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hey everyone im maria and i love giving advice. im pretty good, at it i must say. so if you have a question just drop it in my inbox. lots of love ♥

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i'm 13(male). my brother is 10(male).


i've shared a room with him since the day he was born. when i was 7 or 8, we switched to bunk-beds. the ladder up to the top is prety much the only place of privacy i have, other than the bathroom. my family isn't the richest in the world, but we're in a pretty good financial situation compared to others (my mom is a college professer, my dad is a newswriter). my question is, am i selfish for asking for my own room. we've been searching for about a year give or take, and have been outbid in 3 situations so far. currently we're in the midst of bidding.


sometimes i do feel selfish, because my parents are slightly older, and i feel that i'm taking away too much of their retirement funds. (this isn't exactly all for me, the neighborhood we're in now is pretty bad for them, for ex: my view from my room is at my neighbors dark green pool, 10 feet away, and theirs noise pollution from the other side from a stupid bird, which drives my parents nuts.) so am i asking for too much?

no if your 13 you deserve your own room. say youll move into the laundry room instead on sharing i room with your brother. i personally think that its wrong for brothers and sisters sharing rooms, a teenage girl deserve a room of her own!

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i sweat(spelling?) ALOT and i cant seem to find a deoderent that works. any suggestions

yea u spelled it right, but you can take a shower every day and wear suave deoderant. it works really well. if you feel tlike you need to bring an extra deoderant to school and put it in your gym locker and bring a purse and put deoderant in your purse. and go to the bathroom and put it on if you feel like you stink. hope i help

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hey
i'm a 16 year old gurl and i just recently started going out with one of my friends(gurl)and i dont know if i'm bi but i think i like her....anyways when i'm not with her i think about her but when i'm with her it feels odd and i dunno i just dont know how to act.....from what you here does this sound normal to you? and if i get anything like.....no its not normal cuz your with a gurl....i will give a very low rating anyways thx in advance to those who help!

well to me it sounds like your a lesbian. i dont mean that in a mean way. it probably feels wierd to be around her because you like her and your a little shy around your crush. i think its find to be a lesbian if thats how you want your life. or you could just be bi. as long as your happy thats good! hope i helped

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Can your rating go up for questions put in your inbox? Or is it just from teh pool only? I've always been a bit curious on that

yea if the ppl who put questions in your inbox rate you high then your ratings go up. hope i helped

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?

what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx

if your over 18 go 4 it! put it off till your at least 17. hope i helped. im the mean time just make out alot.lol

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If You ask a question while you are signed in, will it show up on your page? before,or after (or both) its answered?

because some questions i DONT want my friends to see!

sorry, you all probably know this, im sorta new.

and dont really ask to many questions, but now im gonna! :) coz you all are soo sweet!

thanks in advance!

oh I always Rate! 4 or 5, unless your mean to me, then i just dont rate- i think that if you dont like that they say- you should rate then low, because then your being mean right back!

sorry I talk alot!

i doesnt show up on your column but when you sign in and you wanna see your question and answers you look under where it says " welcome maria2653" (thats my name) and youlls see a link that says "your questions" you click on that and your questions and all the answers people left for you will show up. hope i helped!

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O-k my boyfriend is so cool.... but lately he's been acting differently. as if he wants more from me!! what should I do?

make out with him then hell be satisfied

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hey,

i have to write a folktale in english, its going to be read by 7 and 8 year olds and maybe younger. can someone give me some ideas to start it off and what to put in there? -thx

write about a gay little leprochaun that loves flowers and rainbows, they'll love that.

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my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8!

your friend is a slut if shes pregnant when shes 13! and wouldnt sumone notice by now? any way she has to tell her mother so she can actually have the baby. what excuse is she gonna have for being moody, fat, and not home for like 3 days because shes in the hospital? she wasted her whole life away and shes gonna have ugly strech marks and shell be really fat after this. your friend is a dumbass slut and she really needs to change that problem. i know i didnt help but i dont care because i feel bad for any pre-teenager whos gotta waste her life with a child when they're fuckin 13 years old!

