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>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.
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Okay so there's alot of ways to get over an X-BF, but how do you just get over a guy -who's done nothing to youy. Hes like the sweetest guy ever, who would do anything for me. So dont tell me to focus on his bad traits cause he doesnt have any. But i still want to get over him..cause there's too much temptation with him. He doesnt presure me or anything..its my own body. w/e i dont know :S i just wanna get over him..but how do i do this when there's no actual reason to get over him. He hasnt done anything bad to me..but dont try to convince me to stay with him. Caue i know that i need to break up with him, but its hard you know.. and its not like i have any other guy that i can use to get my mind off of him..so what do i do?
Thanx for any help-.
well try to fid someone better than him (sorry other dude). if you dont then maybe its him you should be with, but thatz my opinion and you should be able to do what you want to do. good luck!
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This sounds like a really childish question but is it normal to not know what feelings you have about someone?
I know this guy and everytime I see him or think about him I get butterflies (cheesy much?) but when I think about it, I don't know him enough to LIKE him so..yeah.
well it sounds like you like him. do you get nervous when you talk to him or when you see him? umm do u blush when they talk bout him or when he talks to you or etc.? thats how sum people feel when they like someone. good luck!
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14/f.
Whenever my boyfriend comes over, we usually aren't allowed in the house (my parents are strict), and we usually end up hanging out at the park, but there's not much to do.. we can't drive anywhere yet, and my parents don't trust us with much.. It usually gets boring. What can I do to liven things up and make things less boring?
you can go out for a movie, go to the mall, eat out, or even hang out with both frends of each side.theres many things you can do you just have to be creative....hope i helped and good uck with this...
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Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about?
well in my opinion its not bad because i know girls who started at age 9 so i strted when i was like 11 but its not sick everyone duz it.....not everyone but most people. bye
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if you are reading this i want you to answer it but i also really want a guys opinion
ok here it goes. there is this guy at school. he is in 10 or 11 grade and im in 9th. he rides my bus and we are friends. me and him go to someones house everyday and hangout with our other friends. the last time i went there we were all jumping all over each other. and it seemed like everytime he jumped he jumped on me. im not saying he did it everytime but he did it alot. thenwe were running all over the house chasing each other. and we were play fighting. me and him always play fight. then i went into the back room and layed on the couch. well him and our other friends came in and then he sat on me. there was a whole other side to the couch but he chose to sit on me. then he pushes me off, and lays down so i sit on him. and i ask him if he wanted me to get off, and hes like i dont care so lay on him and he like out his arms around me and just lays there. i keep asking him if i am crushing him and he says no and we just lay there. we are good friends so thats why im confused. so thats why i want a girls and a guys opinion. so plz help me. i like this guy alot and i wounder if he feels thet same. i dont want to get my hopes up so thats why im asking plz help.
yup...theres a possiblity that he likes you. he trying to touch you and vice versa. if you do the same type of play fighting and show him that you like him, there is a chance that he could like you back. but thatz my opinion....good luck!!!!
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does anyone know what "desee que yo la tuviera" means???
i wish to have them. thats what it mean and whpoever told u that must like you. bye!
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One of my guy friends, Blake, is interested in one of my girl friends, Allie. Allie is like super mean to him and she tells everyone she doesn't like him. and Blake keeps asking me what he should do about it. I can't just say forget about her because he likes her a lot. What should I say to him?
well, i think that you should definately talk to him privately and tell him that allie doesnt really want to be with him right now. dont make him feel like he has been rejected just tell him the truth but not harshly. good luck!
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I have a phobia that I want to get over but dont know how, please help.
well it depends what kind of phobia it is...if it's something that youre really scared of then you have to either face your fear and go ahead and doit or yeah you can get help. either way, i know how you feel because i have a couple of phobia's myself. good luck
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i'm 14/f, and i've never had a boyfriend and i've never kissed anyone. a lot of people think that i'm the type of girl that can get any guy she wants, or the type of girl that has had a lot of boyfriends. i dont think i am that type of girl, and when i tell people that i've never had any experience with boys, they find it shocking to believe. is there something wrong with me? i'm not really shy, but i dont try to flirt with guys or anything like that.
dont worry b/c it's nothing wrong. nothings wrong with u. i know people who are 17 and have never had boy/girl friends or that had ever kissed anyone. it's pretty normal. so good luck!
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Hello. Look i've went to the jym like 5 months ago.but i stopped going because i got bored of going everyday. And my question is-If u work out,and then stop;would u like gain fat,or some pounds. I sometimes go for a 15-20 min. walk outside.But that's pretty much it. Thanks for the help.
Brenda!
u can gain the weight but only if u start eating uncontrollibly. for example alot of junk food, alot of sugar, etc. just keep walking or dance just as long as ur pretty much sweating then it's like excercising.
