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friend gf annoying
one of my best friends has a gf from our "click." she's not the best gf though, he likes her and all but she is obsessed w/ drama. if he forgets to find her in the hall after 3rd period she doesn't talk to him for a week 0.o I find this quite stupid and feel she is not right for him, however she is a nice girl otherwise and if they do break up, our click will be kinda awkward...anyway he's a really cool guy and I would hate for him to be dumped or for him to have to dump her if something else stupid happens...
kk thnx for help guys
-van
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Yeah, it probably would become awkward if they were to break up, but they are going to have to break up at some point in their lives. Most teenage relationships hardly last forever, so it's bound to happen sometime, so it's best to get out now before one or the other gets very emotionally involved, and doubles the drama.
Even though it might become awkward, most cliques tend to reform the group and fit back the pieces slowly one by one until it's all normal again. There's always going to be friendships lost, break ups, etc, but the group always usually finds a way to remain good again after awhile of effort to make it as normal as it can.
Just let the relationship continue for awhile, and then maybe have a talk about it with him and see his view on things. Just be like,"I know you really like her and everything, but she doesn't seem like the best possible girlfriend for you. She gets way too dramatic over things, and that's just not a healthy relationship." And see wether he wants to break up with her or not ; it IS his decision. But like I said, even if he doesn't break up with her NOW, they probably will sooner or later anyways, so best be prepared with some conversation and things so that whenever they do, you guys have stuff to do and stuff to say to make it less awkward between everyone.
I hope I helped.
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You are right it would be awkward if they break up. However, even the best friendships are always evolving. So if they do break up, most likely things in the click will have a way of working out. One of both of them will move on to other friendships and relationships. Just try your hardest to remain neutral and not take sides. Otherwise you or other "click" members may get the blame for something that's not your fault.
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