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do i make a move?
18/f
its been about a year since ive actually flirted with a guy and tried to text him and such. im in college now and i dont fully know all the rules. i met a kid about 3 weeks ago and we have been flirting everytime ive seen him but then by the end he starts to act all weird. he texted me last week and then i texted him one day and just talked. i really want to text him again but i dont wanna look stupid or desperate. he really is a great guy and i dont wanna mess it up. i know its stupid cause its only college and mostly people just hookup but he is someone i could see myself with. what do i do to make a move or show him im interested and flirting tips? we normally go to the clubs or to frat parties when we all hang out as a group.
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I believe the better approach is just telling him how you feel. Don't play games trying to "hint" him, because most guys dislike the "games". I say be straight forward and tell him that you like him and would like to start dating, in your own words. Don't be shy, don't be afraid... Ok, you'll be afraid.. But just dive into the pool head first. Remember, you're in college, some other girl(s) may have a fancy for him as well. I say next time you're both alone, tell him how you feel. Or call him on the phone if you're afraid to do it face to face.
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