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okay so, me and my two best friends are having a big party for out b-day which are like around the same time. and we want a band to play. like, a well known one. does anyone know where you can find well known bands that are willing to play at partys for money or something?


Well, i don't know where you live but you can goto a local club and ask them if they have any good suggestions, or you can look on some of your favorite bands myspaces and see if they have could; but you have to make sure it's the actual band. Or one of your parents could call a local music industry & ask them about it.

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my name is Gabi
im loud
i talk a lot
im really crazy
i really want my name is my SN
i was thinking something like hii its gabi but thats taken
anything with my name in

if u help me i can help u back

thanks a lot


here. go to her site.
she's really good.

http://www.xanga.com/xo_FABULOUSZ_screennames

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I have a serious problem with talking to guys. I always get awkward and then we just don't say anything and I just sit there.
Theres not much I know I can talk about, like I normally gossip with my friends, but do guys gossip?

So yea what can I talk about?

Say you meet a guy...
Try to get to know him, no offense to any guys on here or anything, but some guys like a lot of attention. So, give him your full attention. Ask him about his family, school, future plans, sports, music. Then, if you start to like him, ask him to go the movies or to the mall with you one day.
Or, if you want and try too MEET guys, you can always go with a group of your girlfriends to the movies or to the mall and just meet guys that way, or you can join youth groups and other groups at your school or church.

Just try not to be as shy, i`m shy too, so i know it's hard, but sometimes the guys are shy, so you have to take charge!
good luck.

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okay I have an I-pod and I need more songs on it I like almost all music just not like metal or stuff close to that. Can any one help me pick more songs?



here, try some of these.
let me know if you need more.


twenty twenty surgery-taking back sunday
find a new way-young love
riot-three days grace
girl all the bad guys want-bowling for soup
i need you-relient K
saturday-fall out boy
to be loved-papa roach
rush together-quietdrive
another you-cascada
unwanted-kill hannah
some trust-the fray
3000 Miles-valencia
untitled-simple plan
smile in your sleep-silverstein
break it off-rhianna

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Why is it that guys can't just put their animalistic urges in check? I'm not speaking on behalf of all guys, but I have a feeling that many guys out there only want one thing, and think with their little head, if you know what i mean.
I just went out with my 'boyfriend' (it's only been a month) and his friends tonight; it was St. Patrick's day, so of course we went bar hopping. All the girls were displaying their goods as though they were on sale. And I understand that it's hard not to look when a girl is wearing something nice/flaunting, has nice body, etc.., etc.., but I could tell that my bf was kind of looking at them in that way. Not like up and down or anything, but it was like, " hello, I'm here!" I don't know if I'm overreacting or anything, but he's a charming guy, and a few girls smiled at hime, and it got me to wonder: when I'm not around, who's number is he getting? And what does he do, or how does he act with other girls when I'm not around. Cause when I was RIGHT THERE, I still had a feeling he was checking girls out, and don't get me wrong: I glance at hot guys too, but if my bf is there, it's like NO WAY< not going there.
SO, i'd like to hear from you, guy or girl: is this appropriate to an extent (on his part), and am i overreacting, or is this understandable?
Sorry for such a long message, I'm just getting it all out! BTW: 22, F

This is from my point of view. (girl)


I understand. I've gotten in plenty of arguments with my boyfriend about thinking other girls look good or if he thinks they're pretty. He of course, being the sweet guy he is, sweet talked be into forgiving him. But, i understand where you're coming from, when you're curious about your boyfriend and his life when you're not around, but here's what I learned. If you love him, you need to trust him, because trust is love. You can love someone, but you don't have to know everything about the person, because then that'd be awkward, right? If you hear things that your boyfriend is being a little flirt, then end it, simple as that. I would do the same thing. But for now, if he's around you, make sure his eyes are on YOU. And make sure you let him know that to! Take power, you're female. =]

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My girlfriend says im a good singer, and im good at guitar, but i dont really know, i love her a lot, and i believe everything she says, but i really dont think im much of a singer or guitarist. what do you think?



steven;
i love you.
you're amazing.
we're perfect.
learn it. trust it. live it.

