Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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I was thinking earlier in the day about this game I used to play when I was in second grade. There were 4 people at 4 different corners with one in the middle, and the people on the corners would try to switch 3 times to get the one in the middle out and not let them steal a corner.
What was this game called? Thanks. (link)
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Aw, I remember that game! It's called "Four Corners". :)
I hope I helped.
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Tonight I'm going to a bat mitzvah party that has costumes required. I'm being Barbie with one of my other friends. We won't really know anyone so we sorta want to look really good, but we don't know what to do for our hair?
Any suggestions?
[my hair is brown, wavy, but want to straighten it for tonight. Length is past my shoulders] (link)
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Most of the hairstyles barbie wears that are straight is whenever it's perfectly straight, she either has her hair parted straight in the middle, or she has parted off to the side.
If you have bangs, then you could pull your hair up into a cute ponytail.
You could also put your hair in some cute pigtails.
Also, sometimes barbie ( it's mostly when her hair's wavy though, but I think it would look cute straight also ) she has the ends of her hair sort of curled in like this:
http://enfant.free.fr/Coloriages/barbie/Image/Barbie03.gif
So maybe just take a curling iron if you have one and curl the end inwards to your hair.
So just try and mess around with a few of these styles ( it really depends on what kind of bangs you have or if you have any at all. )
I hope I helped.
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quick! im going to a party tonight and i have no costume. what could be a halloween costume involving a sexy little black dress? (link)
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Go as a Goth, or Gothic type person. Just say you're like, Elvira or a Vampire Princess or something. Just put on dark red lipstick, and if you don't have dark hair, get a dark wig and just wear some fishnets and some cute heels.
I hope I helped.
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15/f. i got my formal dress and i ordered it online. well it fits except it is a little short. so i tried it on with leggings and it looks cute, but i'm afraid that now it isn't dressy enough. the dance is a holiday winter formal and everybody gets all dressed up. here are two pictures and i'd like your opinion (guys & girls) on which way i should wear the dress.
http://img62.imageshack.us/img62/9889/dressnoleggingsqw5.jpg
http://img163.imageshack.us/img163/1583/dressdm2.jpg
THANKS!!! (link)
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I would probably go for the one without the leggings. The skirt really isn't all too short, and even though with leggings it IS cute, but it wouldn't really fit with the whole Winter Formal theme.
I hope I helped.
P.S. Hahaha, I have that dress. Isn't it gorgeous? you look great in it!
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Alexisonfire- Is it said Alex is on fire or Alexis on fire
How do you say Chiodos
How do you say Saosin.. someone told me it's like Say-ocean, but which syllable is stressed, SAY-oh-shin, say-OH-shin, or is it say-oh-SHIN (if you understand what I mean)
Augustana- Does the last 2 syllables rhyme with Donna, or Banana?
Thanks for the help =) (link)
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Chiodos- CHEE-OH-DOSE
Saosin- SAY-OH-SIN
Augustana- AUGUST-ANNA
I hope I helped.
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i met this guy through my friend "stacey" and he asked me how you doin' like joey on friends! and i was all like aww then the next day we tlaked in the hallway and then he gave me a note that say your hot and to call him and stuff. stacey is going out with his cousin. Stacey is sometiems known to strech or bend the truth and same with her best friend "robin" whichim really good friends with too. they are both telling me he jsut uses girls to sleep with them and he is a jerk and lies. he IS SO CUTE THOUGH and my otehr friend told me that i should tottaly go for it. i dont get guys very often, idk waht i should do! HELP! (link)
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Well, do what you want to do. Give him a chance!
I mean, if he DOES start to show signs of being a jerk and wanting to sleep with you and everything, you can always back out of the relationship then before you get too emotionally attached and everything ; which would then make it really hard to back out of the relationship.
So just give him a shot and see what happens, and if you don't like him boyfriend-wise, you can always break up.
I hope I helped.
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ok, i need help before 8:30, people. if you can help me, God bless you! My mom rented out a dress that's humoungous! and i have to wear it tonight to a party at my school whether i like it or not because she said so. But, i really don't wanna wear that! please give me ideas. talking to her won't help because i already tried that. please let me know. thank you (link)
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This has happened to me before. What I did was just all the "baggage material", whatever you want to call it, to the side of the dress ( where your arms are ) and fold it so it lays flat ( so it's not sticking out from your dress ) and just whenever you're standing there with your arms down, you or anyone'll barely notice.
Also, just try acessorizing so that it seems less big after you pin it some. Like one person said, try wearing a cute jacket with your dress so it doesn't look as big, or maybe even wear a shawl that goes with your dres ( girls always have scarf/shawl things that look cute with their outfit )!
