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Ok..I have a very, very irregular period..but I got on birthcontorl because I didn’t have a cycle for atleast 4 months, so for about 2 weeks I got on birthcontal and the whole to weeks I was on my perriod, and it made my tummy hurt so I stoped taking it! And about 2 or 3 weeks after that me and my boyfriend had sex 9times without a comden, and I was off the pill, and he did not pull out…so is there a possaiblety that I migth be pergant..even thought my period is very irregular?

hmm. yeah That wasnt the smartest choice. But, we all do make mistakes =] Um. Chances of you being pregnant? VERY HIGH. 9 times WITHOUT a condom reduces youre chance of becoming pregant. You should seriously start thinking about telling youre bf to wear a condom, and you should go on the pill again. If youre not sure if youre pregnant then also take a test to be sure.

Good luck sweetie =]

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are there any websites that you can look up the meanings of songs ?

www.songmeanings.net

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What are some signs of cheating? Besides the obvious ones.. Also any expieriences that happened to you or someone you know would be great.

thanks

http://www.spousealert.homestead.com/signs_of_cheating.html

http://womansdivorce.com/signs-of-cheating.html


Theres some sites that may help.

Goood luck

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Ok well i like this guy and i dont no if he likes me back soo what do i do? im 13 female

heres some signs...

Guys usually find a way to let a girl know that they like them. Does he seem to be where you are even though there's no reason for him to be there? Does he look into your eyes and hold the look a little more than necessary? Is he polite to you? Has he asked any of your friends about you? If you want him to notice you, do the things to him that you wish he would do to you. If he doesn't respond, then you know he's not interested. In that case, move on.

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Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing.


Good Luck

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how do you let a boy know you like him?

Smile at him and try to learn more about his interests. Asking him questions about who he is and what he likes to do will make him feel good about himself when he is around you. Once you build a friendship you can take it further by asking him to spend time with you.

Good luck

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Uhm im 14 & havent had my first kiss. I feel awkward like everyone else has. Kinda like a third wheel. & im not very attractive. How do i get guys to notice my personality and not focus so much on how i look?

Well,dont feel bad about it. I know people that are 18 and still havent had there first kiss. Everyones times is different. Be as confident as you can! Guys love when girls are confident. But, dont get to the point where ur like cocky confident. Another thing they like is when girls dont talk bad about other girls. If you do they will just think u need attention. The most you can do is just be yourself, i know people always say that...but its true. That is the only way that will honestly help. And be patient, i know its hard but youre first time will come. I promise.

Good luck

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I need to know a great idea on where to have a date celebrating me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary. Please help me.

Where ever you both met.


=]

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19/male
I just had sex with my boyfriend of 5 years and we both loved it.. the thing is.. I don't know if he has HIV or not.. because I asked him.. and he just said, "It doesn't matter honey, let's just do it.." and he kissed me so passionately that i couldn't refuse sex with him.. and he said it kinda in a way that sounded like he did.. but I'm not sure if he has HIV..
should I be worried- because I love him so much!!
Thanks a lot!
♥Jake

Well, you would think that he wouldnt put you in that kind of danger if he did.

But, from the sounds of it...he has it. If somebody said that to me, i would definetly be like no, were not doing it.

You and him should go together to get checked. Even though u prob dont have it, just go to make him feel like the focus isnt only on him.

Good luck

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Is there anyway that I can cover up all these ugly pimples i have all over my face?

thank you.

Get concealer.

It does reallly good as long as you get ur skin tone.

I would get covergirl or almay =]

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hi im 16/female
ok so today i was jumping on my neighbors trampoline when i felt wet. i thought i just peed a little but when i got home there was blood everywhere. this is strange because i had my period a week and a half ago. i asked my friend and she thinks my cherry somehow popped. did it?

Well, if it hurt you may have.

Youre period may just be irregular && you might have started your period again.

When you pop ur cherry theres usually not a lot of blood. If youre still bleeding im sure you didnt.

If youre not bleeding && a lot was there, go see a doctor.

good luck

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everyone thinks im gay because i dance and hang out with girls...im sure its normal because, well i like girls. what could i do to show im straight to people so they could get off my back about it? -Tom

Who cares what people think.
If you want to prove to them that youre not gay, then get a gf =]
Then they'll see how retarded they are && probably get jealous because u have a gf.
Another reason why they probably make fun of you is because YOUR the one who gets to hang out with girls, and they dont.

Haha, screw em =]

Good luck

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is crest whitestrips or the rembrant brnad bad for braces? my mom says it will dull the metal and bleach the colored 0-rings on them i dono.

Definetly wait until you get them off.

My one friend used them while she had braces.

It looked terrible, she begged her mom to let her get it fixed...thank god she did.


So, dont! =]

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i have tried every eyeliner from waterproof to smudgeproof but it all comes off! what really works?

Covergirl

perfect point plus

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my boyfriend is going to propose to me on christmas (i over heard...oops!) it will then be 7 months we have gone out. Is that bad? I mean it doesnt mean we are gonna get married...

Well. Its bad if you dont love him.

Ask yourself if your ready for that.
ask yourself if you wanna spend the rest of ur life with him.
Ask yourself will you be there for him thru anything?
Ask yourself if you really want to do this.


Go somewhere quiet and ask yourself these.

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16/f ahh im bloating really bad. its never been this bad.

and also,, is it possible to get your period or bleed when you are pregnant?

thanks
x3

Take midol for the bloating! It works great for me.



It is possible yes. But, only VERY lightly. If its heavy that basically means miscarriage. But, yes you can bleed very lightly && still be pregnant.

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Can anyone find me this song so i can put it on myspace.. the song code

Tourniquet- Evanescence

Ive tried google but it only has music videos! If i can just get a website!!!

Ah. I love evanescence!

Great pick!

I will look for you! =]

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Is it true that water helps so that your face clears up?

By drinking 8 cups of water or more a day helps with lots of things! It makes you very healthy.


Just make you pee a lot. =]

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ok is it possible to break ur hymen without having sex? and does it bleed when you break it, and for how lonmg does it bleed?

Yes its very possible by playing sports,riding horses,tampons,vibrators.


You usually bleed, some people dont though. I did only for about maybe 2 days but it was very light and only when i wiped myself

Good luck

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ok im 16/f and its kinda embarrassing but i finger myself alot and its startiung to get dull, does anyone have a better way to make it more pleasueful , like can you tell stories or something?

use the facuet method.


Look it up on google.

works great =]

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14/f
ok so if i get at least a b- in all my classes this semester i get a "reward" from my mother....what do u think i should ask for?

dont say:
-cellphones or sidekicks or w.e...i got that stuff
-ipods, i have a nano
-digital camera, i got a real nice one last yr
-tvs or laptops or whatever (cause im gettin a pink laptop next semester)
-cash
-giftcards
-any sort of pet
-any video game system or w.e
-and dont say stuff like clothes, purses, shoes, accecories......

sry but i just cant think of something good.........plz help! any advice is appreciated thnxxx xoxo

what about a piercing?


or stuff to redecorate ur room?

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