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i am horrible at making conversation. especially when it comes to talking to someone i like, who happens to only be an acquantaince.

so, november (yes that long ago) i went to a school football game with my friends and i met a boy who is a year older than me. we have a mutual friend i guess. (that friend now knows i like this boy... but he doesnt know that i know he knows... wow sorry if thats real confusing)

anyway i didnt automatically know i liked him. i never really gave him a second thought until a few days later. i realized i had felt so comfortable talking to him (which was probably only like 3 minutes haha) and thats very unusual for me to find in a person, especially a person i just met. i started to be a little interested in him and then i realized he is just flat out adorable.

well since then we exchange a hey in the halls, but since hes older we dont share any classes. and recently, my best guy friend, who knew him 2 years ago, tried to help me out. he saw him at a basketball game and talked to him and asked him what he thought about me. his reply was "what do you mean?" so my friend asked if he thought i looked good. and he apparently "said yea in a 'duh' tone of voice" according to my friend. haha so im glad with that. and ever since that day, in the hall he would just give me a funny face or something or purposely like dramatically look away and then look back.

he also requested me on myspace and facebook, and i would talk to him there if i knew him better but i dont want to be like creepy online stalker and never actually talk to him in real life.

anyway, point is, i still like him after a long time and i havent had the courage to say pretty much ANYTHING to him. i mean maybe 2 or 3 times we've had a really short "conversation". i just never have any idea what to say - and i know i was so comfortable with him when i met him, but ive become so like obsessed with him (not literally but i still feel like ive convinced myself to like him more than i originally did? i dont know how to explain it) that i have psyched myself into being afraid to talk to him.

the few times i see him daily are for short periods of time so its not like i can start a huge conversation, we only pass by each other... is there something i can say to maybe get his attention in those couple seconds? something funny? i dont know. i just wish i could get to know him better. hes really cool.

i know the whole confidence deal with guys being attracted to confident girls.. and i try but im kind of helpless. i always feel awkward because i cant think of what to say in conversations even with good friends sometimes... and this will sound stupid but i never know what to do with my hands ever... like just walking i cant keep them at my side.

im a mess lol anyone want to help out?

Awh, don't worry about it, but here's what i would do if i was in your situation.

first off, message him or comment him or instant message him saying hey whats up? we barely talk; we should hangout. and that might show him you're interested.

then when you see him, ask him how schools going and ask about hanging out. i know you might be scared, but just blurt it out, and see what happens.

just try not to put it off, because he might change his mind or make other plans.

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If you go to this site at step 4
http://www.photo-shop-tutorial.net/quick_angel_wings_montage.php
How do youadjust the size if you have adobe photoshop like me? I clicked the arrow like in the picture but it only comes with mini thumb nails of all my brushes but if I left click any of them i can either rename them or delete them and there's a little arrow there but I don't see any thing saying Master Diameter


1. Click the arrow to bring down all the brushes.
2. Then above all the brushes there should be a little, like, a horozontial line with a arrow on it with a number beside it, in a box and you can click on the arrow and you can drag it right or left to make it smaller or bigger, or you can type in the number for the pixel size.

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I have the worst floor tiles ever created...My parents refuse to get them replaced by normal looking ones. They're not damaged or anything - it just LOOKS terrible.

I was wondering if I could paint them. What kind of paint should I use? Something that won't come off easily ... should I use wall paint? Or acrylic?

Any advice is appreciated. If you know other ways to cover such ugliness, let me know!

- Oh, and they said 'no' to the carpet idea as well


Try going to a local home depot, or read this site and maybe you`ll get ideas. You can try going to a paint store and seeing if they can guide you in the direction you want to go.

http://www.homesite.com.au/indoors/tips-and-guides/ask-the-expert/14

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Once you've deleted everything to the trash can on your computer, and then deleted everything from the trash can, is it PERMINATLY gone from your computer? Like, people can't find it after you've deleted it from the trash and everything? Please let me know ASAP!



