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Q: I bought this dwarf hamster that has been at my house for about a week now, and she bites EVERYONE. She never did this before. My older sister has known her since she was born in her biology class, and she never bit anyone. Why does she do this, and how can I stop it?

She also doesn't get along with this other hamster we bought two days ago. We put the two hamsters face-to-face to introduce them to each other, and when nothing happened, we put them in the same cage and the one that's been here for a week went nuts. It was like a hamster smack-down... What can I do to stop this, too?

well since the hamster has only been at your house for a week it just needs to get use to things its changing its environment from a biology class..to your home .. it just has to adjust that might be why its biting, and if the hamsters don't get along.. well theres nothing you can do its there instinct.

Q: okay. Well the thing is, i've had my period twice this month! i'm only 13, and do NOT do ANYTHING sexual. i normally have it at the beginning of each month, for 4 days. i had it around the fifth, and i just got it today again. is something wrong with me? please HELP ME!!

nothing wrong with you. its normal, your period is just adjusting and stuff since your only 13 but if you want it to be normal and regular try birth control even if your not sexually active it works to keep your periods regular.

Q: Ok, so i'm 19/f and i am strugglin with crack use. i had been smokin crack for 5 years but i stopped. i havent had it in 24 days and its the hardest thing i've done. i havent been able to stop thinkin bout it. i dream bout it...anyway recently i started takin OCs b/c i have been in so much pain. (i have two broken ribs that i havent gone to the doctors for) the thing is my friend found out and she's pissed at me for it now and i dont get why. its not like i'm smokin crack i'm takin pain killas cuz im in pain. i dont get why shes mad at me for this. I'm doin everything i can to just not smoke crack again and now she wants me to just do nothin bout the pain i'm in? Am i wrong or she overreacting?

wow, uh go to jerry springer or maury.

Q: My periods have been just completly all over the place from July, and they used to be soo regular. My diet has not changed nothing as changed, however, I had important exams over may/June but my period was nomral around that time. I have no idea what to do, its soo irriating waiting around for a period to come
Any advice on how to make it regular again?

go on some for of birth control, that makes it regular.

Q: well okay im a 16/f and i live in katy,texas my name is nikita. well in my computer applications class there's this girl named nelma karina. & she black but doesn't act black at all and she acts really white. and she's really popular at my school i guess you could say. and she's really loud and gets a lot of attention. well anyways, well she told me that her and this other girl jessica rodriguez are both in cosmetology class and are doing this project where they pick someone to give a makeover. well she asked me if i wanted to do it becuase she says alot of people talk about me and say im messy and start drama. and i'll agree i've done some bad things and have said stuff about people becuase when people talk about me i get mad. and she said she wants to help me change that as well as my look. well i asked my friend jackie if nelma and her other friend jessica are in her cosmetology and she said no so nelma lied to me about that. and she wants me to take pics of myself to see what i need to imrove and pt on weight because im so skinny. and im not sure if she's really doing this as a cruel joke since she lied to me. and i really want to know should i do all this?? please help me!! asap!!!

well if she lied about being in the class.. then i dont think i would do it, i think it might be a joke but then again maybe she is just trying to be nice, ask her about it, tell her you found out she wasnt in that class.

Q: What do you think about sex before being married. I don't know if it's wrong or right so I'm asking you. Please voice opinions and experience.

i say go for it, i guess it would depend on your religion but i lost my virginity at 14 like it was a couple days before i turned 15 and i have no regrets at all, i think as long as you know and love the guy then if you want sex before marriage i say go for it.

Q: what is an orgasm? ive heard people talk about them at school, but i dont know what they are. how can i get an orgasm?

-sam 13/f

ha, in orgasm is when a person reaches the highest point in sexual activity and they cum (for the guys sperm)

you can get one by masturbating or doing sexual activities but i dont recommends doing sexual activities at your age.. but yah.

Q: im 14 and i need to get money for the holidays to buy people presents, i'm aiming to get 200 dollars by like december 10th? and i need ideas on how to earn it

..how everyone else gets money... get a job.

Q: does anal sex feel good? is it possible to orgasm with anal sex? is it harmful in anyway? does it hurt? thanks in advance.

it veries with each person if it feels good or not.
but if your asking personaly? then yeah i think it does. and yes it is possiable to orgasm while having anal sex. it can be harmful because your ass wasnt ment to have anything go in it so if it tears that can be bad. and it depends on the person but i would say yes it does hurt for awhile.

