deturgent.
I use a self tanner on Saturday mornings and Sunday mornigns ONLY because the smell normally fades away by Monday a little...
I was wondering if there is anything I can do besides shower to make it go away?
Or, I can change brands -- If anyone knows any brands that don't smell bad (from experience!!) that would be very appreciateddd!
And does anybody know the ingredient(s) in it that make it smell?
You don't have to answer all of them, any advice or help will be sooo great!
hey, why don`t you just go spray tanning? it`s pretty cheap usually 15$-25$. you could go every saturday or sunday. you just wait 4-8 hours after you go, so you`ll want to go sort of early. then the smells completly gone.
Does anyone have any tips on dealing with huge amounts of anger? Lately I've been sooooo angry at even the littlest thing and it upsets the people I love and I don't know how to fix it. Suggestions? And seeing a therapist isn't exactly an option at this point.
hey, well my boyfriend had the same problem. he acutally went to a therapist and this is what they told him to do. when your getting mad count to ten slowly and think about the person you love and that if you do something that is`nt right like get in trouble or arrested for hitting someone, how it would effect them. also if your mad at a specfic person or just want to let your anger out, write your feelings down on paper.
I chemically straightened my hair 5 months ago. The chemicals smells so bad and my aunt said it's only gonna smell for a week but it's been 5 months and it still smells but my hair smells like ashes now! I've been using all these different girly smelling shampoos I can but they didn't do nothing.
hey, well do you still straighten your hair everyday or frequently? do you color your hair frequently or perm it? if you do, those three things are really bad for your hair and since you`ve chemically straightened it, it`s already not as healthy as it should be. just let it go natural for a little or scrunch it. don`t use a diffuser tho, it will make it smell worse cause it`s more damage, just let it air dry.
Hey
I'm getting my haircut soon,
And I've been looking for pictures online ALL day.
The look that I want is at my shoulders, but a lot of layers.
I couldn't find any pictures, so I was wondering:
Does anybody have any pictures of what I want? (Of yourself, a friend, etc.)
...Please, DONT tell me to use Google/any other search engines-I already have!
THANKS.
hey, i orginally had a picture on here for you, but it was the same as the other advicenator. sorry!
THeres this guy that ive known (sortof) for a really long time...like we were in the same class way back in fourth grade (im in eighth now and about to graduate)...and i HATED him back then because he was fat and ugly and mean to me...and then in 6th, his locker was next to mine and he was really mean to me. and then LAST year i found out that he LIKED me...and i was like..EW.
So then i went to one of his profile page and right there in the middle it said that i was a 'wannabe' and i was like HELL NO!
so i went off on him over yahoo i/m...and we sorta became friends.
and then i started liking him on and off and on and off...for more than a year...
so now, he keeps trying to talk to me and for some reason, i just hate when he talks to me in person because its all quiet and akward and i hate it.
but my best friend keeps trying to get him to talk to me but i dont know if i even want to...
and in addition to everything else, we're both going to different high schools so i dont know if i even want to deal with the whole thing...
what should i do?
hey, well thats a confusing situation. i think that hes still in what i like to call "second grade mode". remeber when the boys used to pick on you when they liked you? im pretty sure thats what he is yet still going through. you yelled at him and then became friends, thats extremely odd. you seem to have an attraction to each other. talk to him and see what happens.
my computer broke so i have to use my dads computer.. i want to download music but i cant download any programs like limewire.. so i have to download music from a site. does anyone know any sites that let me download music for free and doesnt cause viruses? thanks
hey, http://www.musicplaylist.net you can make a playlist that can have up to 200 songs.
This is for anyone who may have had the same thing happen...
I'm taking an Analytical Chemistry course in university right now.
Yesterday in my lab, I was working with 99.99% pure Ni. I handled it with my bare hands. After that, I was pouring nitric acid into a graduated cylinder, and I think there was some on the bottle. My thumb started to burn, so I rinsed it off right away.
Then, to my horror, I realized that I had a large yellow spot on my thumb.
Any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it?
hey, well im pretty usre that its a burn. you said it hurt your skin and it felt like a buring sensation. last summer, i was outside tanning and i didn`t use sunblock. i only used pure tanning oil that attracts the sun majorly. i put it on like every 20 minutes and was outside for a long time. i developed a huge yellow bubble on my shoulder and the doctor said that it was a burn. you have a chemistry teacher, ask what they think.
i just got my advice column and i was wondering how you put in a layout type thing. i dont want my whole page to be purple, pink, yellow, etc.
hey, in your column settings there are premade layouts. they have like hearts, stars, etc.
hey.
my guy friend who i really really like asked me if i would be his girlfriend earlier in the week and i was really happy and everything
hey, well your friend acted very immature. she couldnt and still cant force him to like her or choose who he likes. if she is a good friend, she should be happy for you finding someone that likes you [even if its the guy that she likes]. i mean if that guy seriosuly liked you, than he should feel the same way. the only way to find out is by asking him. your right; its a lack of communication. but just think, you were planning on going out with this guy and being with him, if you cant even communicate with him now as just friends, theres no way that you`ll be able to communicate with him as a couple.
How do you become a featured columnists. How are they picked and when are they picked? (Every day,week,etc.)
hey, on your column settings just check that box that says id like to be a featured columnist. just give good solid advice and you should get picked eventually.
hey i have pretty bad combination skin. ive had semi-mild acne all over my face for like 2yrs now & ive been using the same products for a few months consistently. my acnes no longer red or anything like that and ive been told that its barely noticeable but its still there and it still bothers me =/. sometimes it goes away but then more just comes back. the products i use are:
-neutrogina clean&clear acne wash
-benzaclin topical acne gel [ from my doctor ]
& i wash my face with the acne wash when i get out of the shower and it really seems to clear up my acne. but it also dries out my face so i use moisturizer stuff.
then i use the benzaclin before i go to bed like my doctor says..
well my face is also so shiney in my forehead &stuff..how do i stop my acne & am i doing anything wrong by using all these products? and how do i get my face to be less shiney?
thanks sorry so long.=/
hey, well you should go see a dermotologist(sp). make frequent appointments with them. you could possibly be using too many products. try using proactive. if your not willing to do that because its too expensive, than try using all one product namebrand. example: using all clean and clear products. lumene is really good.