If you have windows xp, you can restore your computer and go back to like, the day before and you`ll still have your files.

if you want to know how to do this, you can leave me a message in my inbox & i`ll get back to you really soon.

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Ok, so the thing is, i used to have a PC computer. I always hooked my iPod to it. Now, i just got a new MAC laptop && want to hook my iPod up to load new songs.
What will happen? Will my computer and/or iPod break?
The thing is, my sister had connected HER ipod mini onto her PC laptop and then to her PC computer and her computer broke =_=
please hhelp!
I need to know this by MONDAY, MARCH 19!!
I go to camp then and i MUST take my ipod, or else i`ll die on the 4 hour trip there 0_0
thanks!
THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE.
btwi`marater.
=}
Loves.



1. I think that your computer and your iPod will be fine.

2. check out this website, and it should help you out, if not, contact the apple company, and they usually get back to you before 24 hours.

http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=300173

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1 - what diseases can a female get from "swallowing" while giving a blow job?
2 - if a female decides to "spit" and not "swallow" where does she "spit"?
3 - when males ejaculate it's called "busting." what is it called for females?




1. I copied this part from a website,

Dangers

Besides scraping up the man's tool, there are risks to giving blow jobs (as well as protection from them). Namely, sexually transmitted diseases.

HIV (the virus which is believed to cause AIDS) has a much harder time infecting you through your mouth or throat. Brushing your teeth prior (or just after) giving a blow job, for example, will cause tiny cracks in your gums which the HIV virus can infect through. Giving a blowjob after eating certain crunchy foods is also a bad idea. Overall, however, it is extremely rare to contract HIV through oral sex alone.

Gonorrea and Chlamydia are two very common STDs which can be easily transmitted by giving a man a blow job. Contrary to popular belief, spitting his load will not greatly lower your risk of contracting either. While some people have experienced an irregular, thick mucus in their throats, most people do not notice any symtoms. If infected you can (and probobally will) spread it to anyone you give blow jobs to until the infection properly treated. The good news is that both are easily tested for and cured.

Hepatitis B can also be aquired by giving a man a blow job. It's symptoms are much like a bad flu (which lasts for around 6 months!), but the good news is that afterward most people become immune. There is also a vaccine for anyone who fears contracting it.

Herpes virus (which causes cold sores) can spread between either the giver or receiver of a blow job. It's nasty looking, painful, incurable, and may show no visible signs while being infectious.

Syphilis is a nasty micro-organism which can also spread by giving or receiving a blow job. It shows up as a hard sore on the infected part of the body and spreads through contact. Good news is that it's treatable, and the sooner the better, as a widespread infection can cause permanent damage to your vital organs.

Spitting instead of swallowing decreases your chances of contracting some STDs, while increasing others. Your best protection is wise selection of sexual partners. If he "gets around", you may want to think twice about going down on him, or at the very least, put a condom on him first.



2. You can choose where you spit, i've read/heard that most girls just swallow, but if you decide to spit, you can do it in the condom wrapper or in a trash can or sink for instance.

3. It's called "squirting"

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Well ii got itunes and that but i dont know how to put songs on my ipod nanocan some one please tell mehow to put songs on my ipod
and can use also tell me a few GOOD r'n'b' Songs
Thxx Muchh=]



here, this site can probably explain better than me.

http://www.askdavetaylor.com/how_do_i_put_music_on_my_apple_ipod.html

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What kind of foods can I eat,
to keep my skin clear?

I normally have pretty clear skin,
and dont get acne or pimpes,
maybe the occasional zit, but hardly ever.

But what foods are good for your skin,
and can make your face glow =)

PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!


=]
check out this website, and let me know if it helps.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/health/dietfitness.html?in_article_id=185229&in_page_id=1798

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what are some good myspace songs. i want something rockish but like hollister like. you know?
thanks!!!!



