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ok this might be kinda long but pls read this and pls help me please !! im goin crazy !!ok theres this guy jak and we started as friends cause me and his sister allie are like good friends we go evry friday night to the movies ) so that friday night we both went to the movies and were hangin around and stuff again and we went and watched a movie and he sat by me well evry time we moved seats i would follow him and sit right next to him or he would follow me and sit right next to me !! so then i found my friend and there was 4 of them and only plus me and jak and there were only 3 seats so one girl got her own seat and the other girls shared a seat and it was me and jak left right so we shared a seat and then after a while i started thinking i really like him alot ( i didnt noe that though before cause i hadnt known him that long probably i had hung out with him for about 2 weeks ) but ya so my friends i didnt tell them that i liked him but they could tell so they were like we will pay u 2 bucks if u kiss him and i was liek ok so i made sure he would kiss me to and he said ya so i turned around and kissed him !! and so he was like smiling and evry thing so we were hangin around and then i had to go find my brother and so while i was gone my friend asked if him if he like me and he was like ya so they told me when i came back out of the movie thing and he had to go skate with his friends so thye asked me if i liked him and i was like ya so my bff spent the night at my house and we were callin allie his sis and he answered the phone and said she wasnt there so we talke dot him from 10:30 pm to 4:00 am !! and while talking he asked me out and i said ya so that how it started and so we went out for about 3 weeks and then he broke up with me right after x mas when i got bak it was like jan 1st maybe well he had his sister break up with me for him !! and i was crying and crying cause i really liked him and now i cant get over him like i always go to her house to do stuff with her and hes there evry time i go or if i go some where like to the movies or some where else hes there so it makes it so much harder for me to see him have a good time without me flirting with other girls not big time but just a lil flirt and me being heart broken over him !! i cant get over him !! i love him and not puppy love i mean i love him and he knows i still like him buti dont think i have another chance with him though. and dont just say get over him cause its not that easy to do !! cause i love this guy amd its to hard to let him go !! what do i do to get over him or better to get bak with him !! pls help me im heart broken and i need help please give me advice !! thanks alot !!


jesus christ im not even gonna try reading this! damn girl get over him and get over writing 3 pages for 1 question! find help from someone who can stand reading this!

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my sisters planned a surprise party for my mom's birthday because she is turning 50! my sisters said i could bring a boy to it if i wanted. i really want to, but how would i ask him if he wanted to go?

leave a note in his locker or sumtin. say like "hey my mom is turnin 50 so i wanna no if u wanna come 2 da party wit me n my frends"hope i helped!

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ok so there is this guy and we used 2 be like bestest best frendz!! like we told each other everything and called each other everyday and when i wuz like scared er sumpin i would call him and he would tell me everything would be ok but over summer brake we didnt hang out once and he didnt call me at all but when we went bak 2 skool he started talkinn 2 me and jokein around with me again n stuff but then he met these other kids and started 2 hang with them and toatally forgot about me i want 2 get over him but i cant i cry over him sumtimes because i miss are frendship and im tierd of crying over him i dont think he is werth it but i cant stop!!! plz plz help me
sighned ~~**upset\confused**~~

dear upset n confuzed,

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I know that this might sound stupid but, today my mom was just telling me stuff that I don't know about my family, and she told me my sister got pregnant at the age of 21 (shes 28 now) and got an abortion, because she got pregnant not from being raped or anything, just with her boyfriends baby n stuff. I've been brought up to believe women have equal rights, and I have believed in abortions up until now. Knowing that I could've had a nephew//niece, and I don't because my sister got an abortion is really weird. I'm only 14, and I know I'm going to get a bunch of life altering situations, as this one. But, if my sister asks me one day if I believe in abortions, should I tell the truth, and say, no. or yes? Thanks.

say no and tell her that youd appriciate having a nephew or neice. dont say anything more just walk away. that will make her think about killing an unborn child next time. (obviously i dont believe in abortion) hope i helped

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recently i had a cast on my leg because i broke a bone in my ankle. now i have a splint on my ankle and i look like a retard. I know people at school will make fun of me. What should i say back to them?

say sumtin like well at least i take a shower every day and like say when you walk by them "woo hoo! smells like sumone forgot they're deoderant today!"make up any insult you can, a good one. hope i helped!

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I've known my boyfriend for a little over a month, and I was just wondering, do you think it's possible to be in love in that short amount of time? Or do you think that it really takes more to be in love?

idont believe in love at first site. i think it takes while to get to know someone and fall in love.hope i helped.

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OK, when I was younger I had this really good friend. Then one time we got in a fight and went to the principles. My mom doesn't like my ex- friend. Let's call her Lucie. Well, I have a really good friend now and let's call her Peggy. Well Peggy has brought me and Lucie toghter and we have become really really good friends. Well, tomrrow night, Peggy invited me and Lucie to spend the night. My mom said yes. Then today, she asked who called and I said Lucie. And she was like are you friends with her. And I was like yea and we may be going to the mall on Sat. And my mom was like all uneasy. She doesn't like my new friend! What should I do?!

secretly hang out with her likee say your going to the mall with a group of frends and like say your going with pegggy and a few other friends. hope i helped.

