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If you posted something to a public forum from your cell phone, can it be traced back to you? I have an iPhone... (link)
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Of course. Anything and everything is easily traced back to its originating source. Though it can only be traced by those who know what they are doing. So for instance.. Say you were being a cyber-bully, and someone was to eventually "bite the bullet" because of said bullying, they can easily trace it back to you if you were/are one of the causes.
Added - It can be traced, but only if someone were to report it. But I do not know how authorities handle such occurrences.
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im 5ft5in and 145 pounds
i want to be 125.
is it possible for me to lose 20 pounds by february 14th?
i would work out 7 days a week...mainly cardio
and eat very healthy a lot of water...no junk food (link)
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It is entirely possible to lose 20 pounds by February. And so long as you do it the safe healthy way (Meaning do not binge and purge *aka Bulimia* and do not starve yourself *anorexia* because these cause bad weight problems in the future, meaning you'll gain wait due to your body's natural nutrient defense, it'll hold on to anything and everything you eat for if the starvation of any form should happen again) As for doing it 7 days a week, take it easy, you don't want to hurt yourself. I would say every other day, and cardio is good for losing weight, but you also have to realize that if you don't also properly tone your body while in the process of losing weight, you can be left with unsightly stretch marks. Also, when exercising, do remember, You WILL need sugars, if you don't want to feel "fat" while eating something sweet, go for something light, such as a sorbet. My boyfriend is a bod-builder, and he is in nice fit shape, but he doesn't deprive his body of any needed nutrients. He typically eats 2 honey buns. One 30 minutes before for the extra energy, and 1 30 minutes after to regain that energy.
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I'm facing this problem since 4-5 months. whenever i masturbate i enjoy and after a little while it starts bleeding. I feel as if my period is going on i.e v dark reddish thick sticky fluid passes from vagina. After one week of my periods i masturbate and still my vagina bleeds. Is this normal. And why is this happening. Please help me on this.. and this bleeding continues for 2 to 3 days.. (link)
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There are a number of reasons. When a woman has an orgasm, her uterus contracts, and if there is any blood inside of your uterus at the time, the contractions "push" out the blood. This does however happen to many women. Light spotting or bleeding after an orgasm may be related to forceful uterine contractions, hormone changes or imbalances.
I do have a question as well though and perhaps it could be have an answer, are you currently on the depo shot? When your on the depo, it causes the lining in your uterus to deplete and causes the skin inside your uterus to become like chapped lips. And when you orgasm, your uterus of course, contracts, causing the uterine lining to move, resulting in bleeding. This can happen with or without pain. It can happen with orgasms and randomly. As well, there could be ovarian/uterine/cervical cysts that "pop" during orgasms. You may sometimes notice it due to pain, though sometimes they do pop painlessly.
There is also the possibility of it being an infection. MANY women get uterine infections without even realizing it. It is treated with a short course of antibiotics. Ruptured vessels can also cause bleeding after an orgasm. Another thing to ask yourself, is it a darker shade of blood? Like a brownish color? If so, it's nothing major to really worry about, as that could just mean a sluggish uterus. Meaning, it did not get ALL the blood out. If this is fresh blood, refer to the depo, if you are NOT on the depo, then I suggest going to your doctor, and adress him/her about this problem as it could be something worse. I hope this helped in some way.
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I guess my dad used his name when i bought my first mac and i've changed computers twice since then, but my computer always defaults to his name for things like mail and ichat, etc. Is there anyway I can change it to my name? It's really annoying. (link)
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Open System by clicking the Start button , clicking Control Panel, clicking System and Maintenance, and then clicking System.
Under Computer name, domain, and work group settings, click Change settings. If you are prompted for an administrator password or confirmation, type the password or provide confirmation.
On the Computer Name tab, click Change.
Under Computer name, delete the old computer name, type a new computer name, and then click OK. If your computer is part of a domain, you will be prompted to provide the name and password of an account with permission to rename the computer in the domain.
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I masturbate alot since I found out about it 2 days ago,
But I can't reach the point of orgasm, is there something I may be doing wrong?