I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!!
yep it's tru and tricky just make sure u have pads in case of anything. bye.
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Hello. Well, when I make presentations at school or read a paper to the class, I always get nervous. I can't help it. I've tried everything: looking at the wall, looking at the people's noses, practicing a million times the night before, etc. My question is, are there any pills that help with that, or help with nervousness? If there are, are they expensive and do they actually really work? Please help soon because school is coming up. Thank you.
man i have the same problem... i can't speak in public or meet new people cuz im so nervous and shy. but like these other people posted, pick out someone you know and supports you from the audience or just look at the paper...but that won't really help your grade i guess...good luck...
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I need some help on losing weigh 4 high school. Since this is a rural I live on don't even think about saying walkin cause it muddy and always wet. But wat r some ways I can? Thank you oh yea I weigh 200bls and i am 5'7
i think you should definately walk drink water or flavored water and do cardio. it means things like dancing really hyper so you can sweat, and basically anything that makes you sweat and gets your heart beating really fast. good luck
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okay well i met this dude through a friend...and like his parents are split..so now this weekend he is going to his dads and he wants me to call him and like thats no problem ...but i ahve no clue what to talk about...if you could answers this asap....
thanks!
hey....i have the same problem but just talk about things you have in common. if you just newly met him ask questions like, so, are you into.... or if you both like music then talk about music...i hope i helped at least a little bit...good luck
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Hey I saw this commercial on tv about chafing... what is chafing??? I think it has something to do with shaving your underarms or something. Can someone please explain?
dude im as lost as u are....i probably saw the same commercial as u
oh well, go with the dude who gave u the meanings from the dictionary. and the other girl. bye!!
I was in a chat room with 2 of my friends today. One was my best friend, Jessica and the other was a guy, Ryan. Ryan and I like each other but have a few things we're trying to work out before we actually start dating. This was a part of our conversation:
Ry-You know who has big boobs?
Jess-who?
Ry-Marie
Me-I've never noticed her boobs
Ry-because she doesn't flaunt them like you 2
Me-heyyyy we don't FLAUNT them
Ry-yes you do
Jess-lol
Ry-but I like girls like that ya know? Ones that dont have to show everything
Then he said he had to go. Do you think that was his way of telling me that he wants me to be more conservative?
im sorry to say this but it was either that, or he was trying to make you jealous, or maybe he was trying to tell you to be more conservative. guys do that maybe to hint that they like sumone else or to make you jealous....most of the times. good luck
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well there's these two guys at my church.1)Philip. 2)Sam. Well, first i liked sam, then philip, then sam, then philip then sam. I just kept going back and forth. Philip, he's extremely nice, but when he gets mad...it's just really scary. Sam, he's nice too, it's just that, he can be a jerk sometimes. Well...Philip likes my sister, and they went out. but my sister dumped him, and he's really sad. Sam, likes my cousin, but she doesn't like him at all. i just dont know who to like. They're always asking me for advice about my sister and my cousin cause im related to both of them. I help them the best i can...but they just don't seem to notice that i like them. help?
just do little things like giggle and flirt. make eye contact and mess with them a little bit. im not that great at flirting or romantic advice though. lol.
I wrote in about a month ago, asking for advice about a friend of mine that treated me badly (called me names, made me look stupid in front of others, etc). I finally confronted her about it, so now we don't talk anymore. I'm so much happier; but now I have a few more problems...
1) She always stares at me! And when I walk down the hallway (and she's in a classroom), she is always by the door (like she's waiting for me), but she never talks, she just stares. Is that normal, because it sort of freaks me out.
2) I REALLY want to go to a camp, but she might be going too, and I really don't want to run into her (because then she'd beg for forgiveness, and I don't think that she would change, which is why I didn't give her a second chance in the first place). Should I go or not, and why?
Thanks in advance! Sorry it's long, but I will rate!
go to camp and dont worry about her, if you run into her just ignore you. try to have fun because she should'nt hold you back from having the time of your life. and about the staring thing, don't worry about it, it probably means she just wants your attention. good luck!
I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!!
don't worry, i saw the grudge and i could've sworn that i kept seeing black things over the walls. lol. anyways, try changing ur light bulb maybe that'll help! good luck.
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I need to be inspired so that I can write better poems and stories. Maybe even making my life better by being more active, physically.
My question is: Do you know some place that I can go to be inspired? Or do you know any sayings that could maybe inspire me?
well, I write poetry!!! i basically get inspiration from my life. My problems, my crushes etc. If something happens and i feel sad or mad, i basically write it into a poem. do the same, just focus on a problem that u know of and maybe u will b inspired. hope i helped!
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