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Thank you for telling the right thing to do! I can't believe I was ever that stupid. I said no and he went away just like everybody said would happen. And he loved me so much that three days later he was having sex with one of my friends. It worked out because I found a very nice guy. Thanks again!

what i said was that i don't think that it was rape but that i'm going through emotional fucked-up-ness because i "feel" raped (from myself which is probably difficult to understand) and was just asing for some advice about it. I don't think he raped me.

hahaha, ew a guy?! is that even legal? lol

lol.

thanks

thanks i have the eating problem to i ate 3 chicken nuggets and was full and not even 20 minutes later i was hungry again....thank you :)

thanks im not worried im probally not i hate drama and dont need it so im guessing im not. but if something were to feel odd at least ik now thank you!

haha alright thanks

lol thank you :)

Thank you, and I know that my main problem is getting attached too easily/quickly, I just don't know how to fix it. Another reason this situation is hard for me is that his girlfriend is the biggest slut in our school, and I am almost the complete opposite of that. Like I mean guys like me, but I'm not easy I'm like the total opposite of easy and she is known as the easiest girl ever.

yeah but the thing im scared about is him getting with other people, and me still not being over him, or allowing myself to get with other guys. :/ thank you for this advice and i will keep in touch with you.. i still have more questions but ill ask them later. its great to know i have someone to talk to that has gone through the same situation. =] thank you so much<3

well it was just because my face was very irritated,(i used way too much) i was thinking of taking benedryl though;incase i was. i don't have time to see a doctor-cruise is too soon, but thanks for the help

thanks :D

its really not birth control though...and I guess I can understand that, but its still gross.

Haha thankkks (:

Thank you. I doubt he'll go for the dinner thing, haha. But yeah I will tell him there will be no sex involved, which isn't a complete lie....haha. The cell phone idea is good too. :)

thanks!!

I know im not ready to give up partying or working all day so i think ill just wait til i know im ready and he is too! Thanks a ton! =]

I'm sorry. I should have explained it better. I want to put the pictures under the tv part and tell about them. but i alrready have them on myspace.. and i dont know how to do it. Thanks a lot!

thank you very much you helped me out so much :]

thanks...yep that was what i was asking

Thanks a ton

thank you!

umm okay since he told me today he was an idiot and was completely in love with me..nice try tho

thanks for actualling giving me a real answer unlike everyone else! hah thanks.

he just jokes around about it, idk im just scared

Thanks! Kittzen

thankss

thank youu :) i thought it was illegal if i was even 16. but thank you! itll only be illegal for a month. lol :)

thanks it helps .. maby he hasent hit purbety yet ( i no i have) but thats interesting, i never thought of it that way!

thank you, that makes me feel a lot better

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Yeah, we're taking him to the vet as soon as we can :) Thanks though!

Thank you so much, but the only thing is that I don't want to avoid him, I'd still like to be around him and all, just not liking him. But, still, I'm glad you answered, I was soooo anxious for a reply =)

thanks! <3

thx so much

thx so much

Thanks but I don't shave that particular area. It's a good guess though. I think I will go see a doctor.

Thanks! : )

No its at any time of my cycle, but thankyou anyway.

thanks

I'll take a look. Thanks for the response!

It's a little obvious, but thanks for your time. (:

Thanks great advice!

thanks. :]

ye-ah... thats what im talking about lol.

I could have googled it myself. You don't think I know that you have to pay for performance? haha..I was just wondering if anybody knew of any good ones for free.

THANKS!

Well See I have done that and not really anything that caught my eye came up thanx tho. =]

Thank you. Yeah I am going to tell him that tonight..And I am promising myself that if I do get these feelings again I will control them and keep it to myself. Thanks again :]

Yeah she said she would like it better if it was in a different place but I really want it on my wrist. If she says absolutely not to that then I will probably get it somewhere else. Thanks!

Lol thanks!

thankx this really helped.

yeah your right its just really hard to talk to him...i mean after all thats happened..if i say something i cant seem to get it out..i'm affraid that he hates me...or something...but he looks at me and it confuses me because he broke up with me and i wanted to be friends nd all...and just the way he acts makes me feel like he doesnt care..

he dont stink tho he actually smells really good

your such a joke

thanks <3

i can't stay off of it and track season just started so i'm not sitting out...thanks though

SHE ACTUALLY EATS IT THOUGH

Thanks. I like the idea of rulers, glue, lotion, and live-strong type bracelets. The others we either already have, are against the rules, or we have found don't sell.

thanks! :)

read it next time.

the only thing is that we're not going out so i dont think i have that type of relationship with him yet where i can tell him to go brush his teeth. i'm still at that stage where im excited if we're around each other so i dont want to shoo him away.

he broke up with me. sorry i kind of worded that wrong. but thanks :]

Yeah I know about that site :) But downloading from there isn't easy. Thanks though.

I'm not really interested in that. But thanks for trying! :)

thanks im gonna block him so i cant ever go on his profile

i relooked at what you said and i think it ay wrork thankyou!

thank you!

Thank youu!

thanks alot.

thanks. :)

thanks so much!

Thanks, so much!

haha thanks. hes a junior in college tho, im sure he is experienced lol.

thanks.

omg thankkss :))

ohh okay thanks

thank you so much!

thanks!

thanks!

thanks =)

lol i do. jk

good to know Thanks! :]

thats what i though but then i also heard what <3love was saying tooo .. i guess we'll never really knwo lol

thank u so much and that person who called me a slut, your right. lameee, i mean i'm 16....boys are going to want to do things. plus i mentioned i had one steady hookup partner. not slutty, we're good friends. w/eee :) thnx!!!

the cheating was a good point. thanks.

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