Or you can do the infamous "switcheroo" of the outfits. Sometimes whenever mothers do this to their daughters, the daughter'll go out wearing the dress, but bring another dress they're going to wear along instead, and whenever they get to the party or in the car, they just quickly change outfits really quick and go to the party.
And then whenever they're going to leave, they change back into their mother's dress and go back home.
The "switcheroo" thing sounds a little too complicated, and'll probably leave you with guilty feelings, so try pinning it & acessorizing it first, and see how it goes. If you're a sewer, you can try cutting some of it off, and sewing it back together, too.
I hope I helped.
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I have medium longish hair that is between straight and semi wavey. Since my hair takes forever to dry, what are some hair styles that I can use when my hair is wet? (link)
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A style that alot of girls like to do that requires partially wet hair is scrunching it.
After you get out of the shower, you just blow dry your hair for awhile, but not enough so it's fully dry, it has to be damp still.
Then, you just take gel and rub it on your hands and just sort of grab a little bit of your air and "squeeze" it, I guess you'd say, so it makes waves. Then, just keep doing this to your whole head until it's all curly/wavy and maybe even spray some hairspray on your hair to ensure it'll stay the whole day.
It's a cute style of hair, alot of girls like to do it, and it beats straightening and drying your hair for hours.
I hope I helped.
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I am a gurl who is 13. There is a problem..i sorta have a moustache and some of the people in my class make fun of me and say to the whole class that i do. It isnt really big or anything, just a little hair. is this normal? (link)
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It can be normal. As girls begin to develop and grow and change and everything ( as all 13 year olds begin to do ), girls tend to grow hair on their legs, arm pits, etc., and some can grow light hair above their mouth.
It might also be because of your heritage. If you come from a background where the people in your family have thick hair or grow lots of hair, then it may also be just a genetics thing, as the person said below.
If you really want to get rid of it, just the next time you're taking a shower or bath, just take some shaving cream and shave it off ( real slowly of course so you don't cut your skin ).
I hope I helped.
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I'm taking a poll and I'm curious what people think the most spoken language is. Don't search the site or look at other people's answers and see. I want what YOU think. (link)
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Even though I'd probably instantly guess English because so many kids today in other countries are learning it, I'd have to go with Spanish or Chinese instead.
So many of us in America are taking Spanish and they've just started making Chinese Language classes so we can communicate for business ventures, and other things. So I'd go with Chinese or Spanish. I'd probably have to say more Chinese because it's such a large area with such a humongous (sp) population.
I hope I helped.
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ive been having the same screen name for atleast these past 3 or 4 years. someone has been signing onto my sn lately, and it signs me off! ive been trying to change my password. but when the security question "your pets name" comes up, i get the wrong answer. because i dont have a pet! and ive never had a pet! and plus i must've made up that answer like 4 years ago! i dont know what to do. but i do think its my boyfriend signing on.. me and him are like almost on break up mode! and he got mad cause i accused him! does anyone know how i can change my pw! (link)
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I really don't think there is a way to change your password. This has happened to me before also, and I wasn't able to sign back onto that screename because I didn't have the security question correct.
The best advice I can give you is to just create a new screename. In your profile, write, "SOMEONE IS SIGNING ONTO THIS SCREENAME. I'VE GOT A NEW ONE. CALL ME/TEXT ME/ASK ME ON MYSPACE/ETC FOR IT" and then just save your buddylist into a folder you can easily find and then create your new one. And whenever you go to your new buddylist and everything, just open the buddylist you saved, and all your friends'll be on it and just IM them and let them know you changed it.
As for your security question, make it something nobody would ever know. Like you said, you don't have a pet, so make the question that you have a pet, because nobody would be able to at least guess the answer, and make it something you've never said to a friend before, even as a joke. Make it the name like,"Heathcliff Huxtable" from the Cosby Show, haha.
And just remember: you can never trust anybody with your password, because you never know what's going to happen in the future & wether you'll break up or fight or what.
I hope I helped.
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There this boy and i think he likes me like more than friends and i only like him as a friend and im afraid hes going to ask me out and i wont have the heart to say no... he told this kid that he liked a girl in our school in our grade i think its me... ohto... watta i do
Merissa x3 (link)
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Well, you never know, you might wind up liking him.
I would tell him you'll think about it, and maybe you guys should go on a little date thing to see how it goes and everything, and just think of if you could possibly like this guy later on in the relationship or if you feel you're already developing feelings for him. Because you've only had friend feelings for him, you don't know what boyfriend feelings for him could be like.
