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Q: is it a turn off if girls dont shave?
well.. it depends on the guy, some guys like it shaved and some dont.. its your choice

Q: I have really bad acne sometimes. I can't even get rid of it most of the time. Does any one have a cheap really good successful cure (or almost cure) for complex acne?
i use acnefree and its pretty good and the bottles last awhile so i suggest that.. i think its just a little under $20

Q: I wanted you to know I love the way you laugh
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain away
I keep your photograph; I know it serves me well
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain..what song is this and who is it by?
its called broken by seether and amy lee

Q: How do you survive a horrible haircut that is short and curly? My hair is shorter than my brothers, and im a girl. Skool is tomorrow and we cant wear headgear. I look like a man, so what do i do?
well i once had my hair cut really short so i decided to put it up until it grew a little bit longer so maybe you could do that or maybe you could straighten it because that will probably make it look longer

im sorry if i didnt help

Q: So today I took one of my earrings and started pressing it really hard against my cartilage in hopes of piercing it. (after sterilizing it, of course!) anyway, I chickened out. I want to know how much it hurts after... I want the truth! going to a profesional isn't an option. Any suggestions, comments, tips? thank you.
okay i pierced my cartilidge myself and it didnt hurt until like 2 minutes after i pierced it. well thats because i numbed it first and then pierced it. and then the next day it hurt but it didnt hurt that much ..so i suggest you numbing it first and then pierce it because that wont hurt as much

Q:
okay. since i cant let my computer have any viruses.

what will happen if i download limewire, download 10 songs or so and then uninstall it. then just install it whenever i need it.

im willing to do anything not to get a virus. because my mom said if i crash my computer one more time then i cant get it fixed anymore..
and walmart.com has nothing to chose from!

thanks..
i know that limewire the program doesnt cause viruses cause i have it but you have to watch out for some songs because i have downloaded some songs before and it caused my computer to slow down but many people say that its safe so i dont know

Q: I have an ipod mini. It's 3 years old now, so Im wanting to buy a new music player. Overall my mini has been very nice. I've had battery trouble and have never liked that fact. It bothers me and so Im not sure if I should get another apple.
Can anyone tell me other brands of Mp3's and which ones are the best. Which ones are better than apple? Which ones have the best battery life(By hour and by which one will overall last the longest)? Which ones actually work how they say they will?
I want at least a 1,000 song capacity. Thanks.
i have a ipod and a creative zen micro and i think that the zen micros have better batteries and they hold 5 gb which is 1250 songs i believe? they dont take long to charge but i do think the zen micros are a good choice

Q: does anyone know who the song "boom boom boom boom" is by? or any other songs by that band? thank you.
well looking at all the answers ..the only boom boom boom song i know is by the venga boys

Q: what exactly is a BMI?
oh i learned that today! its body mass something but it compares your weight and height to see if you are at the correct wieght for your height

Q: okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?

PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.
well if her boyfriend had sperm on his fingers and then fingered her, then she may be pregnant but i have this friend that got fingered and it was her first time and she missed her period that whole month and she wasnt pregnant

hope i helpedd

Q: my face is really oily. i don't wear make-up so sometimes it is extremely noticable. i use biore shine control face wash and that works pretty good. does anybody know any other products that would help? or anything that i can do to reduce the shine? i'll rate 5's for anyone who tries!!
there are these oil blotting sheets or whatever you call them and they seem to work well. you can get them at cvs or something. if you cant find them then you can get the nuetrogena face wash. im not sure what its called but its in an orange bottle.. im not sure if i helped you but if you have any questions you can ask me and ill help you find the names for them!

Q: okay so me and my boyfriend are perfect for eachother we have been together for almost a year and a half... well he really wanted this snowmoblie coat so i ordered it for his ,, it was $250.00 tho so i dont just wanna give it to him like in wrapping paper i want it to be special but i cant think of anything cute to give it to him for christmas? any ideas
put like roses or something on the floor leading to a room.. say the living room and then put a note where the roses stop saying like follow the roses and then put the roses on the ground leading somewhere ..say his room and you can hide in his closet and put the gift on the bed and then when he walks in you cant pop out of the closet! lol idont know if thats a good one but good luck!

