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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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Hi. My bro broke of 5 laptop keys on my laptop so i was wondering is there some way i can fix it at home or wil i hve to carry it in the shop?

hey, the letter d broke off of mine and i just popped it right back on. i suppose it depends on the namebrnad of the laptop. try snapping it back it yourself. if not go to bestbuy. they work wonders. cait ♥

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okay so i like this boy. hes really cute. he says that he wants to hang out but whenever i ask him, he says maybe then we never do. i cant really tell if he likes me or not. i really wanna hang out with him to get to know him better but i dont want to sound desperate. what should i do?

hey, well it sounds like he doesnt want to hang out wiht you = [. you should try to get to know him better. i think the reason why he doesnt want to hang out with you is because his lack of not knowing you. cait ♥

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My boyfriend and i have been going out since april 1st and yeah hes aazing well, i found out he smokes weed so i yelled at him the first time he promised he would not smoke but of course he did and told me so then he dtiched me one time to go smoke ssaying that he was going to meet up with his friends when right before he promised me a million times he wouldnt. well now i dont know what to do he keeps breaking his promises with me. yeah i do give him credit for tellin me the truth but i dont want him doing that and he knows that. what should i do next time he breaks my promise. should i let him go or what?

hey, no dont let him go. but weed is very addictive. right now he needs a suppory system. someone who will help him thorugh it not bring him down. so do everything you can to help. cait ♥

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I'm going to tell it like it is. I'm not bragging or dramatizing anything.

I am a 13-year-old girl and I am...well...pretty smart. I thought I was doing well and I really like school, but for some reason, I am doing really bad according to my last progress report...D's and F's with a few A's. I know I can do better. I was in montessori for 2nd grade and 5th grade and I really liked it. My mom thinks it's an 'organization' problem, but that seems like she's calling me a slacker. Once I went into middle school (I am in 8th grade right now), everything started going downhill. I love my school, teachers, and friends, but I am considering switching, after my mom said, "Maybe there's another way to teach you.". I've researched on Google, and there are no montessori highschools (at least in my state). It is quite impossible to be homeschooled. I am wondering what other types of schools are out there for me besides one of those "bad kid" boarding schools. Thanks for reading!

hey, i know theres like highschools for different religions like theres jewish highschools. another thing is all girls schools. cait ♥

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i have these white ring/circles on the bottom of my feet. theyre small and theyre juss white, not gross & they dont hurt. it seems like they are open sort've, not bloody er anything, its juss white skin inside of it?? i cant really explain it. its kind've hard if you touch it. you could feel that its there. there's a base to it. does anyone know what that is?? im curious, because ive had em for awhile.

thanks!!

hey, i had those before. there these weird types of sores. i just kept band-aids on them for like a week, so that nothing would irratate them more. they went away. at night i also put lotion on them and baby poweder. cait ♥

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What are some things that happen if you are pregnant within the first month or 2 that would tell you that you are pregnant?

hey, two of the biggest signs are missed period and throwing up. cait ♥

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on myspace to get the page to be private do you have to set your age to 14 or younger or is there another way to get it completely private?

hey, yes it has to be set to 14 or younger. but there are ways hackers can set your myspace to be not private anymore. so they can read everything. be careful. myspace is dangerous. cait ♥

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I've been with this guy for two months. And we were sexually active. Well his Grandma hates me anyway and she found out we were having sec because she snooped through Trae's droors and found a note. She called here the other day but Mom didn't tell me until Trae found out. We called Trae's Mom. She was like I'm not mad at you, I just told you before that you guys had your whole lifes and how do I know your not going to do it again. I was like I promise you we won't. So then I suggested that me and Mom run up there and talk to his Grandma since thats who he's staying with until his mother comes home. She went off she said I was a hypocrite and that since I had been with other guys before Trae and he was just my next victim. I was like I was crying and she was like I don't give a damn if she's crying. I never liked her to begin with. cause I was like I WAS EFFING RAPED DOES SHE NOT EFFING UNDERSTAND THAT. She's like tell her I said to never call here again or I will file statutory rape against her. NANANA and she called me a ****. My Dad came in here and called her and went off on her then cause he didn't appreaciate that at all. His Mom and my parents told us just to let everything die down. His Mom told me before she got off the phone with us that she loved me. Trae was crying too. He's like your still my baby and still my girlfriend I love you I'm not gonna let this end.

Another note, I just feel like my whole world is going to collapse. I have no friends, if I lose Trae I will have nothing. I don't know if I'm going to school next year. I thought about getting my GED because I can't put up with what I have to put up with much more or else I will go nuts on everyone cause I'm psychotic. People at school. They leave me out of everything, I'll be sitting there and they will talk about prom and things and never include me in their plans or even ask me, even order lunch and things and it really hurts my feelings. Yeah maybe I need to find new friends, but their is really no one else.

hey, first off you need to calm down. relax. his grandma cant do anything to you and his relationship so forget about her. for friends just try to make new ones. but dont change for anyone. cait ♥

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Everytime I ask a question i get about 3 answeres and then at the bottom of the question this gets put:

Note:This question was deleted and will not be shown on general search pages.
If there is a reason entered by the moderator it will appear here:
This question was given the lowest rating by at least five level I moderators.