If so what is it/or tell me another technique,
I'll be very happy if you do so! (link)
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I was the same way when I first experimented with my body. Never reached an orgasm, until I tried for longer. It typically takes a woman an average of 12 minutes to reach climax. Some take longer. Clitoral stimulation is one way, as well as vaginal + clitoral stimulation, or just vaginal. (I would not recommend vaginal if you have not had your hymen broken via sex *aka Had your Cherry Popped* But clitoral stimulation, is the easiest way for most women to reach climax. And as for advice on how to reach it, it truly does vary from woman to woman. Some women enjoy faster more vigorous stimulation while some prefer the slower gentle stimulation. Any advice given would be, Find your style and go with it. It may take a few tries, but it is a good way to get more in tune with your body.
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Okay, I almost positive this is not herpes or another STD because I have absolutely zero symptoms of anything. No odor, no painful urination, no burning or itching, no weird discharge. Everything is completely normal.
Except within the past month or so, I keep developing these little cuts in the area right above my clitoris. They sting slightly if touched but other than that, they don't cause me any discomfort. It's almost like the skin is splitting, kinda like dry winter skin or something. Usually they heal up within a few days on their own. I've been applying vagisil lately.
Does anyone know what this could be? (link)
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If someone has an std, they do not always show symptoms. I've known many women who have had std's and said they never showed any symptoms of having one, and the way they found out was going to a OBGYN. Getting regular check ups is not a bad idea, even if you "know" you don't have one, because like them, you could without even showing one symptom.
As for the little cuts, rough clitoral stimulation or too much, can cause irritation around the clitoris. Especially if you dry masturbate. I would suggest using a lubricant (even if you are not going to insert anything into your vagina) to lower your chances of having any form of dry cracking around the clitoris. If you do not like the use of lubricants, or are allergic, then perhaps after masturbation, apply baby oil or lotion to the affected area to help keep it properly moisturized.
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Is it normal to shave your you know what? ( i am a girl)? (link)
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Many women do genital hair removal. There is waxing, nair, and shaving. There is nothing abnormal about doing so. Waxing is where they put hair removal wax on the hair, wax paper, and rip the hair out, keeping the area(s) smooth for longer. Nair chemically removes your hair, but can sometimes cause reactions and keeps you smooth for a LITTLE longer than shaving would.
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If a biro or finger has entered are you still a virgin (link)
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So long as your hymen was not torn (aka, broken/popped cherry) Yes, you are still a virgin. But, even if it was a penis, if your hymen is torn, you are no longer a virgin.
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Umm, i have decided to start using tampons, I`m not too sure on how to insert it properly i know how to and where it goes but where should my hands be?
What angle or place should it be aiming towards?
How hard do you push it to make it go in properly?
How easy should it be to make it slide in?
PLEASE ANSWER THIS. I NEED HELP!
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When you buy a package of tampons, there is a small pamphlet inside with the tampons with a short illustration on how to insert a tampon.
When inserting a tampon, it may take a few tries to find a comfortable position in doing so, or comfortable insert. Every female is different. Pushing to far back can hurt, but also not putting it in far enough can cause some discomfort as well. I suggest just trying a few on one of your monthly days until you get a hang of it. Always ensure that you take out the previous one before inserting a new one, as leaving it in for too long may cause vaginal health problems.
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do garden centipedes bite (link)
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Only if they feel threatened, and from experience, they hurt a lot more than a bee sting.
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My brother got a tattoo on his arm that looks like:
An upside-down "U" with a line under the letter.
What does it mean? (link)
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If I am understanding correctly, you are thinking of the zodiac Libra sign. Here are the zodiac signs.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/05/Astro_signs.svg/300px-Astro_signs.svg.png
If this is correct, I am glad to of been some help.
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im getting my belly pierced this thursday, and im scared...
please tell me how you felt or anything like that..
