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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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What does cached mean? Like what does it do? You know when you search for something on Yahoo and next the the link of whatever your searching it says cache. I just wanna know what does it do and it is good or bad

Hey, its good. It helps you acess the site faster. Cait ♥

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i'm tired with my clothes. what ways can i get them to be more trendy. i already have ripped jeans, the leggings, and the hoax pearls and what not. what else is left?

Hey, sequin strechty belts are hott right now [ silvers the best color ]. Another thing that is popular right now is half hoodies. Also add some safety pins to your jeans where the rips are if your more on the punk type. Cait ♥

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Well April 3rd will make it 3 years I got my period and this is my 2nd time for the year i've got it. This year was really hetic for me and the first time I got it this year, my grandma got really got sick. So in the first time in almost 3 years I got cramps. It has never really happened b4. So today I stayed home and got this nasty diarhioea. (spelt wrong). So I also vomitted this morning and my mom tells me that when I get married the cramps will ease up and then she says when you have your monthlys your body is cleaning yourself out so it will happen. I used midol and it helps but I was wondering...is my mom talking bout the sex? Does sex ease the cramps? And does your body really need to clean out during your period?

Yes, your body cleans out. But sex does ease the cramps. But dont have sex. Cait ♥

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Im from Louisiana the rebel state but im also a little spanish. I was trying to get a more country style but i dont no if it fits my spanish thing though.

What country style should i go for?
Also should that fit me?

Hey, Dont change your style because of where you live. Your style makes you well you. Stay the samee. Cait ♥

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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused


sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =]

Hey, Well in my opion I think you should write a letter to him and mail it. You could also write a note in school. Cait ♥

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sorry if its long - ill rate 5s ?

k so theres this girl that ill call janet well .. during the summer i invited her and my other friend "lisa" down to my beach house and they came. so recently she has been saying to me like ohooh i got a beach house i cant wait to invite you down this summer! maybe i can invite you and lisa down at the same timee and stuff .. and like she mentioned it to me a lot. so then i just found out bc i saw this note she asked me to pass to her friend .. i saw a glimpse of it i didnt read the whole thing but it said that for her party she was gonna invite her and all these others girls and lisa down to her beach house. but my name wasn't on it. idont know hwen they are going but this makes me feel like crap. what should i do? i mean i know i cant like say anything to her because that would be mean but .. idk. why would she do this ? i thinks she uses me bc in some classes she alwyas begs me to be her partner and be in her group and stuff but then like outside and in this case .. she doesnt even think of me. it makes me feel really bad so .. what should i do?

thank you so much

Well I think that you should just straight up ask her. If you dont want to do that tho hint to her that you want to know. You could be like so are you ever going to do anything with friends at your beach house or something. That might sound desperate. So id go with my 1st option that i gave you. Cait ♥

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Okay so I'm trying out for a singing group at our school called "Chamber Singers" If you dont know what that is its like a choir...but tryouts are next friday and i have no idea what song to sing...i want to do one that really showcases my voice...but i dont know the best way to go about figuring out which one does...Like I thought about recording on a karaoke machine but you know how bad the quality of that is...and then i figured i could ask my parents but i'm not sure they'll be completely honest...what do yall think? I really DONT want to make a fool of myself....singing is a HUGE dream of mine and I take it extremely seriously! Thanks so much in advance for anyone who helps...

and please dont mention that i could sing for you because
A) I dont have a mic
and
B) You still sound back singing on a mic hooked up to the computer..so please dont mention that option...thanks!

