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I have 2 questions, would appreciate if answered :) Guys are more preffered
I just got out of a really bad relationship, the guy hurt me so much, ive been upset about him for 4 months all in all, and ever since those 4 months i never really had time to heal, because he was still in my life til i decided to cut him out of my life so i can move on, because i dont want to be in love with him anymore, anyways, theres this guy in my school that has always been trying to talk to me ever since last year when i was with my ex, and he would look at me alot, i never really cared because i was with someone and i loved him, but anyways, since im out in the opened now, i decided to write the boy, just to be friends not more honestly, but seems like its turning into something else, correct me if im wrong, i was talking to him online and we were laughing about the same things, so he goes "you know, we have alot in common :D " im like "yeah we doo ! " hes liike "are you still with *the guys name* im like nope :D , hes like oh okay, and then we carried on, and WHENEVER he sees me at school he tries to atleast say hi to me and make small conversation, and hes constantly constantly constantly starring at me like sometimes i even think to myself , is he TRYING to make it obvious? thats how much he stares, and when he stares and i stare back he starts smiling at me til i look away..is it normal for guys to ask that question? and look at a girl, maybe hes just being friendly? how do i know? and another question is, why do i feel guilty or im doing something wrong? i know i just got out of a relationship and im not looking for anything serious, but im looking for something new, i want to move on, i want to be able to socialize with other guys and be happy.. and honestly this boy makes me happy, he distracts me, takes my mind off alot.. am i doing anything wrong? should i not be involving myself into this after i got out of something really bad? thanks to whoever decided to read this. :)
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If you are feeling guilty then maybe you aren't ready for a relationship just yet, Sometimes getting over someone can take awhile. When I got out of my last relationship it took me a year to get over it but I was also with my partner for 5 years. If you want to be friends for now then keep the boundaries to a minimum and don't let it get that far. I personally find the best relationships to start out as friends anyway. If the guy is being pushy, Reassure him that you want to take it down a notch and let him know that right now you just want to be friends and that you need some time to relax as a single person. Once you are ready you can slowly begin to take it on a little more gradually but don't rush into something you may not be ready for.
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You're not doing anything wrong. It's normal to date, especially if you're young. You don't want to be hung over your ex, this guy makes you feel good, I suggest going for it and giving him a chance. I guess ask him sometime in person or over the phone if he is interested in you, or say you're interested in him.
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