Why does it do that? What does it mean.?

5's for anything.

hey. most peoples questions are fine. moderaters delete questions for a number of reasons. one of them being spelling errors. another one being that they feel the question is dangerous to columists. dont take it personally. cait ♥

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my teeth are only yellow from not brushing right or enough. do you think professional bleaching actually works? my mom says my teeth are too crappy to fix like that is posibble. bleaching is for yellow teeth duh

hey, dont even bother with the professional bleaching. just use crest white strips. during the time period in which you will be using them use crest whitening toothpaste. cait ♥

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i randomly scratch my forehead and recently saw that i have strange scars. must be from acne, i thought.

can i get rid of acne scars?

hey, the best acne remover that i know is Proactiv. its sorta expensive tho. antoher thing to try is clearasil. cait ♥

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I take really advanced classes in school, I have been dealing with a ton of drama lately, and I have been worrying a lot about my prom coming up soon. So I have been REALLY stressed. I want to know does anyone have any type of stress relievers that you don't have to buy? If so it would be greatly appreciated.

Hey, give your feet and other parts of your body with tension a massage. also manicures and pedicures are great. another way is a facial. Cait ♥

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hey i really love emo mucic i just dont know any good bands and if you have any id love any bands. thanks.. ill rate 5's

Hey, heres some.


hellogoodbye
plain white tees
taking back sunday
the used
panic! at the disco

cait ♥

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i have always had really good skin, but now my face is really bumpy. since i have never had an issue i don't know what to do. i do not have pimples or zits, not really that many red heads, but my face is very bumpy, it's the worst on my nose.

i don't know what to do except wash my face and that is doing nothin, does toner or other facial products work for this? what should i do? any home remedies?

Hey, My friend had this problem. She bought an acne daily face mouisturizer. Cait ♥

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i juss got the txting plan with cingular. we got the 1000 txt package for $10.00 a month. i can sign on AIM now since we got txting, but i was wondering if however long you're on for, if that uses up minutes & you pay for each minute, er the only way you pay is from txting??

thanks!!

Hey, I have a cingular plan and texing and AIM are too seperate things. On the bill it will pop up "Airtime Usage" and thats all the money your going to have to pay for AIM. Cait ♥

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If I run on my treadmill which of my muscle groups am I working out, on what part of my body?

Hey, your working out your cardiovascular system. It mostly works out your legs. It will slim you down a little too. Cait ♥

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i put this neutrogena (sp?) tanning stuff on my arms & legs. they look horrible. is there anyway i can make the stuff go away? for tomm?? & i alresdy tried rubbing acholol


ps. what is some good tanning oil?

Hey, "leg cooling gel" from the body shop got mine off. I used neutrogena build a tan. Cait ♥

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Firefox wont let me automatically log in to any websites. And it wont ahow any new things on the same websites.

I've tried turning it off and on again, uninstalling then re-installing and none of it works.

Hey, FireFox will not just automatically login for you. It only remembers your password. If that doesnt work then just uninstall it and find a new thing to use. Cait ♥

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am a girl who met this man in campus i was 21 and he was 23 in the year 2003. He is a friend to my ex-boyfriend but i still went out with him coz he's a nice man. Aftre he cleared campus he flew out to Britain to do his MBA. Before he left the relationship had many problems. He dint communicate to me, we were always fighting but i would get angry if he did something wrong to me otherwise am a fun loving person who doesnt enjoy fights at aa. Anyway he left for Britain without even telling me, i learnt from a friend. Either way we resolved things and began having a long distance relationship.Things were no different. we fought but we still hang on together coz we both care for each other. One time i called his phone and a gal picked up but i forgave him. Well he finally came back in early March 2006 after being there for two years.hes back but he doesnt want to spend time with me, hes always busy,since he came back i've only seen him once. after waiting for two years am just broken hearted i dont know what to do.

Hey, Okay this may be hard for you to do, but its best for you in the long-run. You should just forget about him. If he isnt trying to communicate with you or spend time with you then hes not ready for a nice girl like you. Move on and be strong and find another man. Cait ♥

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my skin is extremely dry and flaky on my face. however, i am acne prone, so i dont' want to use a cream or something that could cause breakouts. however, the light moisturizers, such a cetaphil moisturizer (which do not cause my face to break out) don't help with the dryness much! any suggestions??

Hey, Use any type of BODY LOTION from bath&body works. Apply the lotion around the nose and the cheek bones. Cait ♥

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