Q: Is there any makeup that makes your eyes look bigger?
put eyeliner on the bottom and on the top and maybe put some mascara on! thats what i do and many people say i have big eyes but really, i dont lol well hope i helped!

Q: can any 1 tell me whats the best free music download site?
definetly limewire! i have it and it works great

Q: this is really long, but i really would like some help,please.

first off, im having a bad week. on sunday i got arrested. now last night, this started. my mom came in my room to say goodnight... but acted strange about it. i yelled at her because she didnt knock first and she begged and pleaded for a hug and a kiss goodnight, and when i still refused she started to whine and said, "but i might not get many more oppurtunities"... so i gave her a hug, and a really long one, and then she left and went to bed eventually. about a half hour later, i was going to the bathroom, and on my way back to my room, i saw my mom. she gave me another hug, and looked like she was going to cry. she started saying how she was sorry for not knocking, and she was sorry for all the things she did that made me unhappy. (she listed a few that have happened over my life) then she said she wants me to try to be good to my sister, and help my dad. she said to listen to him. she told me she loved me at least 6 times. she told me one of the happiest moments in her life was the day i was born. she said the other two happiest were when she married my dad, and the day she had found out i had won an essay on "worlds greatest mother" that i had written about her. she said dad would need help with things if she wasnt around. then finally she said, you better get some rest, time for bed. i keep thinking about all of this, what could it mean? and then i remembered, she has bipolar disorder, and she may have something else too that i havent heard about. whats happening to her? this morning when i got up for school, her and my dad were still in bed, and snuggled really close. i asked if someone could take me to school and my dad said he would. (usually my mom takes me though) so then she told me she loved me alot, and lots more hugs. she gave me lunch money and said goodbye, have a good day. i noticed shes wearing her wedding ring, which she never wears because its so hard to get off, and she wouldnt want to leave it on during the shower or while shes asleep. her and my dad love each other, but usually, my dad is already up for work by 7:30 and they arent usually snuggled so close to each other in bed. my mom told me dad was still in bed because they both couldnt sleep. so i went to school, pondering this all day. when i came home, my mom was putting my sisters new school picture in a frame to put over the fireplace, next to mine. she pointed out to me that if i ever need it, a picture of her as a baby, of the day she was born, is in the frame too, just behind the other three. im getting suspicious of whats going on, so i said, why would I need it? she said because valerie (my sister) is going to have to do a project in her class this year where she may need a picture of herself when she was younger. my mom has been saying my dad is going to help me through my arrest, and i'll get through it, she knows i can. if this was going on with you, what would you think? whats up with all these things shes been saying lately? is she dying?
wow this is really hard.. but honestly i think she may be dying? i dont know but it seems like she is.. she seems like shes being nice to you and all the clues are saying something is going to happen to her.. im not sure but maybe shes being nice to you so you can be a better daughter? not saying you arent but she probably wants you to know that she's there for you and that she wants you to be good and be nice and maybe things will be better . i dont know though, i dont think this was much help but i wish you luck!

Q: I have AIM. How do you put buddy info for your friends to see.
at the top of the buddy list go to "my aim" and then click on "edit profile" and then i believe you click on next two times and then you can write whatever you want for your profile!

Q: i have aim and i just added someone as a buddy today and i got this messege saying "{buddy} is idle". What does that meen? Dont tell me im dumb unless you want a 1
it means that there not at there computer and when it says "____ is not idle" then that means that they are back at the computer

Q: I have been stuck in a situation where i have to choose beetween where i've lived for 7-8 years and gone to school (not popular there)and a place where my dad has lived his whole life and im very popular there (i just shadowed someone there) i need help deciding plz help!

i rate HIGH
it doesnt matter if your popular or not but which place makes you happier and which place are you more comfortable with? and chose the parent that you think youll get more along with

Q: I know you've probably heard this question a million times, but how do you get those little picture hearts? is there a special code for them?

Q: what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :)
tara kailee helena jamie torie jill ryley heather dana ..if you need morejust drop one in my inbox!

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