Hey, I'm Megan and THIS is my advice column. I'm here to help. I will always give you the best advice possible and I will always be real with you.
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iok yesterday i went to my friends house and she told me there was a guy that looked like a guy that i used to like and had the name of my ex. so i wanted to see him.. nothin else. but then my friends cousin hooked us up and i dont even noe the guy i would have said no but her cousin told him i liked him. the problem is he is 20 and i am well 14.. he didnt care about the age but i have a clsoe guy friend that i like a lot we are planning to hook up we just have to find a way to see each other more. (he lives 15 min. away) and my friend is 15.. i want to give this guy a chance because he was all sweet to me but i think the only reason why he asked me out was 4 my looks. but we were taking pictures and he had his hands all over me and he didnt even noe me. here is what i would like to noe:
*should i give him a chance? if not how can i break it to him but still wanting to get to noe him better?
*should i tell my guy friend about this?
i want to tell my guy friend but he thinks i dont like him which isnt true i tell him i like all the time and he does the same to me..
thanks! (link)
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You should definatly break it off with the 20 year old guy. Skip the whole being nice thing because any 20 year old guy who's wanting to date 14 year old girls isn't anything but a perverted creep. If what the guy did to you made you uncomfortable, you should definatly tell someone about it, but if you don't want to tell your friend, you shouldn't do it.
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heyy, does anyone know any good graphic sites with stuff I could put on my myspace??
--emily (link)
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If you're looking for a background image, do a yahoo image search for whatever it is you want, and that should give you a pretty good selection of things to choose from. That's how did mine, and then I used Thomas's Myspae editor to do it for me. Feel free to take a look at mine if you want.. http://www.myspace.com/Megan_69
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ok why the hec are the MAJORITY of these questions about sex related topics????? theres nothing about babysitting, school, sports, pets, gardening, home decortating, theater, etc. i refuse to answer any sex related questions because you dont ask advicenators.com how to get someone in bed w/ u, etc! you ask them "hey im babysitting two 3 year old twins tomorrow. i really dont like them, not that theyre bad kids, i just dont like em! what can i do?" i understand that people need advice on these things and this is an anonymous way to get it! but people, mayb you could ask your friends or something! i dont know. i just want to know why so many people talk about that on here! its kinda of gross! every other question. . .! yick. ok so please answer ill rate VERY high cause u actually continued to read this! :-P (link)
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People ask those questions on here because they're probably embarrassed to ask a friend or family member. If I can help the person out who's asking the questions, reguardless of what it's about, I always try to do that because I know what it's like to be in that position. I hated not being informed about things that are supposedly common knowledge out in public. You should do a specific search for questions that are not sex related if you don't wanna read about people's sex problems.
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0k, so I'm going out with this guy, and last night, he fingered me and ate me out.. He fingered me so hard that I bleed a little bit, and I was wondering, if there was any cum on his hand, like from the last time he jacked off, could I get pregnant? What are the chances?
Also, what can happen from being eaten out? (link)
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When you bled, it was probaby because he popped your cherry, which isn't unusual for someone who hasn't had any sexual activity (I don't know your history or anything, so I'm not even gonna go there). The chances of you getting pregnant because he had cum on his fingers is slim to none. Especailly if he washed his hands, or at least wiped them off before he started fingering you. You can't get pregnant from being eaten out, either.. nothing besides an orgasam and lots of enjoyment (if you're into that).
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im 13 years old and im a girl. i just want 2 know if there is any jobs that i could get at my age. and please dont say babysitting because i dont really want 2. please and thanks! (link)
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I doubt you'd be able go go out and get a job at a restaraunt or a store at the age of 13. Most places require that you be at least 16 years old, or 15 years old with a work permit. If you really want to make money of yoru own and babysitting is absolutly out of the question, you could always see about doing chores around your house, doing yard work, or working at a family business if yours happens to have one. You could also try doing things for nieghbors, like mowing lawns, or other things that they pay other people to come to the house and do.
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My best friend is really rich and she always likes to brag about her $3.2 million mansion and how mine is only worth $1.2 million. I never really had a problem with her being so "Oh mine is better than yours" because shes done it with our cars, our clothes, etc. But its beginning to bug me because she wrote me this really long email about how she went to Hollister Co. and bought $3,000 worth of stuff. She began listing it one by one. 37 logo shirts ($721), 7 pairs of capris ($276)...and she listed it all the way to underwear, flip flops, mini skirts, shorts, bathing suits, and fragrance. Is that just a little too much? Because I think so. See my family is rich, but we like to save our money. But her family, blows it all on stuff they dont really need. Her $3,000 wardrobe will be thrown out when spring/summer is over. The email really bothered me...I'm not jealous. I can go to Hollister and spend a lot of $$ too. But, how can I teach her that money is not everything...and tell her she can save money while still looking great in all the latest fashion and styles? (link)
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It's not really your place to "teach" your friend anything. If she wants to spend all of her money on clothes that she's just going to throw away at the end of the season, that's her choice. The reason she does it is because she likes everyone to see, as well as hear, that she has money. She can't really be too good of a friend to you if all she ever does is compare prices of houses and cars that don't even belong to you. Maybe you should let her in on a little secret, it's not her that has the money... It's her parents.