But if you still find yourself only liking him as a friend and nothing more, you just got to be honest with him. Tell him you had a great time on the date, but you really only felt friendly vibes coming between the two of you, and you wouldn't want to ruin that, and you hope you saying no won't ruin the friendship you guys have. Even though you don't have the heart to say no, which is understandable, you can't go out with him as a pity thing. That'd only hurt him more in the end knowing he'd then be so much more emotionally involved, and knowing it's been this huge, pitiful, lie.
I hope I helped.
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19/F
For Halloween I'm going dressed up as Tom Cruise in Risky Business... you know, the scene where he's dancing in his undies and a dress shirt?
Well, my question is this... do I wear the costume with black fishnets underneath, or beige pantyhose? I think the fishnets might make it a little less slutty (I'm scared people will think I'm really just wearing undies)
This is tomorrow, so I need opinions! (link)
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Actually, in my opinion, I think the fish nets might come off even more sluttyish. A shirt and fishnets doesn't really give off a good vibe to people.
Even so, I understand your thought on the beige pantyhose and everything, but they do shine somewhat in the light and everything, so I'm sure they'll be able to notice that you're wearing pantyhose. Also, maybe to make yourself feel a little better about wearing them, whenever you're in conversation with people, just bring up maybe the cold or the weather or something ( depending where you live ) and be like,"Sheesh, it's cold! All I got on my legs are these pantyhose, ack!"
Also, if you wear the fishnets, it won't go too well with the costume idea. But I wouldn't be suprised if Tom dances around the house in fishnets and a t-shirt. He has no problem jumping all over Oprah's couches..
I hope I helped.
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one of my best friends has a gf from our "click." she's not the best gf though, he likes her and all but she is obsessed w/ drama. if he forgets to find her in the hall after 3rd period she doesn't talk to him for a week 0.o I find this quite stupid and feel she is not right for him, however she is a nice girl otherwise and if they do break up, our click will be kinda awkward...anyway he's a really cool guy and I would hate for him to be dumped or for him to have to dump her if something else stupid happens...
kk thnx for help guys
-van (link)
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Yeah, it probably would become awkward if they were to break up, but they are going to have to break up at some point in their lives. Most teenage relationships hardly last forever, so it's bound to happen sometime, so it's best to get out now before one or the other gets very emotionally involved, and doubles the drama.
Even though it might become awkward, most cliques tend to reform the group and fit back the pieces slowly one by one until it's all normal again. There's always going to be friendships lost, break ups, etc, but the group always usually finds a way to remain good again after awhile of effort to make it as normal as it can.
Just let the relationship continue for awhile, and then maybe have a talk about it with him and see his view on things. Just be like,"I know you really like her and everything, but she doesn't seem like the best possible girlfriend for you. She gets way too dramatic over things, and that's just not a healthy relationship." And see wether he wants to break up with her or not ; it IS his decision. But like I said, even if he doesn't break up with her NOW, they probably will sooner or later anyways, so best be prepared with some conversation and things so that whenever they do, you guys have stuff to do and stuff to say to make it less awkward between everyone.
I hope I helped.
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I really like this friend, and i'm sure he knows. We are both in relationships. He kissed me one day(at a party) and we haven't seen each other since. We still chat sometimes by emails, but never talked about why he kissed me that night.
I'm going to see him in couple days for a mutul friend's event, and I know he will ignore me(from how I understand/know him), and then I know i will fell so upset about it. HOWEVER, I really want to see him. What should I do to make myself feel better if he ignore me? (link)
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The reason he is probably acted as though nothing happened, and is expecting you to do the same is because you both are in relationships. You basically both cheated on your others, and he might feel ashamed and guilty about it happening.
Also, if you guys weren't in relationships whenever this kiss was shared, then maybe he just might be plain embarassed. He might think you don't like him back, or you're shocked that he did it or something, and he just wants to pretend it never happened.
But the point is, that you two kissed, which shows you to both were liking eachother alot at the party, and both may still possibly like eachother, which might explain why he's ignoring you. He might be afraid he'll kiss you again, hence once more ( or for the first time ) cheating on his other, which would result in once again, the ashamed and guilty feelings.
So seeing as you two probably have feelings for eachother, even though he's ignoring you, why keep letting him do it? I would go up to him at the party, and stand infront of him so he can't walk away. If he does, grab his arm or something and tell him you NEED to talk to him about what happened between you guys that night. And just talk to him about it, and explain your feelings to him. Let him know you're really liking him, and you don't know if he feels the same, but if he does, obviously that kiss meant something for the both of you. And just see what happens. Hopefully, he'll like you back ( which I'm sure he does obviously! ) and you two'll get togehter, or even if he doesn't anymore, then just at least you kno why he was acting so strangley and everything straightened out, and you two can still remain good friends. Better friends then nothing, right?