HOW MUCH IT HURT
HOW LONG DID THE PAIN LAST, ETC
THANKYOU! :D (link)
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I've had mine pierced before, as well as I've pierced many. Piercings are always scary at first, but in the end you typically feel relieved because it's never as bad as you think it may be. When I had mine done, it only felt like a small pinch. Other's told me it hurt. So really it varies depending on how well you can handle pain. The pain does not last for very long, so long as you are careful and follow directions given to you by your piercer. It'll be tender for about a week to 2 weeks, if you EVER get an infection, DO NOT remove your piercing, as this could trap the infection inside your body causing it to spread. When getting your belly button pierced, I typically recommend having a hoop as your first option, since it's much easier to clean while you're in the shower. (you have to move it in and out to get the soap inside the piercing, and to rinse it out.) and ALWAYS make sure to do the rinse out thoroughly.
But in short, belly piercings in my opinion do not hurt any more than getting your ear lobe pierced.
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im 15 i`m in my in my final year of school 4 and a half years ago i started cutting myself wen my mum got attacked and confined to a wheel chair a year ago i found out my dad wasnt my dad it was actually a bipolar drug addict who beat my mum and forgot i had been born...just under a year ago i tried to kill my self my friends and family think im better but in fact i want to die more than ever i know i should tell them but i just cant they will send me back in to counciling and the process will repeat its self every time i cut they gt deeper and i know i wont be strong enough to control my self when things get to much i dont know what to do anymore i just need help. what should i do?i hate my self and my life but i dont want to hurt them i cant stand the thought of puting them though what happened last time im desparate please please help.what should i do ? (link)
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I honestly understand how you feel to an extent. My childhood was full of pain and much suffering. I too attempted to end my life, but realized, just because I have it bad, doesn't mean that I have to give up. My father isn't my father, my mother doesn't even know who he is. I was abused in many ways. I didn't want to go to counseling, but because (I'm not afraid to admit it) of the suicidal thoughts and the wishes for death, I knew I needed to get help. I don't want to die, at least not so early in life. You HAVE to be strong, and realize your life is NOT worth ending. You can be so much more. When you feel the urge to cut, do what I transferred to, bite yourself until you can get help. Yes, bite yourself. It's safer than cutting, and you aren't losing anymore blood and you won't be damaging your skin. I regret cutting in the past honestly, because now I have many of these awful scars, but they are also there to remind me with the pain and suffering I went through, which only in the end, made me stronger. I'm sure you've heard these things a lot, but honestly, life is already too short as it is, and you don't get to live the same life twice. Get help. I did and honestly I feel much better. They have medicines that help. The only problem is with some of them, they could make you wish more for death, that's when you call your doctor IMMEDIATELY and get put on something new. Just fight the urge to wish yourself harm. And you won't hurt anyone saying "I need to get help, I don't like feeling this way." I said that to my mate and he was upset, but also happy that I knew I needed the help. Because you're only hurting them more not getting help, as well as yourself. Believe it or not, but even if you don't talk about it, someone already knows something is wrong, and they are hurting not knowing what it is or what to do to help you. There is NOTHING wrong with seeking professional help, and if you are embarrassed about people finding out, don't be. Especially with today's economy, many people are seeking help. Some for the wrong reasons, but many to keep their lives and sanity.
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does it uhrt when you get staples removed out of the hip ?
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I've had staples removed. 32 of them. They don't "hurt" but so much as sting. Like the pulling of a scab. But it's nothing that will make you want to kill or be killed. Don't worry. It'll be done before you know it ^_^
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Hi well me and my bf where together for about 4 years we broke up for 5 months and well he was fine at first. the reason i left was because he was chating to girls behind my back. i left him, he was fine for 4 months. i had moved on and met the nicest guy ever but my x tried suicide so i had to stop him and said i would give him one last chance. well the thing is when we argue he gets aggresive and he never knows how to speak to me i gave all my freedom and friends up for him and i do everything to make him happy but still he has no manners i left a great guy for him now i don't know how to leave as he is dependant on me i really just sometimes feel like leaving everything behind and going to another city but hes that kind of guy he wil come look for me. he is now trying to stop with his aggretion problem but what about his manners i mean a guy that swears at you infront of anyone just because you forgot to bring him something small and you forgot because you had like 10000 things to do for him. well the other guy was nice and sweet and really crazy about me but now i'v lost him he has a new girlfriend ive also lost my best friend all my friends actually so what must i do...... i really cant take this being depressed all the time... i am 20 years old and he is 23 from s.a (link)
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Being in a relationship like that is not healthy. For either of you. You NEED to get out of it. Hypothetically, say one day you and him end up having a child. Let's say, you have a little girl ok, she'll be raised seeing how her father treats her mother, and she'll believe that is how a relationship is suppose to be. You have to be strong, I understand it is very hard, but you also have to realize that your life is just as if not more important than a 23 year old man who refuses to do anything for himself. You have your future to think about and that's stressful enough, right? I'm going to tell you a life experience, and hopefully it will help you make a right decision.