You could ask an honest friend about what they think of you. If you know there not going to be honest with you dotn ask them. I do recomend asking a bunch of different relatives to see what they say tho. Cait ♥

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13/f
sry if this is long :/ ill rate
k, so me and this girl lex were bffs since 2nd grade (were in 7th grade now). last summer this girl shayla moved in across the street. we were immediatly friends. when school started the 3 of us were all friends and did stuff together all the time. but then near the end of 6th grade and this past summer, they started always doing stuff without me all the time and lying to me. and then in sept, shayla imed me and was like, "you're sucha loser i hate you dont talk to me" so i figured lex would back me up, but it turns out she was with her the whole time, going along with it.(shayla told lex i talked about her all the time, which was a COMPLETE lie) soo now im not friends with them. they're really popular this year and best friends and have all their popular friends. but lex told my sister she misses me and wants to be friends again cuz shayla admitted to her that she was lyin the whole time about me talking about her and feels bad. and i miss her too and wanna be friends but its soo complicated because they're with their new popular friends now and i know that if we were friends again it wouldnt be the same. but still, i miss her and get really sad when i think about all the mems...i mean, come on, we were bffs for 6 years. well i have no idea what to do, so plzz help ! thanks

Well i think you should still attempt to be friends with her. Your right it probably wont be the same, but at least youll be talking again. Also ask shayla why she would do soemthing like that and get the explanation. Cait ♥

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hey im 14/m and im stumped. i cant thing of sweet things to say to my gf i love her to death and she thinks im the sweetest thing in the world but i like went stupid and cant think of anything else and its really bugging me can someone tell me some things so say i really need it to help me get going again. ill really appreciate it thx everyone.

Tell her she looks beautiful = ]. Cait ♥

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well im going out with this one girl and her best freind told me that she told her that she dont really like me shes just going out with me to have a boyfriend.She said she liked me before and they would be talking on the phone and she would say i love him soo much and the girl im going out with said ew!!! how can you go out with him and she said she said mean things about me...i dont know who to believe.....what should i do???

Well theres a 50 50 chance that this is true. The only thing you can do is ask her about it. If its true break up with her. You dont need to deal with someone liek that. Cait ♥

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Hi, I'm a 14 year old female, turning 15 this month. I really need a job for the summer just to take some time off of my hand and so that I can earn some money. I would really like a job at a restaurant or fast food chain or something, so does anyone know any places that would accept someone my age? I know McDonald's and Burger King hire 14+ but there are no more spots for hire since everyone goes there to work. Or any suggestions? (Babysitting isn't really a good option -- I am a huge pushover and I'm horrible with kids/pets.)

Shaws ans Stop&Stop hire 14 and up. Another option is a paper ruote for your neighborhood. Cait ♥

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hi

i am 13 years old and i'm a female duh :-) ok and i really like this guy named uhm peter and i never realised i like him untill i had the feeling he likes me! he always smiled at me and once he talked to me but i was kind of meen because i never wanted him to know that i like him i know its weird! so i think he was upset but one week after that another guy told me: cornelia (thats me) robert ( a nother guy i really hate)loves you i was like : so i dont care! and then peter heard that and said : i love you 2 and i tried to be your friend but you where so meen! and then i was meen again I HATE MYSELF i was like: yeah 2 bad ore something like that :-( and now he wont talk to me anymore so he ignores me and i want to appologize but i cant because i am kind of shy when it comes to things like that and he always hangs with his friends so i wanted to call him but on my list where 3 numbers so i never knew which one to dile! and i peter is all i've been thinking about lately and i really really like him! so i need some advice! how can i appologize and what should i say without seeming stupid? I REALLY NEED ADVICE!!! thanks!!!!

Well you made a big misake, let him know that. Tell him you were just so starttled by him admiting his feelings for you that you just blurted out the first thing that came to your mind out of shock. Tell him that you really like him and say sorry. Cait ♥

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so i am dating this guy and he just got out of rehab and we dated a month in the summer then broke up and thats when he want to rehab well hes back and me and him have hooked up again well he was doing good and not using drugs but last wednesday he relapsed which means he went back to using...well he had a bad trip and had to go to the hosiptal and then he was put on house arrest well monday he had court to see if he had to go back to rehab or juvie..well i called and his dad said he won't be home until next monday which means he is rehab or juvie...and i dont know if i should stay with him? alot happend this summer with me and him i got pregant with his kid but i miscarried and we've been through alot together so should i stay with him? PLEASE GIVE ADVICE ASAP! thanks * aleah*

