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where do i begin
first off i think im sad now well i know i am but its because i like this girl but i cant tell her because i dont really know how to . if that makes sense its like i know i like her but at the same time i wouldnt begin to know how to not be a total goof ball around her and make her find me charming or want to be with me . im totally uncoordinated when it comes to girls and i know this may be considered rambling but i hope it makes sense can anyone help
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Well dont just come out and tell her you have feelings for her... Just be yourself, dont try to be anyone else most girls dont like that, and if things go well you will be more comfortable around her and be able to flirt and show her that you like her and hopefully you guys will have something. Hope i helped =]
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I think if you were more secure about her feelings you can get past your ackwardness. So you need to find out where her mind is - or at least open up the topic with her.
I can tell you how I test out if a guy likes me, and I think you can do it in reverse.
First, if you have a facebook or aim id, get hers and just start casual chat 'what's up?' kinda messages. If you can get her cell number...do the same. Not everyday...but a couple of times a week ... And don't jump on her as soon as she signs on. You want to seem casual. Just the fact you reached out to her will make her wonder if she caught your eye.
If she brings up something going on you can do too, show interest. If she isn't too shy herself, maybe she will invite you to come along. Or if you have something going on, chat about it, and if she shows interest, invite her along. As you get more comfortable, you can start with some casual flirting...
See if you can partner up with her at school. If your school encourages you to do community service, see if you can do it together. If she works somewhere, be sure to drop by.
You know how school gossip is,all you have to do is drop the hint to one of her girlfriends or a loud mouth guy friend, and they will let her know and you can judge her reaction.
I totally like goof balls. If a guy can make me laugh he is half way there.
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Well to start off, it's okay to get nervous around girls when you like em... If the girl isn't a total snob... she won't criticize your nervousness. Thats the first issue, if she's making fun of you, putting you down, obviously she doesn't deserve you. Now,being a total gooofball isn't all that bad lol! You can try and make her laugh... I would suggest building a friendship with her first before telling her you like her. That way, she can get to know you as a friend, and she can see the cool guy you may be. After or IF you guys are already friends, just ask her out. Ask her if she wants to go out bowling, go to the movies, hang out, anything! If she accepts, then great! :) good luck
Uniq
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