Q: i liked this guy since right before school ended and he and i would like look at each other and smile alot, but at the time he had a girlfriend so i didn't bother. then all of a sudden they broke up and he said he was crazy about me one day and we started talking on the phone and hanging out.

well, he didn't call for about three weeks, and i was extremely hurt.

so i called him to hang out in the pool with me & my friend and his, where he was all over me and starting his crap about 'being crazy about me!' again. So he called that night and said he wanted me to be his gf and he liked me SO much.

a few nights ago i called and he said he was at work, but he was really short on the phone and he never called back. then i texted him the next day but he never responded and he hasn't called since. i'm not going to bother trying to call him or w/e because i was the last person to make any attempts to talk, but honestly i can't get over him! and i'm so jealous when i see him talking to other girls on myspace. ughh i can't stop! idk what to do.

Q: i just found out i'm pregnant.
i'm very nervous that my water will break out in public, is it alot of fluid or is it not that much.

also i'm nervous about peeing my pants in public.
if i do, like would i pee alot, or would i be able to catch myself and only pee a little.

please answer these, thanks.

Q: 16/f

This is a long, somewhat confusing question. I realize that it is a lot of work to figure this out so any serious answers will definately be rated appropriately. I really appreciate any advice.

For the last couple of months, I have had several 'downs' and few 'ups' with this situation. I am being harassed by girls from my school, some are "ex-friends" and others are just people who don't know me. I am wondering what is the most beneficial next step to take.

Involved People (females aged 15 to 17+):

Myself - Usually in a good mood, polite, kind to others, strongly opinionated, willing to stand up for causes which I believe in. Straight A's (with very few exceptions) and a dedicated student. Last summer I went to many parties. Strong willed, self confident and "always dressed up" describes me.

Tracey - One of my best friends, ex-best friends with Annie, used to be good friends with Danielle and Kaya.

Danielle - Last summer we were best friends, she is a "party animal," low grades, jealous of her best friend, Kaya.

Kaya - Danielle's new best friend, many insecurities, low grades, treats people badly to make herself feel better (laughing at overweight people), acts like she is amazing.

Annie - Used to be best friends with Tracey. Follows Danielle and Kaya with whatever they do.

Here is a basic timeline of the sitation for reference, I have all of the recent activity documented carefully on my computer:


November - Danielle and I got in an argument. I was talking to people at our lunch table about how I was worried about her. I also said she is friends with people then just ditches them and that I was thinking I should talk to her about it. It got back to her before I talked to her about it, she got mad and I apologized. She said tons of mean stuff to me so I ended up not talking to her for weeks. I was excluded from everything and always ended up at home doing nothing.

December - Things were great, Annie always told Tracey how much she disliked me (behind my back) but we started to become friends. At the end of the month I was excluded from "secret santa" because of my dispute with Danielle, and everyone (lunch table people) said they didn't want ME making conflict.

January - Conflicts were slightly resolved but Tracey and I noticed we were being excluded from all events and birthday parties. We started to become closer and hang out a lot.

February - Some "tough/druggie" girls attacked me, saying I "dress like a / am a tramp" and I was hit in the back of the head. I walked away from them but everyone was talking about how I "ran away crying." I still do not see why they did this and it is completely unfair. I do not dress out of the ordinary, usually - when I wear a skirt I have long legs so it looks short, but who cares anyways. I always avoid walking that way now.

March - Annie began to get mad because Tracey and I were so close. She started talking behind my back again and to Danielle and Kaya (Annie did not like Kaya at the time). Danielle, Kaya and Annie began to grow closer due to their hate of me. The 3 of them would always make plans infront of Tracey and I and purposely not invite us.

April - Danielle wrote a blog about people she hated, and I said "Honestly, do you consider me one of those people?" In reply, she went crazy and said a ton of mean things about me. She said I shouldn't bother replying because she did not want to start a "bitch fight." I was outraged, and told her to say it to my face. At school she couldn't look at me and was afraid.

April Cont - Kaya stood up for Danielle and said I was "attacking" her. I was just not letting Danielle walk all over me, I no longer wished to be friends with her and immediately stopped talking to them. I told Kaya that it was not her business. One day at lunch, Kaya and I got in a big arguement and she ended up leaving the table.

April Cont - Kaya, Danielle and Annie went to the "tough/druggie" group of girls and told them what was happening. I started to be harassed by these new girls (I will call them the hawks) and they threatened to beat me up. I backed off, feeling overwhelmed. I completely stopped talking to all of those people.

April Cont - At the same time, Tracey told Annie that she felt excluded, so Annie went against her. It was now Danielle/Kaya/Annie against Tracey and I.

May - Danielle tried to start a fight with Tracey over the computer over nothing. Pointless things continued to happen even though we weren't speaking to Danielle. I started talking to Annie and Kaya again (I regret this now) and we were fine together. I tried to be nice and work things out since the whole fight was over very little. I tried to resolve things with the "hawks" but I was still constantly stared at by them at school.

June - Tracey, myself and two of our other friends made a funny video and posted it on facebook. It wasn't about anyone it was just a pointless music video dancing around in big coats. Danielle, Kaya and Annie "copied" our video but tried to "copy our make-up, clothes and moves." They exaggerated everything and acted like completely sluts (I can honestly say that) then told everyone to "say whose is better." It was obnoxious.