Check out the band, "Never Heard Of It"

or try some of these other bands, just look up their myspaces.


kill hannah.
shiny toy guns.
taking back sunday.
Cuba.
panic at the disco.
blink 182.
OK GO.
the police.


or if you need more, read some of the songs off of the HCO website, or some off of this message board.

http://www.allthelyrics.com/forum/music-general/4044-abercrombie-and-hollister.html

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14/f. ok. so my room is in a tropical theme. i need some window curtains that look cute and tropical. if anyone knows where i could get some that would be great. i need eaither websites, or store names. i live near Wichita Ks. so if you know of anywhere around there, that would be great also. thanks so much!!



Try basic stores like, walmart, sams, kohls, or michaels sometimes has stuff like that.

or here's some websites if you want to order online.

http://www.pbteen.com/?flash=on&cm_ref=http%3A//www.google.com/search%3Fclient%3Dfirefox-a%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla%253Aen-US%253Aofficial%26channel%3Ds%26hl%3Den%26q%3Dpbteen%26btnG%3DGoogle+Search
(look in their window sections, or try typing in tropical. they always have cute stuff for rooms)

http://www.target.com/gp/search.html/602-9094965-5794220?field-keywords=window+curtains&url=index%3Dtarget&ref=sr_bx_1_1&x=0&y=0
(they have some cute types)

or try basic furniture stores in your local mall. =]

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What are some good songs about being abused or physical abuse or getting over something like that. And yes I need the songs for a reason.


Awh, well here, try some of these. & let me know if you need anymore.

confessions of a broken heart-lindsay lohan

or goto this website, and then look up the songs or lyrics. they seem like some good ones.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia_and_child_sexual_abuse_in_songs

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someone broke into my house a while back and took our car 3 times and now im nervious like all the time and i think he will do i again im 17 and i know its weird but im nervios any advice would be great

You can always get a security system. Or, lock all the doors and just when you're home, stay away from windows and make sure to have a phone near you in case you need to call the cops, and you can get security cameras.

good luck.

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this guy i think likes my because he stares at me in class and its not the senior i was talking about this is a guy my own age but he has a girlfriend and acts like he is biosexual but i dont know what i should do?

Hm, if you don't like him, just ignore him. But, if you like him, just randomly ask him if he likes you, he may just be looking at you for no reason? Just ask him and see how he reacts.

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There's this boy i like and i want to know if he likes me. 13/F by the way. Well, just last friday, March 16, 2007, to be exact, i went up to him with my friend, Alyssa, and we started teasing him saying he liked one of my other friends cause they hang out a lot. Well, this other guy, Tyler, starts a rumor that they are dating so i go up to him and go, OHMYGOD!! I knew you guys liked each other, I can't believe you're dating! I said it pretty loud too because i usually talk loud when i try to make a point in a jokingly way. The whole thing was a joke, cause i know he doesn't like her and he wouldn't date her. Later, when we get back to class(cause that was at recess) he gets mad at everyone else but not me and Alyssa. And earlier that month, one of my OTHER friends, tiffany, said that he liked me or my friend Alyssa. And well, he didn't get mad at me or alyssa even though we were kinda teasing him and stuff. And trying to get people to notice that there was a rumor going on about him and kayla dating. And so i go up to him ask him if he's mad and he goes, no, why would i be? and so i walk away. Later, we have something called library time, where the librarians of the class open the library so people can check out books. I come by there and he's over there and so i smiled at him and he looks at me and smiles. And then i went down and so did he and i turn around to check the time since it was close to lunch and i really just wanted to get out of there, and i notice him looking at me and so he just starts smiling so i giggle a bit cause i have a habit of doing that. I'm sorry this is so long, but, do you think he might like me? thanks in advance to whoever answers this.

Awh, I think he likes you, a lot. He's being flirty, which is a hint he likes you. So, next time you see him, by yourself, and make sure he's by himself, just be flirty and ask him who he likes, and if he's being shy, just say, well. i know someone who likes you, and tease him, and in the end just tell him you like him. =]

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