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I'm insert name. I've been on this site for a couple of years.I love: playing music, reading, and Jolly Ranchers.
I hate: purple, avocados, and cults.
I tell: the truth.
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okay so im only 13 (f) but i really like, no, LOVE rap songs. not songs that like you cant make out the words and they sing really fast, but like the song "Low". Whenever my older brother plays his i pod i love to sing and dance to all of his kewl songs but he just calls me a dork. none of my other friends like the same kind of songs. Should i try to like the other songs or should i just listen to my songs when im alone?
Listen to the music you like. Don't limit yourself to just one genre. When I was your age, I listened to all kinds of stuff that my friends had never even heard of. They were just into like Britney Spears and boy bands. Now, they've started listening to the music that I've been listening to all along. So your musical taste will change naturally over time, but don't listen to certain kinds of music just because your friends think it's cool.
I can not remember if I took a tampon out from December and I heve been feeling pretty goggy since that date I think or maybe it could be in my mind.
DO you think something would have happened by now if i still left it in or do you think i should go doctors.
Okay, go get a mirror, take your pants off, and set it so that you can actually see in there to see if there's anything in there. I highly doubt it is still in there because after a few weeks at least you would have been having like fever and all sorts of crazy stuff going on. There's a certain amount of psychology to it, too- most likely, you've been feeling weird because you think you've left the tampon in (which would consequently give you diseases)... so you think that you should be sick. This is subconsciously, by the way. Anyway, something would have happened by now, but if you really want you can go to the doctor.
how d you get wrinkles out of paper? because i have to turn in an art project and it looks so crinkled up and everything and she will take off points and i need as many points as possible! thanks so much! :]
Haha, I've never tried to iron it before... get a few REALLY heavy books, like dictionaries or encyclopedias or textbooks... lay the paper on a table and stack the books on top of it. Leave it overnight and it will be good for tomorrow morning :) I've always done this with posters and stuff. It works wonders!
does anyone know who built the first castles and what they were like
and also
what was the feudal system and how did it start
thanksss!!
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Castles
Castles evolved from forts that were in Rome. European castles (normal castles) started in the 9th century in France. They were like castles.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feudal_system
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/feudalism
Similarly, a feudal contract binds vassal to lord.
for cheerleading..i know they give you the underwear things for under the skirt..but are you supposed to were your own like regular underwear under them?
Yeah, it's best to get some skin colored underwear and then wear the cheerleading underwear over it.
how can you tell the difference in a jealous type boyfriend vs. just a protective one? obviously one is protective and one acts jealous but can you elaborate for me? bc he claims to not be jealous haha but he kind of acts otherwise.
Here's a good way to tell: If you are hanging out with other guys who are generally good people and are not going to endanger you, then your boyfriend shouldn't get jealous unless you're openly flirting with them. If he gets jealous, then he's being out of line. However, if you are hanging out with a bunch of sleazeballs who are probably going to rape you and your boyfriend comes to the rescue, then that's okay. If he wants to know where you are every second of the day, or texts you several times a day just asking what you're doing, then he is being overbearing. Don't ever let him control your life or what you do and make sure to develop friendships aside from the one with your boyfriend. I know people who were in long-term relationships and only hung out with each other, and then when they broke up they had no friends. If you ever feel like he's being even slightly jealous, then he is. If you're okay with him hanging out with other girls (and hopefully you trust him) then he should give you the same trust back.
when you use tanning lotions are you suppose to put it on your face? and how long does it usually last? and has anyone used the sundial tanning lotion? on a scale of 1 - 10, 1 being bad, 10 being good, how well does it work?
It's probably not good to put it on your face unless it's specially formulated for faces. Neutrogena makes a sunless tanner that is especially for your face. It usually lasts for a few weeks at least. It depends. I've never used Sundial before; I use Jergen's, which works very well on me- I have fair skin. If you quit applying Jergen's, it begins to fade. That's kind of good though because with sunless tanners it's really easy to forget to wipe your hands off, and then you might end up touching your face, which might leave a big orange handprint. Well, just kidding, it would most likely not do that, but always remember to wash your hands afterward. My fingers turned orange last year :) Haha, it went away though.
im 13 and bi.but i dont want people to no that.i want t apiercing on my face but i dont know where to get it without looking that gay.where should i get it
Most schools don't allow facial piercings, so you may want to lay off of that for a while. And you didn't say if you were a guy or a girl... but if you're a guy, then an eyebrow or lip piercing would be good, and if you're a girl, the nose stud is always a good choice.
