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I am soo confused. I have this friend who i really love (as a friend) but she is friends with a girl i used to be friends with but i told her i didnt want to be friends anymore. Im affraid that my friend might like my ex-friend more. When it comes to friends i have low self- asteem. Im soo affraid that
after we hang out that i might of done something wrong and they hate me. I dont want my friend to stop being friends w me. What should i do to calm down? Should i talk to her about it or not cuz im a little affraid that she`ll get freaked out? I get jelous and sad if she doesnt hang out with me. Do u think that im a big freak? (link)
no. i dont. i would just talk to your new friend and say.. i dont want to be friends with ___ but i feel that she is going to take you away from me. she wont think you are a freak! and for the jelous part.. you have to understand that you cant always hang out w. some one all the time.. she does have other friends.
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I like two guys and i no that ill never have a chance with either of them. first one of the guys is
my friends bro and the second guy would never go out with me b/c im not popular. I think maybe the second guy might like me but i no he wont go out w me. i just wanted to no your opinion. (link)
stop thinking so negg. you need to think good about your self in a problem like this. i would go for the 2nd boy... going out with your friends brother isn't a good idea. i would just flit with him.. and then gett him to like you , and then ask him out!
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Well, I have in issue with becoming a vegetarian. I really want to, but my family is Greek and they just don't understand why I won't eat perfectly good meat, and if I don't eat it they think I have an eating disorder. I really want to give it up because I love animals and it's a lot healthier, but I'm shy when it comes to telling my parents these things and I don't know if they'd understand. They'd probably make fun of me. What should I do? (link)
this is what some one i know did..
she has really stricked parents and she knew that they wouldn't let her do this.. so she made up a cook book using the veggie meat.. and other things to sub. in the meat. she also made up a food chart saying .. if i dont eat beef i have to eat so many of ___ to make up for all the stuff i missed.
and i wouldn't go totally veggie at once.. maybe give up meat.. then a cupple of months later give up fish.. then if you want to give up milk, eggs. and all that stuff.
but being a veggie is hard.. i have been one for a while. i am really low in iron and protein. so make sure you get pills to help you with that.
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I like this guy and i dont think he likes me he has a grl friend and i dream about him and i stare at him every day i cant get over him and i want to go out with him but i keep waiting for him to break up wit his girl friend but i dont know if i should keep waiting
what should i do????? (link)
if you think he likes you .. just the littelest bit, talk to him. be like heyy i know you have a girl friend, but i like you.. and i wanted to know if you felt the same way"
or you could wait until he is single.. and be like "hey, i like you"
or you could have one of his friends ask him.. and report back to you about it.
chances are if he is a true boyfriend he wont like you back. he might liked you.. but not now. becuase he doe have a girl friend.
hope i helped


Ok, well i have this guy friend who like's me alot but i don't like him the same way alot of the time he is all over me and when i tell him to get off he dosn't i don't know what to do cause im wanting to be his friend but not more than that but he dosn't feel the same and i don't know what to do anymore...please help me (link)
just sit him down and say .. "dude, i really only want to be your friend. i dont have feeling for your right now. i want to be your firneds, your a really nice guy, but thats it" and that should do it.. he will probably be a little hurt.. but only for a day or two.
hope i helped you.


When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5 (link)
well do you make out and hugg? if so put your hands around their shoulders
if your just making out .. then put one of your hands on his shoulder.. the other one by your side..
or if you sitting down you can hold your self up with your hands.
and the guys will either put their hands around you waste.. or on your chin.
hope i helped


Well i put some blonde streaks in my hair and ive got like one side which is quite gingery and the other is really blonde! lol i dont know what to do i cant go out like this it looks such a mess please help xxxx lush me xx (link)
i would do the lighter side like the other one.
then in the morning call your hair place and ask if they have a thing called shades. and shades gets your hair back to your normal hair color. it is not to much.. cheap. and quick, like 15 min. so i wouldn't stress over it..
or.. you could
make the one with the blonde streaks look like the other one.. then go to the store and get a color that you want to dye your whole head.. then add the streaks again.
hope i helped


I just got braces a week ago and after I came home, I noticed these tiny tiny black spots on my teeth...I tried brushing it off, but they won't come off...Now it's a week later and they're still here..It's not really noticeable unless you look closely but I notice them. Can anyone help? I rate. Thanks (link)
it might be the stuff they stick the braces on with. i would call the ortho place and ask them about it.. and then go in and see if they can get it off. im sure it just is the stuff they used to stick it on


I was scalded by my chicken pot pie.
What is the best way to heal a burnt toung? (link)
cold milk. drink that a lot.. or like put your toung in it.. yesh i know that would look weird.. but it helps!


i got my period last month on the 9th .. i am 17 years old and dont have a set schedule yet for my period...i have had it for 3 years now yet dont have a regular schedule..anyhow, i got it last month on the 9th ..it is now the 13 and i still havent gotten it for this month...does this mean i missed it or should i give it another week or so until i start panicking? i am sexually active and there is a possibiltiy i could be pregnant, but do you think i should start worrying NOW or not yet? thank you so much in advance, ive been driving myself crazy here. (link)
i would get tested. just to be sure.
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Im feeling sorda guilty....