I was in a relationship just the same as you are. I worked day in day out, he didn't have a job. I cleaned, cooked, as well as did everything else in the household and was at his beckon call.He wasn't only emotionally but also physically abusive. Every time I would try to leave he would threaten me with "I'll kill myself, I can't live without you!" and I'd be trapped again, only for it to start all over again. One day I felt enough was enough, I did NOT want my daughter to believe that you are suppose to be in a relationship where the male is allowed to treat the female like horrible trash. I finally got the strength and courage to leave him. He tried to "pull those strings" again. He thrashed about and screamed at me saying he was going to kill himself, he never did.
What I'm trying to tell you, the current boyfriend you have apparently knows how to "pull your strings" and keep you around to care for him. Also, when you leave him (I say when, because you will leave him, you HAVE to or its going to get worse) and you do move to another city or town, and if he does try to follow you or stalks you, get a restraining order. Your happiness and your life are not worth a low life dead beats time. It's sad that your good ex has a new g/f, but that doesn't mean you won't find another great guy. You just HAVE to be strong and get out of this emotionally and/or physically abusive relationship. Women in the past did not fight for women's rights just so we could stay in horrible relationships and be abused. You have a choice, you have the strength, you just need to find your courage. Be strong, and do what you know is best. Even if I'm not a religious person, I pray for your happiness and that you gain the courage to make the right decision for YOUR life. IF he does attempt suicide or whatever, it's his own weakness that he cannot properly care for himself. It truly has nothing to do with you. You are not responsible for an adult man's life. You are only responsible for yourself and any children (if you have any) that you have.
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Hello I'm 4 days late but i've been having really bad cramps like i'm going to start. I'm never usually this late could i still be pregnant? (link)
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If there is a possibility of you being pregnant, cramps during pregnancy are perfectly normal. Your uterus is stretching as your baby grows. There's no way of telling how far you really are unless you go to the doctor and get a blood test done (they suck I know, but it's the 100% sure way to know if you are pregnant or not) Also, you may have a period for a month or two as well. If you do find out you are pregnant, and the cramps become very painful (to the point you cannot move, or you "want to die") then go to the hospital immediately.
But as I've said before, if you are pregnant, cramps through-out the pregnancy are perfectly normal. You may also have a period even if the fetus has already connected to your womb.
My sources : I'm a mom.
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I just got out of a really bad relationship, the guy hurt me so much, ive been upset about him for 4 months all in all, and ever since those 4 months i never really had time to heal, because he was still in my life til i decided to cut him out of my life so i can move on, because i dont want to be in love with him anymore, anyways, theres this guy in my school that has always been trying to talk to me ever since last year when i was with my ex, and he would look at me alot, i never really cared because i was with someone and i loved him, but anyways, since im out in the opened now, i decided to write the boy, just to be friends not more honestly, but seems like its turning into something else, correct me if im wrong, i was talking to him online and we were laughing about the same things, so he goes "you know, we have alot in common :D " im like "yeah we doo ! " hes liike "are you still with *the guys name* im like nope :D , hes like oh okay, and then we carried on, and WHENEVER he sees me at school he tries to atleast say hi to me and make small conversation, and hes constantly constantly constantly starring at me like sometimes i even think to myself , is he TRYING to make it obvious? thats how much he stares, and when he stares and i stare back he starts smiling at me til i look away..is it normal for guys to ask that question? and look at a girl, maybe hes just being friendly? how do i know? and another question is, why do i feel guilty or im doing something wrong? i know i just got out of a relationship and im not looking for anything serious, but im looking for something new, i want to move on, i want to be able to socialize with other guys and be happy.. and honestly this boy makes me happy, he distracts me, takes my mind off alot.. am i doing anything wrong? should i not be involving myself into this after i got out of something really bad? thanks to whoever decided to read this. :) (link)
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You're not doing anything wrong. It's normal to date, especially if you're young. You don't want to be hung over your ex, this guy makes you feel good, I suggest going for it and giving him a chance. I guess ask him sometime in person or over the phone if he is interested in you, or say you're interested in him.