Awhile back, I joined the newspaper at my college. Unfortunately, I decided that it wasn't a good fit and dropped the activity about a month and a half later. When I had only been working there for about two weeks, I was approached about purchasing a t-shirt with the organization's name on it, and I agreed. Now, several weeks later, I have been informed that the t-shirts have come in. One person (who was in charge of purchasing the t-shirts) has asked me to pay for mine. Now that I'm no longer a part of the organization, I don't particularly want to pay for an overpriced t-shirt that I can't wear. As a college student with no job, I can't really afford to buy things left and right, especially if I don't need (or even want) them. I certainly would pay if I were still a part of the organization, but now I'm not sure what to do. The t-shirt isn't personalized- should I pay and get the shirt, or tell them to sell it to someone else?
You committed to the activity, so you are obligated to pay for the shirt that you agreed to in the first place. I understand that you don't want to pay for it or that you can't afford it, but at one time you were a part of the newspaper and they ordered a shirt for you. You don't need to leave them high and dry. Besides that, after college you will hopefully want to land a good job and you don't want to have a reputation of not being able to commit to something. Anyway, the fact of the matter is that you agreed in the first place so they are going to hold you to that. Just pay for the shirt and donate it to the Salvation Army if you don't want to wear it.
kay so i wanna find my old friends but everywhere i go they wont give me any information unless the person im searching for is over 18
and i really need help so if you know a web site or some thing plz let me know
oh and i dont wanna pay any money
The best thing I've dealt with as far as finding people is facebook and myspace. If you want addresses and you possibly know their parents' names, go to yellowpages.com and that can give you more information.
kayy so, i know meny people dont wanna hear this but i believe it so i'm going to stand up for what i beileve even if you guys dont like & wanna hear it :)
i believe tupac is still alive not in the states of calie or anywhere around there; or anything.
i believe he faked hit death because of biggie;
i mean honestly he did/does have ALOT of money he could do anything with money! i mean if someone handed you 1.million dollars and told you to say he died on that bed right there you would TAKE it and say he died am i right?
he is prob living in jamaica with LONG hair.
changed his name & everything!
you never really know & he isnt that old hes only 36 or 37; i dont know i believe in him & i believe hes alive. & if he isnt then what can ya do? if you feel me on this say whats up.
Haha, well, here are some sites with some cool info about Tupac and his "death" or whatever:
http://www.angelfire.com/ca3/onlygod/alive.html
http://www.cracked.com/article_15659_tupac-shakur-still-alive.html
Supposedly there was also a CNN article in April 2005 talking about how there was a Tupac sighting. There's no telling :)
EDIT: Okay, here's the article:
http://forum.softpedia.com/lofiversion/index.php/t53802.html
It's definitely pretty interesting :)
My brother reads my text messages
and it really pisses me off. I was going out with this guy Joe Hullenfield and he was like "Whose Joe H and why does he call you baby?"
Cuz i left my purse in the kitchen and he took me phone out.
i tell him to stop but he just keeps doing it
its so annoying and an invasion of provacy and im mad because i ddint want him to see any of my txts. and yes he read ALL OF THEM. not just that one.
It's unlikely that he'll stop, even if you do talk to him, so put a passcode on your phone. It depends on what kind of phone you have, but all phones can have codes that you have to put in to see text messages. If you don't have a flip phone, you can set it so that when you lock your keys it puts a code on it and you can only unlock the keys if you type in the code. My friend used to have a Razr and typed in a code every time she wanted to view her messages. It's pretty easy to do and should be in your settings. If all else fails, delete the texts that you really don't want him to read and keep your phone with you at all times.
ohkay so me and my friend lily (thats wat we are going to call her) have become EXTREMLY close latley..and use to be the five us.. and no its just the 2 of us..and i really really really miss it and all but the other 3 are all the same. like me and lily have done more sexually and like with boys and stuff.. and we are more for parties and drinking and stuff.. and they are laid back and dont like any of that.. tey do but its not the same as us.. and they are always saying boys more important to us than tey are..which is nt ttrue at all..our friends ALAYS come first..but i mean we arent lezbos or anyttingg..
