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ohkay so me and my friend lily (thats wat we are going to call her) have become EXTREMLY close latley..and use to be the five us.. and no its just the 2 of us..and i really really really miss it and all but the other 3 are all the same. like me and lily have done more sexually and like with boys and stuff.. and we are more for parties and drinking and stuff.. and they are laid back and dont like any of that.. tey do but its not the same as us.. and they are always saying boys more important to us than tey are..which is nt ttrue at all..our friends ALAYS come first..but i mean we arent lezbos or anyttingg..
so the other night me and lily were spending the nigt at our friend clays house .. and lik both of parents iddnt no so we said we were at our friends house..but te mom called our friend and she told her mom what she knew and i mean im nto mad or anything..bt i mena she could have alteast been smart enought to think of someting cause she knew where were rigtt?!?! and so lilys mom got REALLY REALLY REALLY mad at uss..and lily is grouned for a moth :( whihc is not good..
nad so my friend tinks shes bene ussed which se really hasnt and this sucks cause no we are in this non point of a fight and i just want everyhig bak to the way it wass :(
WHAT SHOULD I DO??!?!??!
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It's obvious from your speech pattern that you are not prepared for drinking, sexual activity, or partying. There's where your problem stems from- your more laid-back friends sound like they have a lot more sense than you do. And if a friend EVER accuses you of putting boys before them... they are probably right. That's just the way it works. You don't realize it until someone calls you out on it.
As for the "lie to both sets of parents" about "spending the night at someone elses house" thing, that is really old. Don't ever expect someone to fall for that. And your friend who told about it- she did the right thing. You could have been dead on the side of the road and nobody would have known about it. And that's frightening. It may not hit you hard until you know somebody who has died because of something like that. Then it scares the living shit out of you.
Lily is grounded for a month because she deserved it for sneaking around. There's no way around that. If I snuck around and my parents caught me I'd have a lot more to worry about than being grounded for a month.
And the fact of the matter is, you DID use your other friend. What the hell is she supposed to do- cover for you TWICE when you are obviously using her to go hang out with guys? I swear to God, if I was her, I would not put up with you and Lily (and I don't see why she has before).
If you want everything to be back how it was, you have some serious thinking, changing, and apologizing to do.
In the meantime, please learn how to spell.
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