There are 14 girls trying out for cheerleading and 12 make it, i know i am going to make it because some of the girls who are doing it cant to crap, anyways i feel like its more handed to me then me working for it... Should i feel guilty? I mean i feel realy bad....
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no. because you are good! they aren't. you worked hard to be good, and maybe they worked hard, but they aren't good. so dont feel bad! be happy!
h-i-h


Ok, well I have REALLY dark circles under my eyes! I don't how to get rid of them , and i get almost 9 hours of sleep! Ive tried falling asleep earlier, but it wouldn't work even if i could actually fall asleep earlier. I hate them and they look so ugly! Any ideas of how i can get rid of these ugly things, or at least cover them up? (link)
put cucumbers on your eyes for 5 min.
or wett green tea baggs.
hope i helped


hey i need some advice on fast, healthy breakfast ideas, and how to make it (if it involves being made) (link)
smoothies are great! if you put fruit,milk,ice in a blender and.. blend it.. or you can put ice creamm. or other drinks.
eggs are also a good thing to have in the morning. . you should kno how to make eggs.
or maybe just a bowl of ceral, easy enough.. right?
if you dont have time to eat.. then just drink milk or orange juice.
hope i helped


Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx (link)
well he probably doesnt want his g.fs thinking that he likes you.. do you like him? if you do i would talk to him the next time he is single. or maybe he likes you.. and is shy to tell you .. you maybe when he is single he has more time to do things with friends. but then when he is going out w. some one thats who he wants to hang out w.. and only her.
i donno. boys are odd.
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i dont no whats going on with me i thinking about cutting nd running away.do i have problems? should i see some1? anyone no ne more?

i rate high (link)
yes, you should. but im not going to say you have too. it just would be a good idea. maybe you can talk to a kool teacher of yours, they are so easy to talk to.. or maybe if you have a kool con. at your school. or your parents.. but i would imange you would want to keep it away from them. or maybe if your close to a friends parent i would talk to them. there are tons of people oout there to help you.
but you need to find out why are you doing this.. are you mad, are you sad, are your scared..what?
no matter what happens in your life..nothin is worth hurting your self. you will come over these thoughts. but the cutts will stay there for a long time.
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Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's! (link)
well where is he going? are there no fones.. not even to call every week just to tell you he is alive? if there is No way of staying in touch with him i would be like hey, i want you to know i do really like you. but just so we can enjoy our summers and not have to worrie what the other person is doing i think we should take a break. and see what he says. but i think taking a break would be the best thing to do.
hope i helped


hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx

ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever (link)
okay.. i have done a lot. i have changed the things i do.. the things i say, the stuff i wear, the people i talk to .. everything. but im happy with all the changes i did make. and so i donno if that counts?


ok, my legs are so white right now! Im embarrised to wear anything other than sweat pants or jeans! They say italians tan fast,but that dosent happen with me! [[im also portuguese.]] Theres this sunblock that attracts the sun to get a tan with out burning,dose any one no where i can get that/what its called/and if it works?

**rate to 5's** thanks :) (link)
you can you tanning oil? that works.. any kind really. or try the tannig bed. or get a mistik tan.. those are all good.
hope i helped


i have like blondish brownish hair and it's SUPER frizzy even when i straighten it. spray on conditioner doesn't work too well for me. maybe it's my straightener or should i find something to put in my hair. thanks (link)
i would try . Infusium 23 complete freizz controll treatment. it works! when you get out of the shower, but a little in and then blowdry. then after you straighten put some it. It could possible be your straightener, try cleaning it. Get some windex. that works. just spray it on your straightener and then whipe it off with a paper towel. then wait a hour to use it.
hope i helped.


what's the best shampoo & conditioner to use? (link)
well what type of hair do you have? how much are you willing to pay? i use redken. it is awesome. it makes my hair look all full and puffy, when it is flat and .. not . puffy? lol. but there is also Dove. that is really good too. But i would find out if you have oily, dry, thin, thick hair. and find that on a bottle. Save is good also. and if you have brown hair, brilliant brunettes, for reds radiant red, and they have one for blonds too. lol. umm any really works..the more expencive the better they will probably be. so dont be afraid to spend a little money on your hair.
hope i helped.




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