so the other night me and lily were spending the nigt at our friend clays house .. and lik both of parents iddnt no so we said we were at our friends house..but te mom called our friend and she told her mom what she knew and i mean im nto mad or anything..bt i mena she could have alteast been smart enought to think of someting cause she knew where were rigtt?!?! and so lilys mom got REALLY REALLY REALLY mad at uss..and lily is grouned for a moth :( whihc is not good..
nad so my friend tinks shes bene ussed which se really hasnt and this sucks cause no we are in this non point of a fight and i just want everyhig bak to the way it wass :(
WHAT SHOULD I DO??!?!??!
It's obvious from your speech pattern that you are not prepared for drinking, sexual activity, or partying. There's where your problem stems from- your more laid-back friends sound like they have a lot more sense than you do. And if a friend EVER accuses you of putting boys before them... they are probably right. That's just the way it works. You don't realize it until someone calls you out on it.
As for the "lie to both sets of parents" about "spending the night at someone elses house" thing, that is really old. Don't ever expect someone to fall for that. And your friend who told about it- she did the right thing. You could have been dead on the side of the road and nobody would have known about it. And that's frightening. It may not hit you hard until you know somebody who has died because of something like that. Then it scares the living shit out of you.
Lily is grounded for a month because she deserved it for sneaking around. There's no way around that. If I snuck around and my parents caught me I'd have a lot more to worry about than being grounded for a month.
And the fact of the matter is, you DID use your other friend. What the hell is she supposed to do- cover for you TWICE when you are obviously using her to go hang out with guys? I swear to God, if I was her, I would not put up with you and Lily (and I don't see why she has before).
If you want everything to be back how it was, you have some serious thinking, changing, and apologizing to do.
In the meantime, please learn how to spell.
I am so scared right now. Back on Dec 8th, i lost my virginity but it was more like a rape type thing. I didnt press charges or anything. He DID use protection. I still thought I was pregnant but my period was a few days late. So I took the test and it came out negative. So then on Christmas I got my period. I was happy as hell. On New Years Eve, I moved back home with my crazy mom who i still cant stand, i started school again, I was at the studio more, I changed my job site to a different school with bad kids and also a change in diet and exercise because i am obese and tryin to change my lifestyle. I havent got my period since Christmas. I did NOT have any signs of spotting or nausea like some of the symptoms. dont have none of that. My breast arent larger just stomache pains when i think about being pregnant. I asked my friends and 7 out of 8 said im not pregnant, that because of the activity my hormones changed because i had sex and that I am probably stressed. I use to be on birth control but stop Dec 2006. After that my period took it's own course like I had it vday 2007 but didnt get it again til end of April 2007. then it starts skippin weeks and months. Sometimes it just skips a month. But it feels weird not having it. It makes me nervous
Okay, don't be nervous. WAY more than likely, you are NOT pregnant. Considering that he used protection and that you had a period afterward AND the pregnancy test came out negative is clear enough that you're not pregnant. Also, because you're been irregular before and you're dealing with new stress, it doesn't surprise me that it's irregular now. Also, being stressed out, nervous, or working out more can delay your period. Don't quit working out or anything, but that could be the cause of it. If there's any doubt in your mind, take another test.
i'm in forensics, and for those of you who don't know what that is, it's a school activity and many schools throughout the nation have their own forensics team and it's competitive public speaking. there are different sections, two of which are debate & speech. well, i'm in speech, declamation specifically, and i had to memorize someone else's speech and i simply have to recite it (with hand gestures, etc.) several times in the different rounds. my state tournament, nj, is from march 7-8, and well, i'm pretty nervous. i've never been to a state tournament before, and it's a two-day tournament except not overnight. i'm just nervous because the only reason i broke (break = get to the final round) in one of my last tournaments (in order to qualify for state tournaments, you have to break in at least one tournament) was because there weren't that many people. but now that it's the state tournament, it's going to be very competitive, and there's going to be a LOT of kids who do better than me.
here are my questions. you can answer any or all of the following:
1.) does anyone have any advice for a declamation speecher in forensics?
