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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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i have this new boyfriend, who i've been dating for a month. but recently my ex texted me, and i saved his number in my phone under a girls name. so that i could text constantly while i was with my boyfriend and he wouldnt think it was suspicious. well yesterday we went to the movies and my ex asked me back out, and my current boyfriend read it and dumped me. he said he knew it was a guy, even though i called the girl who's name i used, and i told her to help me out. but he doesnt believe me and he broke up with me and he called me a hoe. he gave me a ring in the beggining and he even took that away. he doesnt really have proof that i cheated on him though.. do you think that he might come back to me? i really need help cause i love him alot and i messed up big time.
Look i dont mean to be rude or anything but what you did is really messed up and i bet that hurt him really bad and i know because this has happened to me, and if you talk to him you might be able to get him back but most likely he isnt going to trust you and it is going to take a lot for him to trust you again... so if you really care for him go for it but if its just a fling i would leave it alone its a lot of work.
how do you pick up a really good guy who wont hurt you?
Honestly it is really hard and most of the guys that dont hurt you aren't the best looking or the most popular but they are the ones with the best personality and the ones that are most likely not to hurt you. Also if you have some close guy friends (i know this might sound weird)but if you sorta have feelings for any of them i would give it a try because most of them wouldnt hurt you either. Just give it time you will find someone =] Hope i helped
Okay , well i'm turning 16 soon :) & This is a very special time for me! I want the party to go perfectly , and fun. I definatly don't want people leaving and saying " Her party was lame " Or it was boring , ya know ? So I have a couple of questions :)
1) I want party " theme " so give me some cool & good ideas for a theme for my party!
2) GAME! I need games to play , FUN and non-childish games that everyone girls & boys will like! & Easy to do ...
3) Give me some contest I could do , short but fun things ... & prizes
+ So , I need a creative person :) - Thank you so much!
well for a theme you could do something like "vegas" or "a ball" for the vegas you could have everyone dress up like they are going out on a night to vegas and have gambling games and fun stuff like that and a contest could be how much money (you could use poker chips or fake money) someone wins that night or best dressed. For the ball one have everyone dress up like princes and princesses and have cutest couple or something like that and who fits the shoe. Sorry its not that great but hope i helped =]
first off i think im sad now well i know i am but its because i like this girl but i cant tell her because i dont really know how to . if that makes sense its like i know i like her but at the same time i wouldnt begin to know how to not be a total goof ball around her and make her find me charming or want to be with me . im totally uncoordinated when it comes to girls and i know this may be considered rambling but i hope it makes sense can anyone help
Well dont just come out and tell her you have feelings for her... Just be yourself, dont try to be anyone else most girls dont like that, and if things go well you will be more comfortable around her and be able to flirt and show her that you like her and hopefully you guys will have something. Hope i helped =]
Recently broke up with my boyfriend who i love to bits. I dont know what to do because its so hard to move on when hes always in your face. He says he still loves me but hes back with his ex???? Im veryy confused and dont know what to do. Helpp please!
If he honestly cares about you, he will realize what you meant to him and he will come back to you, if he doesnt im sorry but you will probably just have to move on, and i know thats easier said than done so maybe try talking to him more or if that doesnt work just completly ignore him and he will hopefully come back. Hope i helped =]
I have liked this guy for awhile now. He was in a relationship with another girl, but she broke up with him yesterday, and he talks to me about how he is so sad, and that he wants to talk to her. And I don't know what to tell him, because secretly I am happy that maybe I can be with him, but I want him to be happy too. So I told him that I was sorry for him, and I tried to cheer him up, but I don't know how I should go about starting something with him. Now just doesn't seem like the time. Advice?
It might take him a while to get over his ex, but be patient and keep talking to him and trying to cheer him up and hopefully when he gets over her he will notice that you were there through all of that and then you can start flirting and you might just get him :] Hope i helped =]
(14-f) i kno i am very self conscience wen it comes 2 being around my bf anyway and it seems like acne just makes it worse i've tried any and everything 4 acne but nothing makes it completly go away.and I just need some help,also does anyone kno of somethin i can use 4 my acne. any "home remidies"???
So i dont know if this will work for you but it worked for me... Every other night i use a cotton round and wipe my face with rubbing alchohol, then you put a not scented lotion on (the alchol dries out your face)Then once a week i use Apricot Scrub by St. Ives it scrubs off your dry skin and i sleep with lotion every night and then for the other days use a mild face soap like clinique. Hope i helped =]
I'm 13(m) and I want to know what I should do. I like this girl and have no idea if I should just forget her and move on because of my young age or if i should go and ask her out or anything else. What should I do?
Well it depends on how old she is, but find out if she likes you back if she does then there's your chance, but if she doesnt just shrug it off and move on to someone your age. Hope I helped =]
Can you use pads with thongs? How do you wear thongs when its your period?
Yes there is a pad made just for thongs but personally i use a tampon they are a lot more comfortable and you can wear them with any underwear =] hope i helped :]
i want to start taking birth control. what is a really good one. that works and doesnt make you gain weight and doesnt affect other medicines you are taking.
YAZ or TLO are really good ones, you may gain a little weight in the beginning but its because you are adding hormones into your body and if you excersise and eat right it will come right off after about a month or 2. and talk to your doctor because it depends on what medication you are taking. Hope i helped =]
My period is unbearable. its extremely heavy, very irregular, crampy, ugh. anyway. whats a good way to control it? is birth control the best bet? 15/f. heellpp
Birth control does make your period a lot lighter and sometimes i dont even get my period, i just get spotting where you just need a pantiliner. So i would suggest it but it might not work for you either so try it and see. hope i helped =]
Does anybody know any websites that have Aim icons that dont require you to download them??
