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Could I be pregnant or irregular
I am so scared right now. Back on Dec 8th, i lost my virginity but it was more like a rape type thing. I didnt press charges or anything. He DID use protection. I still thought I was pregnant but my period was a few days late. So I took the test and it came out negative. So then on Christmas I got my period. I was happy as hell. On New Years Eve, I moved back home with my crazy mom who i still cant stand, i started school again, I was at the studio more, I changed my job site to a different school with bad kids and also a change in diet and exercise because i am obese and tryin to change my lifestyle. I havent got my period since Christmas. I did NOT have any signs of spotting or nausea like some of the symptoms. dont have none of that. My breast arent larger just stomache pains when i think about being pregnant. I asked my friends and 7 out of 8 said im not pregnant, that because of the activity my hormones changed because i had sex and that I am probably stressed. I use to be on birth control but stop Dec 2006. After that my period took it's own course like I had it vday 2007 but didnt get it again til end of April 2007. then it starts skippin weeks and months. Sometimes it just skips a month. But it feels weird not having it. It makes me nervous
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My condolences on how you lost your virginity, it sounds like that day was a traumatic one for you. It doesn’t sound like you are pregnant, but I would encourage you to book a doctor’s appointment and find out for sure. I am concerned as to whether you have taken some time to process what happened to you on December 8th, it’s not unusual for survivors of sexual trauma, due to feelings of guilt and shame, to not seek justice and go about their daily lives, like nothing happened. I don’t know if this is what you are going through, but it wouldn’t hurt to seek counseling, no survivor of rape is ever at fault. I would suggest that you speak to your mother about the incident, but from what you have written, it doesn’t sound like you both are on the best of terms, so I would suggest you confide in someone you trust and who is in a position of authority to support you, especially, if it turns out you are pregnant.
Best of luck on the dieting.
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Take another pregnancy test; it's the only way you'll find out. This time, I'd even get the test done at the doctors. I hope you checked for STDs afterwords also, he may have used protection, but protection isn't 100% against pregnancy and STDs.
It IS possible to get pregnant even when you've had your period. A nurse told my friend that when she went to the doctor because she thought she was pregnant but ended up getting her period the day before. The nurse said that, although you don't get your period when you're pregnant, you can still have it the first little bit...
Anyway, none of us are pregnancy tests, you need to take another one. They can come out negative when you're pregnant. They can't come out positive if you're not.
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Okay, don't be nervous. WAY more than likely, you are NOT pregnant. Considering that he used protection and that you had a period afterward AND the pregnancy test came out negative is clear enough that you're not pregnant. Also, because you're been irregular before and you're dealing with new stress, it doesn't surprise me that it's irregular now. Also, being stressed out, nervous, or working out more can delay your period. Don't quit working out or anything, but that could be the cause of it. If there's any doubt in your mind, take another test.
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