I hope I helped.
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http://www.spirithalloween.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.detail/categoryID/307855fb-9545-47a7-a98e-6ef7a52aacbd/productID/482db256-b160-4eef-89ea-b20d450ab3a0/
is this slutty or is it cute?!
i need help! (link)
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Well, it's not really "cute", but it's not slutty either. But that's probably why the costumes entitled "sexy" instead, haha.
I don't think it's slutty at all. I mean, I do find the bottom of the dress a little bit short, but I mean you are wearing long socks so it's covering most of yourself up and looking cute at the same time.
I say wear it.
:)
I hope I helped.
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Ok well i fell inlove with this one guy and i lost my virginity to him and all that good stuff but hes just a player. And i basically thought i got over him and recently started dating this other guy because i realized that there was no sence in waiting for the 1st guy two stop being a player and love me like he should...which is what everyone told me to do and its workin out fairly well....But my problem is, is today i was hanging out with him (tha player) because he lives with me (DONT ASK)and the way he was acting is the way before i would know that he wanted to fuck around. Since im not doing anything with my boyfriend yet because ive been introuble and not able to leave the house i was really just wanting to start makin out with tha
"player" and get laid because im definitely still physically attracted to him even though i dont want to be. I was really holding it back because i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend. I never cheated before and ive never been cheated on. I would be really pissed and fuck up who ever my boyfriend cheated on me with if he did that to me...so i dont want to be a hipocryt and do something fucked up like that because i totally hate cheaters...but idk what i should do because its like this super hot ass guy just there wanting to get with you...and knowing that not one person would know bout it... What do you think bout this situation? (link)
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Well, you practically answered this question for yourself. Don't do it ; like you said, you don't want to be a hypocrite and think of how you'd feel if you were in your boyfriends shoes. Hurt, betrayed, so many different, bad feelings.
Do you also know for one, how awkward that would be for you to live with your ex-boyfriend after you both know you've just cheated on your current boyfriend? It was just keep happening and continue to spiral down into mayhem. Also, think of how you'd be labeled to your boyfriend and possibly other people who many find out; "untrustworthy" "cheater" "liar", the names could go on.
Also, like you've also said about your ex-boyfriend ; he's a player. I'm sure he's not going to want to be dating any girl any time soon, if he can have many more. Something like that probably isn't going to go anywhere ; but I know, and you probably know your boyfriend isn't. He's going to stay with you for a good while.. unless you cheat on him. So being with your ex is probably just a relationship or fling, or whatever it is, that isn't going to go anywhere.
I know that you're not able to leave the house or anything, and you're sitting there wanting to make out with somebody, but just wait. It's not going to be worth it in the end. Maybe try and see if your boyfriend can come over your house and hang out with you.
Just, I hope I helped, and I hope you make the right decision by not cheating on your boyfriend. It's just going to be highly negative and bad on your part, and you're probably going to wind up regretting it anyways.
I hope I helped.
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I sit next to two really annoying kids, what should I do?
I hate them, but I don't want confrontation. (link)
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Just try your best to focus your attention onto whatever it is you're doing. Sometimes whenever I do my homework during school, I get so concentrated on reading everything and finding out the answers ; I totally forget where I am.
Or, just after school, just explain to your teachers that the people you're sitting near are bothering you quite a bit and you're having trouble concentrating, so if you could please possibly be moved to another seat somewhere in the room.
I hope I helped.
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my friend did something really bad to me and it really hurt my feelings. should i forgive her? (link)
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Well, you have to be more specific on what she did. If it's something really small, then it might be forgivable, everyone DOES deserve a second chance.
But if it's something really bad, you might want to talk about it with her first and see how that goes. She does need to apologize to. I wouldn't try and continue the friendship first until she apologizes.
So if you want to tell me the whole story, I might be able to give better advice.
So if you want to message me back or IM me or anything, feel free to. :)
I hope I helped.
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14/F My cousin and I are thee same age but she is a grade higher well I start to like a guy then she says she will call them and talk to them for me. Well after i give her the number, she calls them but she ends up hooking up with them! Wat should I do? (link)
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Well first of all, stop giving her their numbers and everything, haha.
Also, stop telling her who you like. If she doesn't know, she can't call them, and she can't hook up with them.
I wouldn't really trust her anymore. If she can easily go and do that to you behind your back after she knows you already like them, then you probably can't trust her with much. So keep your secrets secret, and don't tell her anything you don't want anybody finding out, or you don't want her hooking up with them or anything.
Some secrets are just better left unsaid.
I hope I helped.
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