Thank you very much.
myhotcomments.com
123icons.com
coolbuddy.com
and zango has a lot too but you have to search. hope i helped =]
ok so a few days ago I started texting this boy we'll call Dustin. Dustin is a 2 time champ state wrestler and is pretty cute :] anyways, last night our conversation just sort of ended and I don't know what's supposed to happen now. I've never had a class with him or anything so it's kind of akaward. I wasn't sure if I should talk to him at school or what to say if I did go talk to him or how to go about it. I'm way lost. Today we didn't text at all... Do I text him first or just wait for him to text me? I'm not exactly up to date when it comes to all this stuff. Thanks so much! :]
Well if you see him at school say hey, when you pass him in the hall or smile at him you will be able to tell if he is interested or not. And try texting him first and if he texts back and is into the convo then he definatly wants to talk just dont be annoying if he doesnt text back ya know what i mean? hope i helped =]
im a 16 female. and hes a 17 male. he acts normal but sometimes it seems like hes losing interest. just the other day he told me hes not having 2nd thoughts on us. so im not sure. but this girl txtd me and told me today that he told her last week that we broke up.well he plays around alot. and idont know if that was meant to be a joke. and sometimes he acts like hes going to breakup with me like if i ask him he goes along with it then says hes kidding. please help me! i really dont want him to break up with me. but i dont know what to do. please and thankyou in advance. oh. and if it means anything. weve been together for 2 months... since xmas eve '08
Well sometimes they think that two or more girls is better than one and so they will stay with you but have interest in other girls. Im being completly honest here and it sounds like he is just a player but you could try to fix it by talking to him and telling him that you feel like your losing him and you dont like it. So just try to flirt more and that might keep him with you for longer and maybe he will realize what he has and he wont leave you. Hope i helped =]
So, me and my boyfriends mom get along pretty good. Except she walked in with me and my boyfriend with me on top of my boyfriend and we were kissing in bed in the dark.
We are a very serious relationship, and I'm never allowed to his house again :(
What willl I do?
Ok so i have had a situation just like this except me and my boyfriend cant hang out at all anymore. But we still make it work. Just make sure you spend every moment that you can with him and try apologizing to his mom and she might let you come over again. Hope i helped =]
were both 15. hes just geting out of a bad relationship of about 8-9 months. im getting out of a bad bad bad realtionship also. but heres my(our)story
please tell me your imput:)
me and adam have been flirting for about 2 weeks now. and we talk about sexual things some times and he knows ill give him head and stuff. i asked him if that the only reason he "LIKES" me he said no i like you bc your smart hapy and have the cutest smile i have ever seen. okay so today he promised me the bigest hug ever beacuse we didnt get to hang out this weeknd. well i didnt get my hug instead i got a look like hey your cute. do i get home and text him saying oh man i didnt get my hug that means i get two tomro right? well he never texted back and that was like 3 hours agoo! so i got on myspace to see if he was on. well he deleted me from his myspace. and now im really confused on everything! does he like me or is he playing with my heart?.
Wow hun im sorry to tell you this but i dont think he is interested and it sounds like he is just playing you. Honestly when a guy knows that you will do things like that for him he isnt exactly thinking with his mind and he will say and do whatever it takes to keep you but when you catch him doing it he will back off. im sorry =[ Hope i helped though! =]
My best friend is a guy, and we are incredibly close. I love him SOOO much...in a friend way, like a brother. But...he likes me more; like a 'love'. Like a girlfriend. And he WONT STOP TRYING TO GET ME TO GO OUT WITH HIM! He knows i only like him as a friend, but every single day he continues begging me to "give him a chance". I have explained to him MANY times that the only feelings I have for him are FRIEND ones. But he just wont stop, and now I feel bad. I have tried EVERYTHING. What more can i do? I mean, this guy is my bestfriend, he means the world to me, and i love him unconditionally. but like a friend. So what can i do to finally get it through to him that i wont date him cuz i only like him as a friend?
I have been in this same exact situation, i mean he bought me stuff and everything! and its really hard but i finally told him that it was either we be friends or nothing at all and he finally chilled and now were still really good friends. So you can try that if you want you just have to be harsh but not rude about it and it may take him a while to get over it but he will! Hope i helped =]
Ohkay so Ive been talking to my guy friend sylis on myspace and When I say things like 'whats up?' He replies with stuff like 'nm tired of being single' or 'being on the market isnt as fun as I thought it would be' or 'Just trying to look for someone special'. Is he trying to say something?
P.S.
I really hope he is.
Ya he is trying to say something. It sounds like he likes you and it sounds like he is trying to give you hints that he kinda likes you. and honestly most guys want you to make the first move so flirt a little back and see how it goes! Hope i helped.=]
ok so i just started birth control loestrin24fe to be exact :] and im a bit confused. what if im done my peroid and i still have the brown pills left. do i just finish the pack fully and then just when im done just start a new pack?
thanksss very very much
:]
Yes you still finish the pack or the birth conrol will not work effectively, so you finish the whole pack and then move on to the next one. Hope i helped =]
alrightt well it did hurt but i didnt mind it. but then after he left, i was in the shower, and i realized when i went pee it stung [like it did last time ....], and i noticed that [im not sure which part this is] the part where the pee comes out of wasn't straight ahead, it was a little crooked ... to my right. and i was concerned. is this gonna go back to normal on its own? i really really cant bring this up to my parents. :/
Okay so dont worry, when a guy fingers you, he is going in and out and around so it kinda irritates it, and it swells and this is completly normal, it will go back soon depending on how bad it is. Haha yes that makes sense i completly get it, cause when your in the moment you dont mind the pain, but after your like ouch haha Hope i helped =]