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thinkin bout cheating?
Ok well i fell inlove with this one guy and i lost my virginity to him and all that good stuff but hes just a player. And i basically thought i got over him and recently started dating this other guy because i realized that there was no sence in waiting for the 1st guy two stop being a player and love me like he should...which is what everyone told me to do and its workin out fairly well....But my problem is, is today i was hanging out with him (tha player) because he lives with me (DONT ASK)and the way he was acting is the way before i would know that he wanted to fuck around. Since im not doing anything with my boyfriend yet because ive been introuble and not able to leave the house i was really just wanting to start makin out with tha
"player" and get laid because im definitely still physically attracted to him even though i dont want to be. I was really holding it back because i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend. I never cheated before and ive never been cheated on. I would be really pissed and fuck up who ever my boyfriend cheated on me with if he did that to me...so i dont want to be a hipocryt and do something fucked up like that because i totally hate cheaters...but idk what i should do because its like this super hot ass guy just there wanting to get with you...and knowing that not one person would know bout it... What do you think bout this situation?
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Well, you practically answered this question for yourself. Don't do it ; like you said, you don't want to be a hypocrite and think of how you'd feel if you were in your boyfriends shoes. Hurt, betrayed, so many different, bad feelings.
Do you also know for one, how awkward that would be for you to live with your ex-boyfriend after you both know you've just cheated on your current boyfriend? It was just keep happening and continue to spiral down into mayhem. Also, think of how you'd be labeled to your boyfriend and possibly other people who many find out; "untrustworthy" "cheater" "liar", the names could go on.
Also, like you've also said about your ex-boyfriend ; he's a player. I'm sure he's not going to want to be dating any girl any time soon, if he can have many more. Something like that probably isn't going to go anywhere ; but I know, and you probably know your boyfriend isn't. He's going to stay with you for a good while.. unless you cheat on him. So being with your ex is probably just a relationship or fling, or whatever it is, that isn't going to go anywhere.
I know that you're not able to leave the house or anything, and you're sitting there wanting to make out with somebody, but just wait. It's not going to be worth it in the end. Maybe try and see if your boyfriend can come over your house and hang out with you.
Just, I hope I helped, and I hope you make the right decision by not cheating on your boyfriend. It's just going to be highly negative and bad on your part, and you're probably going to wind up regretting it anyways.
I hope I helped.
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Don't compromise your relationship with your current boyfriend for this jerk. Hot or snot. You will regret it and feel guilty about it for the rest of your life. After you do it the first time, you may be tempted to do it again and again. Have some respect and pride for yourself.
I don't know the circumstances surrounding the fact that he's living with you. You say "DONT ASK", but I'm going to. Excuse my language, but what the hell are you thinking? Whatever is going on, get out of that situation. Leave your house, hurt his feelings, move in with your boyfriend, do whatever you need to do. You have to stay away from this guy. He's going to ruin your life and make you hate yourself.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you decide not to cheat on your boyfriend. It's always your decision how you decide to live your life, but be very careful what choices you make. They can have a huge, negatice impact on your present and future relationships.
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listen, if he's a player you will probably end up crushed in the end because he might find someone else and dump you.
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