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cant get over him !!! pls help
ok this might be kinda long but pls read this and pls help me please !! im goin crazy !!ok theres this guy jak and we started as friends cause me and his sister allie are like good friends we go evry friday night to the movies ) so that friday night we both went to the movies and were hangin around and stuff again and we went and watched a movie and he sat by me well evry time we moved seats i would follow him and sit right next to him or he would follow me and sit right next to me !! so then i found my friend and there was 4 of them and only plus me and jak and there were only 3 seats so one girl got her own seat and the other girls shared a seat and it was me and jak left right so we shared a seat and then after a while i started thinking i really like him alot ( i didnt noe that though before cause i hadnt known him that long probably i had hung out with him for about 2 weeks ) but ya so my friends i didnt tell them that i liked him but they could tell so they were like we will pay u 2 bucks if u kiss him and i was liek ok so i made sure he would kiss me to and he said ya so i turned around and kissed him !! and so he was like smiling and evry thing so we were hangin around and then i had to go find my brother and so while i was gone my friend asked if him if he like me and he was like ya so they told me when i came back out of the movie thing and he had to go skate with his friends so thye asked me if i liked him and i was like ya so my bff spent the night at my house and we were callin allie his sis and he answered the phone and said she wasnt there so we talke dot him from 10:30 pm to 4:00 am !! and while talking he asked me out and i said ya so that how it started and so we went out for about 3 weeks and then he broke up with me right after x mas when i got bak it was like jan 1st maybe well he had his sister break up with me for him !! and i was crying and crying cause i really liked him and now i cant get over him like i always go to her house to do stuff with her and hes there evry time i go or if i go some where like to the movies or some where else hes there so it makes it so much harder for me to see him have a good time without me flirting with other girls not big time but just a lil flirt and me being heart broken over him !! i cant get over him !! i love him and not puppy love i mean i love him and he knows i still like him buti dont think i have another chance with him though. and dont just say get over him cause its not that easy to do !! cause i love this guy amd its to hard to let him go !! what do i do to get over him or better to get bak with him !! pls help me im heart broken and i need help please give me advice !! thanks alot !!
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ok first i never thought you were easy caus ei am just like you. then just to let you know you might say that you would do anyhtign fo him but honestly you wouldnt. i cant say just to get over him cause i was in the same place as you are.
i really liked this guy and we dated and he was my first kiss to and i think it is because you got your first kiss and that you gave that up too him cause you really liked him. i thought that i loved that guy to but i really didnt cause if he is going to do that to you he isnt worth it and ya ikno you are like but i really love him and you allways think of him but he is ot the one for you and you just need to wait i promise everything will be ok. now he will come back to you but you dotn need to do anything with him when he comes back to you ok , well i want to know what school you go to and write me back ireally want to help you with this ok. i am here for you. ok i care about you iand i want to help you.
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jesus christ im not even gonna try reading this! damn girl get over him and get over writing 3 pages for 1 question! find help from someone who can stand reading this!
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You haven't been broken up that long, so it's totally natural that you still have feelings for him. Uunfortunately, there is no magic cure for getting over people - you've just got to let time do it's thing. Ask your friend Allie for some 'time out' from going to her house - maybe she could come to your house instead? And she should have a word with her brother and make sure that he's not always around when you are, just to give you some more time to get over him - you definately aren't ready to be seeing him so often right now. Good luck and I hope things get better for you soon!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Aww..I feel your pain. And about the additional info you wrote..dont worry 3 weeks is nothing.It took me a loong time to get over somebody i once knew.Well did you talk to him or one of his friends to find out WHy he broke it off with you? Maybe hes confused and he'll come back to you. You cant make him go back out with you..he has to want to do it on his own. To get over him..hang out with your friends a lot and try not to talk about him. Have a girls night out and eventually you'll end up not thinking about him for the whole night until you go to bed. Start looking around in school for cute guys. Join the gym,a team, karate, etc. it will get your mind off of him. The more you sit around bored doing nothing..your mind will drift back to him..
Time will heal you..its going to take time to get over him but you will
-melissa-
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speaking from experience, you just have to know that if its right yall WILL get back together. but when and if its right.
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