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I hate all of this </3
I'm 16 ;3
My boyfriend broke up with my yesterday and I feel terrible. We've been dating for a year and 8 months..and I don't want it to be over. He's in a general an amazing guy, we've had *ALOT* of issues, but we always got threw them..
I'm the type who gets attached, when I fall more in love..and when I fall more in love I become more cautious. He said I don't trust him, I worry to much.. etc.
He said he'll always love me ;// but I want him to come BACK..we've had so many good times, we've connected so much & I miss him, I really do.
Is there any hope of him coming back?...Should I just give up? ;/
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Well has he told you the reason why he wanted to break up? Was there an issue that maybe never got resolved?
I'm exactly like you when I'm in a relationship I'mm cautious but I've learned I need to worry more about me and not the other person. I worry way to much about losing the person that when I actually do lose the person I'm caught off guard. Maybe you can talk to him and see what he says and see how he feels. Maybe what you two really need is a break or maybe its not meant to be. I can't tell you whether or not he's coming back thats up to him and what he wants. You can tell him you want to work it out but its up to him whether or not he wants to. You also need to respect his decision whether good or bad. Worry about you right now and what you want. Try not worrying about him. Good luck and feel better!
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It's normal to feel terrible after a break up. But at your age, there are many more who could be just as or even more amazing. In time, you won't feel so miserable after the break up, and you'll begin to feel better. Don't dwell so much on it. Also, there can be no love without trust. This goes for every relationship you may encounter. I think if you love someone you have to know and trust they wouldn't want to hurt you. If you cling too much to someone, (not everyone likes that type;/) it can become tiring for them. You shouldn't necessarily "give up" because who knows? You never know what will happen in the future. But it wouldn't hurt to date other people for a while, maybe he'll get jealous, or perhaps you'll find someone much better than him.
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