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Okay well im 13 and i've had a boyfriend and i've made out with him, kind of. i kinda rejected his tongue? And now i really like another guy and i've had dreams of me kissing him and they felt so real
and i've really been wanting another boyfriend or just to make out with a guy, idk what to do or why im like this? (link)
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This is kind of normal for girls your age. Especially now a days. But remember, this society has double standards. What's "ok" for a guy to do is not necessarily "ok" for a female to do. It doesn't make sense, but that's how most things are. I would suggest, if you are interested in someone else, while dating another.. That you should be careful, but this is normal as well. You're all young. I just suggest you be careful though. Because one thing leads to another, and then you end up pregnant at a young age. Raising a child as a teenager is not as easy as most teens think.
Anyway, I believe if you're going to date, at least be responsible, don't go dating two boys at the same time, because that will give you the beginning title of "slut". If you aren't interested in your boyfriend anymore, tell him and you guys can stop dating. Then after some time, if the other male friend is single, perhaps ask him out or w/e. Just take it slowly, you have a long life ahead of you, and I'm sure you'll date several more times.
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its been about a year since ive actually flirted with a guy and tried to text him and such. im in college now and i dont fully know all the rules. i met a kid about 3 weeks ago and we have been flirting everytime ive seen him but then by the end he starts to act all weird. he texted me last week and then i texted him one day and just talked. i really want to text him again but i dont wanna look stupid or desperate. he really is a great guy and i dont wanna mess it up. i know its stupid cause its only college and mostly people just hookup but he is someone i could see myself with. what do i do to make a move or show him im interested and flirting tips? we normally go to the clubs or to frat parties when we all hang out as a group. (link)
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I believe the better approach is just telling him how you feel. Don't play games trying to "hint" him, because most guys dislike the "games". I say be straight forward and tell him that you like him and would like to start dating, in your own words. Don't be shy, don't be afraid... Ok, you'll be afraid.. But just dive into the pool head first. Remember, you're in college, some other girl(s) may have a fancy for him as well. I say next time you're both alone, tell him how you feel. Or call him on the phone if you're afraid to do it face to face.
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I'm 16 ;3
My boyfriend broke up with my yesterday and I feel terrible. We've been dating for a year and 8 months..and I don't want it to be over. He's in a general an amazing guy, we've had *ALOT* of issues, but we always got threw them..
I'm the type who gets attached, when I fall more in love..and when I fall more in love I become more cautious. He said I don't trust him, I worry to much.. etc.
He said he'll always love me ;// but I want him to come BACK..we've had so many good times, we've connected so much & I miss him, I really do.
Is there any hope of him coming back?...Should I just give up? ;/ (link)
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It's normal to feel terrible after a break up. But at your age, there are many more who could be just as or even more amazing. In time, you won't feel so miserable after the break up, and you'll begin to feel better. Don't dwell so much on it. Also, there can be no love without trust. This goes for every relationship you may encounter. I think if you love someone you have to know and trust they wouldn't want to hurt you. If you cling too much to someone, (not everyone likes that type;/) it can become tiring for them. You shouldn't necessarily "give up" because who knows? You never know what will happen in the future. But it wouldn't hurt to date other people for a while, maybe he'll get jealous, or perhaps you'll find someone much better than him.
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