2.) any advice for public speaking in general? (don't tell me the obvious. doing say "hand gestures" -- please be as specific as you can)
3.) any advice on how to be less nervous? i know by thursday night i'll be spazzing.
thank you!
Don't freak out about possibly not doing well- if you made it to the state tournament, you must be pretty darn good! And as long as you represent your school well, then it doesn't matter what place you get. With that out of the way...
1.) & 2.) These links may not help, but it's worth a shot:
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=speech
Also, I know that people say "look at the back of the room" or whatever, but I can totally tell when people are doing that. When I give speeches, I try to make eye contact with everybody in the first and second rows throughout my speech. That way, they know that I'm talking TO them and then they want to hear what I'm saying. Speak clearly and confidently. If you trip over your words, that makes me not want to listen to you. I recently saw a former president speak, and he made eye contact with many people in the room and enveloped his audience because he was such a confident speaker. You will seem much more personable if you make LOADS of eye contact, smile every once in a while, and speak confidently. Just walk in that room thinking that you are the best of the best and the people in the room are just glad to be graced with your presence :)
3.) Practice, practice, practice! If you have any doubts about your speech, you WILL get nervous. Try drinking hot tea, taking deep breaths. There are good and bad forms of stress, and getting the butterflies before a speech is a good form of stress so it's pretty much inevitable. If you do get nervous, grab the edge of your podium (if you have one) so that people don't see your hands shaking.
Good luck!
i met this lady whos on her 40s she juz got from mexico but needs eye surgury rite away or she could be left blind she dosent have the $$$$ 2 pay for it and since she got here in california she has no health insuranca and yeah she came here illegally but is there any place she can get help plz
Because she is illegal, it is going to be extremely difficult for her. Besides that, she can't get insurance if she doesn't have citizenship. Here are some helpful websites outlining the California Health policies:
http://www.ca.gov/Health/HealthCareServ.html
http://www.dhcs.ca.gov/Pages/default.aspx
http://www.ca.gov/Health/HealthCareServ/HealthInsurance.html
What would be a good colour that would represent Medusa, or be her complimentary colour?
I would think green, not only because of the snakes, but also because green is considered to be an "evil" color in the way of archetypes. I looked up color archetypes and here are some more:
Black: evil, melancholy, chaos, mystery, the unknown, and death
Red: blood, sacrifice, and disorder
Green: death, decay
These are all "negative", which is what I'm assuming you're looking for.
i am about to start the drums and i gave up on the guitar. and i want to join my schools band (no i am not a nerd that joins the band i am just trying to learn it). should i what do i do?
Are you talking about a trapset or about actual percussion in a band (like drumline)? Either way, it's a really hard instrument to teach yourself so I would advise that you find someone (one of your friends or somebody) who plays drums and get a few pointers from them. I'm not even a percussionist (I can play the drums) but even though I can hold down a beat, there are so many things that I don't know about it- like the different ways to hold the sticks. So here are some helpful sites:
http://www.wikihow.com/Special:LSearch?fulltext=Search&search=drums
But you will get the most help from somebody who can actually teach you. If you're thinking about joining a school band, then you would probably have to learn how to read drum music. It's pretty easy for me, but then again I've had ten years of classical piano. Good luck!
is earnie from george lopez's accent fake? because when he talks, it sounds like hes faking it.
Yes, it is fake. I don't think I've ever heard someone talk like that naturally :)
so right now i wear glasses. as in 24/7 :P
but i find that, wearing glasses make my eyes worser. and i hate the way i look in glasses. and i do not want to live the rest of my life with glasses.. :( and i currently go to school but in the summer im gonna try to get used to contacts.
so my question is,
1) are contacts hard to get used to ?
2) do wear both,glasses and contacts?
ohkayy well thanks in advance. :)
I got used to contacts within three minutes of putting them in :) They don't hurt, feel bad, or anything. It might be weird at first, but you forget that you have them in! It's awesome. I wear both glasses and contacts (well, not at the same time) because I like the way I look with both. If you wear contacts long enough you might find yourself wearing glasses a few days a month because it looks cute. Or maybe not. If you wanted, you could go get contacts next week and be used to them in time for school the next day.