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my friend wrote this in an advice collum ----


I have a friend and she is one of my best friends but lately she has been so concentrated on boys.....boys other than her boyfriend. She wears clothes than aren't meant for her to wear (shorts skirts and waaaaay to low pants) We have known eachother for a reeeeeeeally long time and we are best friends but she seems.....distant and we fight a lot over stupid things. Sometimes she gets annoying because she goes out with a boy and then doesn't like him the next day.....! Some of her other friends agree too. So what do I do to get her to realize hoe she is acting witout her getting mad at me?


what do i do if my friends think of me like that!?!?
thanks

tell them that if you dress like a slut and date a hundred guys year then who gives a shit! i hope helped!

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okay, im a lesbian, and im 14 years old. i want to get with girl but im not sure how to approach one. There's also the complication that they may not swing that way. How do i join the dating world and how do i ask a girl out?

go to a dating website chat will lesbians then ask where they live and if they wanna get with you. hope i helped!

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Theres this popular guy at my school,and i've liked him for awhile,2 months ago i thought he started to like me but i was sure.Now im almost postitive he does,because i catch him starin' at me all the time and he gets near me alot,and just other stuff,how do i know if he likes me?

if he fixes his hair around you then he probably likes you. if your looking him in the eye and his pupils enlarge whle hes looking at you or talking to you then that means he likes you.hope i helped!

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What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance.

go to the movies, even though this sounds boring see a boring movie. this will make you bored out of your mind so it would be fun to throw candy and popcorn at the people in the row before you. it really fun! or you can go to the mall buy some really sexy clothes and then pick up guys/ girls.

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im so confused... ok sorry if this is long... i like this kid in my class and hes so cute and it seems like he likes me cuz hes always bothering me and i know thats like soo first grade but i still think he likes me and hes all i think about and dream about and i always stare at him in class hes soo cute and i want him soo bad, hes like the class clown and hes kinda popular i guess you can say cuz hes soo funny. and he hangs out with popular people. i want soo badly to be with him i dont know what to do, i feel like im setting my self up for a big fall and i dont know if he likes me but sometimes it seems like he does! and i really want him to. how can i find out if he likes me? what are some signs? i really need help this is driving me crazy!

i rate 5s to anyone who responds!

okay i read in a magazine that if you look at his eyes when hes talking to you the pupils will get bigger if he likes you. i know that sounds cornyy but maybe its true, anyway another way to tell is if he fixes his hair around you then that means theres either another girl behind you or hes trying to impress you! hope i helped!

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this guy likes me and i like him alot but my best friend used to go out with him and she is pissed that i like him what sould i do? should i go out with him!?!!?!
*thanks*

go out with him secretly. hope i helped

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Well...my sister told me about this one younger kid who she thought was so adorable. He's a little chunky but I dont care cause when I seen him I thought he was so cute!!lol He went past me and just looked at me! Thats It
! I cant expect him to do or say anything but i dont know...how do i get him to notice me without going around the skool looking like a whore...please help

talk to him a loty,get to know him. get a little pushy,not like mean-pushy but like i-like-this-guy-so-im-gonna-do-what-i-can-pushy. hope i helped!

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There's this guy that I have a little crush on. He's nice and all and fairly good looking but the problem is he's about an inch and a half shorter than me. I stand quite a good chance with him but I keep worrying about the height thing because I used to go out with someone shorter than me and it was annoying. Should I just forget the height issue and go out with him or leave it? It's not even a major crush, just a small one and I could get over it if I wanted to.

go out with him. who cares about your height?hope i helped!

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okay, i have no clue how to flirt...i don't know how to go about doing that, i don't know how a guys mind works, and all that. What are some techniques u guys use to catch a guy's eye? I like this guy, i just dunno how to flirt...

i was at a dance last night and i really danced like a sexy beast and that drawed attention to me and a guy started to grind, however he was ugly but if you act sexy enough maybe hotties will notice you! hope i helped.

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Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help

tell him your busy just kinda avoid him but not so much the hell break up with you. then when your ready tell him you want to. hope i helped!

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im gonna be going on vacation..and i was just wondering if theres any way to regulate your period..i mean who wants to go on vacation while meenstrating? sometimes my cycles get screwy...i just dont want to menstrate while i go on vacation

take a five hour cold bath. and take medicine that makes it stop.(theres such thing)hope i helped!

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