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OK i like this guy and he is really cool and funny and all we ca even say ilove you to each other and its ok.. He is in 7th grade and i'm in 8th but we are really good friends like we go to the movies and he calls me all the time and talk about nothing for 2 hours or more.Once he told me that he liked me and i said i liked him too but he hasn't done anything like ask me out. I like him and i want to ask him out but at the same time i just want to be friends and not ruin our friendship. But heres the thing he is the weirdest, most geekest guy in 7th grade everybodys told me but he is my friend and i can't just turn my back on him like that and people think he is gay too. HELP what should i do. (link)
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This has the potential to be a great relationship, but if you're worried about what people would say if the two of you dated, don't ask him to be your boyfriend. It almost sounds like you would be ashamed to be seen with him because of his reputation, if people knew you were dating. It's not fair to him to be covered up with a sheet all the time because his girlfriend's too worried about what everyone else might think. Take this advice, don't get involved with him if you want to keep this friendship alive.
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ok i like this boy he likes me..we like eachother alot....and well i just heard my mom say on the phone to her friends that we are bf and gf..hello i never even knew that..what do i do..is she right..i mean we both gove eachother gifts...but i don't talk to him a lot in school (i do though) BUT i totally talk to him ALOT on line..i mean once we were talking untill......1 0 clock in the morning ( on the computer ) since..9 0 clock at night/....donno what to do! help (link)
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You should just tell your mom that he's just a good friend, and that you intend for it to stay that way for awhile. It's understandable why she would think and say what she did. It's a mother thing, try not to be to upset with her.
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thongs are like really in and i was wondering if anyone who has used one can give my pros and cons of wearing them since at this rate i'll never where one myself (link)
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I'm a fan of the thong, but not eveyone is. My mom, for example, isn't a fan. I feel your pain. I'll cut straight to the chase and answer your question:
Pros: They're comfortable, they make it so you can wear tight pants and see no underwear line, and they come in all sorts of cute styles and colors.
Cons: They're not very fun to wear if you're on your period, and if you don't buy the size that you need (i.e. if you buy them too small) they tend to rub you the wrong way...
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Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!! (link)
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My advice to you is to try being friends with him. You won't know if you like him as a person if you never talk to him. As for a relationship, you should definatly wait until you're a few years older. The things that concern an 18 year old and the things that concern a 14 year old are totally different. I don't mean in a sexual way, I mean that an 18 year old is thinking about future careers and where to go after high school. The gap between levals of maturity is way too great at this point, at least from what you've said. Not to mention the fact that you could get this guy in A LOT of trouble with the law. Dating an underage girl is probably not something he wants to get in trouble for at this point, especailly since he doesn't even know you.
Take it from someone who's been there before... Wait a few years before you pursue a relationship. As for being just friends, there's nothing wrong with that at all.
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Okay so this year my class and i are all going to washington for an end of the year trip, And my bff asked me to room with her, but i dont really wnat to but i say yes anyways. Now here's where it gets hard for me, my other friends (4 of them) asked me to room with them and i'd rather room with them and have tons of fun...BUT i dont wanna leave my friend alone.. and i would ak her to room with us but they all hate her and there can only b 5 to a room...what should i do? i dont want to be a bad friend but i DO want to have fun :(...i rate 5's! (link)
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You should room with the friend that asked you first. You already made a promise to her, and it's not like you can't hang out with your other friends on the trip. They'll probably be right down the hall from you... Hey, you might even suprise yourself and end up having a good time with the other person...
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my 11 year old sister got her period, and she doesnt want her stuff in the bathroom or anywhere, because of my dad and brother. (link)
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hmm... You make it sound as if your dad and brother don't know that women getting their period is a natural part of life. She's probably just embarassed and thinks they won't understand, or that they'll make fun of her. If she really doesn't want to put her "things" in the bathroom, help her find a place in her room to keep them at.
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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
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I lost my virginity when I was 16. Loosing your virginity doesn't mean loosing all respect for yourself. I lost mine to a guy I love and who loves me.
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