June Cont - They began to harass me on MSN but I said "haha yeah you're great at being us. bye!" and blocked them. Kaya was me, Annie was Tracey and Danielle was my other best friend from the video. One day walking along the street after our friend's birthday lunch, Danielle and Kaya rode by on a bike and yelled "ugly ass sluts!" to us. We ignored them. Later on, Annie and Danielle apologized to Tracey and included me in the apology (it was never sent to me) and Tracey "accepted" their apology.

June Cont - Annie and Danielle left for a month long student exchange trip in Europe. Kaya found a new "best friend" (Ellen), whom I used to be friends with last summer but we rarely saw eachother. Kaya and Ellen posted pictures in short skirts and tanktops saying "oh ya.. this is how (my name) stands and dresses" and posted them on facebook. Kaya, Ellen, Danielle and Annie have all been put on "limited profile" for my facebook and cannot see anything except my name and a nearly blank page.

Ellen lives on my street, like a two minute walk away. She has been in many fights and now I am feeling threatened because in my honesty box on facebook, Kaya threatened that if I went to any bonfires or parties this summer that she would fight me or get other people to. Annie and Danielle are gone for three more weeks, but Ellen and Kaya are so close. In addition, they have all of the "hawks" on their side.

I have just been staying home/inside to avoid conflict and I am sick of this harassment. Please help. =(

Q: There's this boy 'tom' that I like. He liked me last year and we were 'talking' at one point last summer. We stopped for a little, and this kid 'mike' liked me as well. Me and him started talking and ended up dating. Because of this, Tom got mad at me, and stopped talking to me. Me and Mike ended up breaking up, and me and Tom started talking again. I had really liked him a lot at this point. After we told eachother we liked eachother, we just stopped talking completely. Then a few months later we talked again, and he told me he was hurt from what happened in the summer, and we stopped again. Once again we started talking, and actually kissed! I guess you could say that made things 'awkward', and once again stopped. We havent 'talked' like that since, but we do talk, which makes me still like him, a lot, but im afraid to tell him because i dont want us to stop again, but hes all i think about!? any advice for this situation? =/ please help ! thankss xoxo

Q: ok well i have this friend named jen and she is generally really annoying. ive known her since 2nd grade and shes always been like this. people pretend to like her and stuff and a lot of her friends think that she is really annoying and wish she would shut up. shes nice tho and people dont wanna be mean to her. problem is we're starting high school soon and she will not have any friends the way this is going. shes an only child, kinda rich, really spoiled, and a wannabe prep. she brings up the stupidest jokes that are not funny, she has an obsession with school-as in if there is a test its all she talks about, laughs too much, and is very stalkerish. she wants to be my bff but im like the total opposite. guess you could say ima tomboy, i dont like shopping much-[shes obsessed with name brands] and i like hanging out with guys mostly. my friends think shes so annoying and so do i but how can she change this. she knows that she has a problem and wants me to help her with it. uhh i dont want her to be like a loner or anything cuz shes nice and stuff. thanx =]

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how long after a guy pre cums does he actually ejaculate? because i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and i know he didnt ejaculate in me because he pulled out and jacked himself off for like 20 seconds before he actually came so im just kinda worried about pre cum.

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Q: 15/f + boyfriend 17/m -

okay well him and his parents (mom and dad) are going to ocean city the 15th-22nd and they invited me. they're paying for everything. the thing is my dad said it was okay, but mom didn't. i need sooo much help to convince her it's okay. i wrote her a letter stating we wouldn't be sleeping together/all the requirements! i need so much help please. i want to go so unbeliveably badly.

any advice?!

Q: i'm thinking about getting bangs, like the straight across ones but i'm not sure if i'd look good with them. and it'a a pretty big change so like do most people look good with them? i have an oval face shape heres a picture http://i128.photobucket.com/albums/p198/hannahisgangsturr/SD532520.jpg
i know it's kinda weird ha but it's the best i have of looking straight at my face..

and heres a picture of the bangs i want
http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m25/uniquest1/Ashlee%20Simpson/wallpaper1_800.jpg

thanks!

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Q: Well I'd have to say my current reputation at school isn't the one i want. I'm dating a guy that everyone likes. People think I'm a bitch but i'm not i'm just sarcastic. I want to be one of them people that is friends with everyone. Pretty and is on school teams. You know that type. How can i turn into someone like that. I shop at hollister so its not like im emo or anything. How can i make more friends and become like that.

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Q: 16/f

-Okay, so I was dating this kid Dave for about a month and a half, and I had never told him I loved him. I never really thought that it'd actually make a difference in our relationship. As much as I'd want to tell him, I was scared of him getting scared and getting out of the relationship. But instead I lost him from holding back. I work with him now, and I am constantly thinking about what we once had. It'd been about 4 months since he dumped me, but I've still yet to move on. I've attempted talking to other guys, but I cant move past the reminders of how much I truly love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am scared of rejection. I understand that sounds pathetic, it's true. But my heart is just expressing itself. I really miss him, a lot! But I dont know how to go about getting him back into my life. Anyone have any ideas? I was thinking about asking him to the movies sometime soon, but I dont want to make things akward, ya know?

Please, help would be excellent.

S/N - CRASHCOURSEASHxx if you would like to help out even more! :)

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