Q: i'm on my period, obviously, and i'm starting to get really bad cramps. i wake up because it really hurts. what are some ways to make it stop hurting? or help ease the pain?

try advil or midol

Q: thank you so much.
it means alot... it just worries me..cause some people say that sperm can swim through clothing, and some say that they can't. and it's really annoying..and making me freak out.. i dont know how to make my nerves calm down!

yeah they cant swim through cloths, and even if they
somehow did the chance of them swimming through cloths and up into your vagina are like not even possible, and you said you couldnt tell weather or not he came, well if you couldnt tell and you didnt got like a big wet spot then he probably didnt.

to calm your nervous maybe try going out and doing something active to take your mind off of it, go hang out with friends or something like that.

Q: lastnight i hooked up with this guy and hes fingered me before as well as other guys but lastnight it hurtttt. it felt good but he put pressure or something over my bladder. no one has ever done this to me before. it hurt realy bad. what is this? do alot of guys do it? and also..when he was eating me out it kinda hurt a lil too.. like he was biting.. why? lol

im 19/f

um well i have never heard of a guy doing that.. like putting pressure on someones bladder.. and the fact that he was biting he was either really horny or maybe he was inexperienced and didn't know what to do ha.

Q: Okay. So this probably sounds really dumb or lame but I’m worried... but okay.
Me and my boyfriend went to this party, and I ended sleeping over, as did he, so we shared a bed. I stayed fully clothed, well he was just in his boxers. We were kissing alot, and eventually he was on top of me (i was still fully clothes, and he was still in his boxers)..he was pressing up against me, and I don't know he came or not. Is it possible if he did, to get pregnant? I’m suppose to get my period around tomorrow or so and my breasts feel tender and hurting, which is how I can usually tell when I get my period, but could worrying about this change when I’ll get my period, can my body play tricks?

Please help!

your not pregnant dont worry about it, and yes worrying or stress can cause your period to come late.

Q: This is really embarrassing im in my late teens and ive never been with a girl ive got a very small penis its less than 3 inches when erect
im too embarrassed to even think about having sex what can i do? can you still please girl with a small penis?

well, you could try enhancers in pills if your that embarrassed, but you shouldn't be because everyone is diffrent and if you find the right girl they shouldn't care how big you are, and yes you can still please a girl.

Q: My boyfriend and I have been thinking about having sex. I told him I was going to find out any possible thing that could happen first. I was wondering how long sex generally hurts girls after. If you have any answers that would be great. Thanks.

it all depends on the girl. for some it hurts a lot and just for a couple seconds for other it doesnt hurt at all, it depends on if your hymen is broken already because it can brake from simple things like inserting a tampon or doing sports. so nobody can really answer this question because its diffrent for everyone.

hope i helped.

Q: i met a guy one night and we have talked since. we are really sexually active but havent quite had actaul sex yet but we always talk about it. but everytime we see each other all we do is like everything with each other but i told him im not sure about sex yet- idk what i should do cause i really like him and like playing around with him but i know if i have sex with him then i will probably get emotionally attached to him. so what should i do? and is what im doing totally sluttish since we're not dating or anything and i like still make out with other guys?

i dont think what your doing is slutty at all its perfectly fine as long as your not like sleeping around with a diffrent guy like everyday, your not a slut

Q: HELP!!!! ok i asked this guy out because i thought the guy that i really wanted to ask out didnt like me. but the next day he told me he liked me. so i broke up with the guy i was dating
(by the way hes a perv) i asked out the guy that i wanted to ask out in the first place but he said no because he needed to pay attention to his schoolwork so he could stay in football but i really like the guy and i would help him with any thing except sex and football
i dont now wat to do. HELP!!!!!!

well if you really like him explain that to him and if he still doesnt then, you have to respect his decision and move on there not much you can do, like you cant force him to go out with you :/

Q: this is extremely weird, but what does a penis feel like?

ha well depending on if there erected or not.
and erected penis feels like something hard like a bottle of something but with skin? a not erected penis feels like squishy skin? ah thats so hard to compare it with other objects.

haha so try typing it in on google im sure you can come up with something better than mine.

Q: can i download ipod games from limewire?
if so how do i get them into my ipod after i download them? thank you

no, you cant and if you do find any dont download them most are viruses for your ipod.

try going to these sites for ipod games:
http://www.ipod-vibez.com/

or:

http://ipoddownloadspro.com/www2/index.asp?revid=bgc026&glid=none&ovid=none

Q: does anyone know an online science journal or just any website where i can find a line graph?

i need some for a project.. it doesnt matter what kind of information the graph is giving.

thanks!

heres some pictures of line graphs and data
go here : http://www.ncsu.edu/labwrite/res/gh/gh-linegraph.html

if you don't like those ones, try going to google.com and type in line graphs and you should find some you like.

hope that helped.