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I'm getting my nose pierced on Saturday, and I was wondering if anyone got it done, like did it hurt? & If it did how long did the pain last for?? Also. What side should I get it done on?? Left or Right?.. Whats a nice color to start out with? Your favorite color or, a noticeable one. Thanks :)

dont get your nose peirced, get your cartalidge in your ear peirced. i hope i helped!

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does anyone know any cheats for Sims 2 besides the one that gives you more money because i already know that one.ill rate u a 5 if u answer! thanks

ok im totally obsesed with sims. theres the one move_objects on. that lets you move people and delete things you couldnt before. hope i helped!

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I know this will sound weird but I need your help! OK, I broke up with this guy last week. Well, I don't like him at all . I mean I like him but I don't like him like him. Anyway, I am goin gout with someone else. My friend asked him if he would go out with someone else and he was like yea. So, I really don't want him to go out with anyone else! Here is a big part though.. this guy I'm going out with isn't real! So what if I say I am goin gout with someone then my ex goes out with someone that is real! I don't wan thim to! I would be too jelious! Is there a way to get over this? Please help!

You're a loser.

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ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though

well for some one your not with hell yeah. but if you got feelins for him then just ask him out and give him what he wants. hope i helped

p.s. a hand job is when you like play around with a guys dick and maybe suck it right?

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OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them?

yeah my friend hass done that before. love in this case means ya know they love you just like a friend not like a deep relationship. i hope i helped!

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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks

hell yeah your doing the right thing! how dare she say that about your best friend. id kick her ass if she said a word about my friend. and does wtf mean what the fuck?

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I have a friend and he is mad at me but I don't know why. and he got the guy I like mad at me too. But the guy I like I have gone out with him already but I like him again. But then he told me he used me what do I do. I really like him but he is mad and he will not say one word to me. please help me.

leave a note in his locker telling him your sorry for whatever you did and maybe give him a little gift too. hope i helped!

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hey advicenators! ok heres my story: me and my boyfriend have been going out since new years eve, and we see each other at school and hang out on the weekends, and talk at night, but it doesnt seem to me like we are going out! its basically like hes my friend, except we hug before we leave. how can i make it more like hes my boyfriend, and less like one of my friends? thanks guys!

kiss him

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ok, i am a senior at my high school and i am on yearbook staff. i have this spread assignment and i have to sue a pic of my ex on it (he is not pictured to much, so my teacher told me to use the picture.) now everytime i go to work on it, i think i am gonna cry! and i hurt so bad. this is just about the tiem i thought i was over him. is there any way to make the pain not as painful? it doesnt help that he was the first guy i ever loved and we have been togethre off and on for 4 years. what can i do to help ease teh pain?

find a new bf. hope i helped!

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hey, i need help really bad but i don't have anyone to turn to, and i really mean nobody. a while ago i "went through a depression stage" i guess you might call it, and it got really bad. i was builimic [sp.?] and i cut myself. [my parents and friends were compleatly oblivious to everything because i guess i'm a "good kid" and they never had to worry about me] i don't know how it stopped, but it just did. and now i think it's starting again, my parents suddenly decided we're moving and i feel like nobody wants me around, but i guess thats my fault because iv'e been pushing away the people that mean the most to me. i always want to be alone and i started keeping to myself a lot, like not talking AT ALL during lunch, unless someone asks me a question or somthing. when i get home i got straight to my room and cry, i don't know why though. and i started cutting myself again, i dug a knife into my wrist after dinner tonight and it bled and bled. i feel like i don't belong anywhere and i want to run away, but i don't know where i'd go or how i'd get far enough away from home. iv'e also sat on my roof after everyone in my house is asleep and thought about jumping off, but i really don't want to go to hell. i really need help [i'll "rate high" or whatever, just please help] -jeanine

get proffesional help, i know every one probably tells you that but you really do need it.hope i helped!

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Ok last night while I was laying in bed( iwas awake) I could of swore I heard that kind of music that is in the background of horror movies. I thoght I was dreaming so i sat up, but then when i laid down and I closed my eyes i saw this weird red and white symbol and I heard this vocie talking to me. Sat up real fast because i was so freaked out I have no idea what the voice said to me. Help! I think I am insane or something!!!

o yeah! take some medacation! i dont mean to be mean but it sounds really scary and you might be crazy, or just dreaming.hope i helped!

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well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better?

dont do it its disgusting!

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I have this friend who is incredibly paranoid, particularly about me likeing his girlfriend or his girlfriend liking me. I;ve assured him this is not the case, and so has his girlfriend, and it causes him deep psychological trauma to see us in the same room even talking now. And I was talking to his girlfriend, and he walks into the room, and I make a joke about only wanting a pen, and he takes it as an insult, and now won't talk to me. He refuses to be my friend anymore, and threatened my teeth!...I have no idea what to do....please help me!!
thnx...

well dont be his friend if its this much trouble for you and if you like his girl friend then go out with her. act like your paranoid friend doesnt exsist.hope i helped!

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