I think that you should take a break for a little while. Let him collect himself and get back together. Once he is clean possibly talk about getting back together. Also just because you arent together doesnt mean you can be friends. Cait ♥

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I just started seeing this guy not too long ago, and last night at his house we were talking about sex and I asked him how many girls he'd been with, and he said 10. Then he just told me (I didn't ask) that he lost his virginity when he was NINE years old! I guess I started freaking out a little, and thought he was lying and I blurted out "How could you do that?! You were still a little boy!!" And that really hurt him and he got this sad look on his face and I just wanted to shoot myself for being so mean to him. He kept saying it was okay, but I will still never forget that look on his face...

Well later that night he was driving me home and ALL I could think about was how young his was. I don't know my feelings about it fully, but I know that no 9 year old should be having sex or even thinking about it. I don't know why I'm still bothered about this, I'm trying to look past it but every time I think about him, I think about this. I don't want to, I really really like this guy and I want it to work out.

So the question is: How do I get past this? Have any of you been in the same situation before, or similar to it?

Thanks for any and all help! I'll rate good!

Well there could be tons of different reasons why he lost it at such a young age. He could have been raped or just simply curious. He must have really trusted you because he told you something so sacred. You can ask him the story behind it or just leave it be. Personally I would leave it be. Just learn to except that it wwas a stupid mistake that he made in his life. Cait ♥

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Im 13, female. And i want to make money, but i do not know how.
I can babysit, but how do you start? i have no little kid family members, or no anybody thats a friend of the family with kids. I know nobody with kids.
Chores is an option for me, dont tell me that i want more.
i rate high for good answers.

Chores is probably the best option for you, but there is also paper routes for your neighborhood. Cait ♥

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I need help with a project. Please help.

I need to know similarities between the Han and Sui dynasties, and similarities between the Tang and Han dynasties. If you give me ANY information, you'll get rated high. =)

What I would do would be use a popular dearch engine such as google or ask jeeves. Here are the websites http;//www.google.com and http;//www.askjeeves.com Cait ♥

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there is this boy that I want to go with, but I don't know if he likes me. I want to ask him this weekend, but I am too afraid. I would think that either he would say "no" or " yes" or "I don't know". He lives in SC and I live in NC. If I went with him, I would think he would cheat on me, but he plans on moving with his dad who lives in my house because he is dating my mom. (they are not married) What should I do and how should I tell him?

Well personally I would just ask him face to face. The worse thing that could happen is a no. Rejection is veyr normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Just be confident and ask = ]. Cait ♥

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i used to be the center of attention with my friends..but ever since i started dating my boyfriend i have fallen out of the spotlight it seems. how can i get back in it?

hey, dont chnage yourself to be back in the spotlight. have a really cool party. thats sure to get you to be the tlak of the town. lol. cait ♥

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Im having trouble knowing weather to ask this girl out i really like (a lot). Im 14 years old and in 8th grade and theres this girl a year younger than me in the 7th grade. Im not like the nerdy unsociable kind of guy. I have a lot of friends and i get along with almost everyone. My friend told this girl i like her (i didnt want him too) and i kind of get the impression shes not intrested. i was planning on telling her i like her and asking her out but now i feel funny after he already said something. Shes considered a 'preppy' girl and my friend said she wont go for me cause im to 'skater'. The truth is i normally go for preppy girls and i like them more. Even though i like skating and into punk and shit, i dont know if i should take my friends advice and change my image then ask her or completly ignore asking her out all together. Its a hard decision cause i like her a lot.

hey, dont change your image for anyone girl or boy. i think you should still ask her out. the worse thing that can happen is a no. cait ♥

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Ok, so um...here's the point:
My nipples look like their all bruised and they hurt when something lightly touches them.I know this is disgusting but I'm kinda worried about it. If this is any help, they didn't "grow" yet.

hey, well im not a professional so this might not be it. they may sound a little weird but it could be from like people touching them or like them banging against something hard or sharp. also if you had a bad fall that could be it to. go get them checkedd out by a doctor. cait ♥

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