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why do people with a loving family do bad things?
Maybe they feel like the love is not divided equally between them and their other family members or the expectations set for them may seem too high. Send any questions to follow up to my inbox.
ok so this girl who goes to my school keeps messaging me on myspace and says mean things and i tell her to leave me alone but she hasn't stopped. and i don't want to tell my mom because she'll think i started this whole thing. what should i do?
Deleting your myspace would minimize the problem of if the harassment only occurs online; the problem would be eliminated. I'm a sixteen year old and I understand that myspace is helpful in keeping you connected to your friends, but if you choose to keep your account...you'll find that this site is the source of many negative situations.
14/f.
Im getting my ears pierced for the first time tomorrow and I just wanna be prepared for how much it's going to hurt, so can someone tell me how much it hurt for them? This is just for a first piercing nothing more, so i only want to hear about that not cartilage or anything.
thanks :)
There is no pain. Your ears will just throb when all is done, but it merely feels "interesting" not painful.
i think my girlfriends dad sexually abuses her. her parents are divorced and she has five older brothers but they all live on their own since there alot older than she is. i went over there for dinner one time because she said she was scared but she wouldnt tell me why and the whole meal her dad kept making perverted comments about her chest size. shes like a 36d which is nice. her dad was like wow molly your tits look huge i just wanna grab them. and she kept telling him to stop and saying not now dad please. and he kept asking me when i was gonna fuck her next. and he thinks she would be good in bed. she kept getting really embrassed. then all of a sudden he did grabb her and then she started crying and her dad told me to leave but she looked so scared i couldnt leave her. i took her to my house. and i kept asking her did he always do this to you and she wouldnt answer me. i dont know what to do. do you think he rapes her and sexually abuse her. thank you in advance.
If you are at the point of questioning that type of activity, then report this behavior to the police. You've seen him touch her and you whitnessed the amount of verbal abuse that went on. That is not a typical conversation between a father and daughter. Do what's right: notify the authorities.
I have a problem with my apperance. Sometimes I am in love with the way I look (actually always, but at the same time I hate my face).
Everyone tells me how gorgeous & beautiful I am, and guys call me "hott" but I don't see it. There are 100 things wrong with my face such as uneven eyebrows, smallish eyes, my nose is kinda small, my chin is too point, my teeth are pretty good but could be better, and my nose... ah my nose is just another story.
But whenever I pass a mirror, I stop and stare at myself for 10 minutes at a time. I'm pretty vain, but at the same time I hate my looks.
I want to know why I am so in love with the way I look when really I hate it?
And how to get over the Vanity. Thanks in advancee.
I feel the same way about myself. I go through the extremes: either I feel completely stunning or I feel like I'm turning people off. Have a look of modesty on your face and it'll make you a bit more innocent, so that you'll be able to tolerate those days when you don't look your best and so will others because you'll be someone who is approachable. Just remember: we are far more critical of ourselves than others are towards us. I think I am pretty vain myself, so I don't know how to get past that, but these steps could be a start.
I'm going to visit my grandma for the last time in two days. I'm really nervous, we used to be really close but we barely are anymore. I'm not allowed to act different around her.
I'm afraid I'm going to break down and cry when its time to leave. How do I stay strong for her and my mom? I've never dealt with a death before.
During Spring Break, I experienced the same scenario. I weas not at all close with my grandma, but with her in hospice: that really hurt me. Cry-it's something you need to do, but do not do it in her presence. Just think: what would you want her last memory of you to be like? Don't let her sense your fear because she may be fearful also of what's to come. Smiling and thinking past the negativity will make things easier on her part. You'll make it through .x0
I would like to know if anyone can help me find the sheet music to It Ends Tonight- All-American Rejects for Piano. Thanks in advance.
I've never ordered off this site, so I can't tell you how reliable it is, but here ya go:
http://www.encoremusic.com/piano/1707263.html
P.S.-you really are something else to give such low ratings when the both of us gave just what you had asked for. You have some nerve.
Can someone tell me who Miss Universe in 2004?
thanks in advance. xo
Jennifer Hawkins.
Does anyone know any pop or rock songs that involve being imperfect? I wish that I could hear some things that relate... help?
TLC-Unpretty.
It's an incredible song.
what is it?
lumpy fat deposits, esp. in the thighs and buttocks.
(dictionary.com as my source)
okay so theres this song on someones myspace and the player is hidden they claim they dont know the name of the song, but I really want it on myspace. I tried google it didn't work. is there anyway I could find out what it is?
and the song goes something like:
"my heart was stuck in denial there was too many miles between us"
"it was something"
It is called "Selfish" and is by Nikki Flores.
-To those who couldn't have told them that: don't bother responding. I took the time to search this and it was not easy, so telling them to search it themselves isn't a brilliant idea.
-Here are the lyrics:
I only thought of you and me and never anything else
The time we spent together kept me sane, it helped me to be myself
What I didn't realize is that the distance was breaking your heart
Even under you're best disguise, it was tearing you apart, baby.
It was...
selfish, of me to give you my love and tell you that we would never be.
selfish, to want you here everyday, even though we were much too far away.
selfish, to think there was nothing wrong, leave me helplessly hanging on to you
selfish, my heart was stuck in denial, there were too many miles between us
Didn't wanna hurtcha baby, never meant to hurtcha baby (didn't wanna hurtchu baby)
Didn't wanna hurtcha baby, never meant to hurtcha baby
When I am on the telephone I hear you say goodnight
Was hard to not the best way to keep the commitment light?
After all the fantasies, I couldn't see past, what could it be?
You were a part of me, but it had to be, oh it had to
'cause it was..
selfish, of me to give you my love and tell you that we would never be.
selfish, to want you here everyday, even though we were much to far away.
selfish, to think there was nothing wrong, to leave me helplessy hanging on to you
selfish, my heart was stuck in denial, there were too many miles between us
Tell me, how can it be that I loved you with all my heart but I was heartless,
I want to believe that there was still something I was running from,
oh no, take this misery away, away.
It was...
selfish, of me to give you my love and tell you that we would never be.
selfish, to want you here everyday, even though we were much to far away.
selfish, to think there was nothing wrong, to leave me helplessly hanging on to you
selfish, my heart was stuck in denial, there were too many miles between us
Didn't wanna hurtcha baby, never meant to hurtcha baby
(never meant to hurt you baby)
Didn't wanna hurtcha baby, never meant to hurtcha baby
whats that country song called that says you can spend your whole life building something for nothing. and them ane big stom can blow it all away... or something like that.. sorry thats all i can remember..
also can i have the rest of the lyrics too??
thx in advance!!
I have been obsessed with this song! It is called "Anyway" and is by Martina McBride.
You can spend your whole life buildin'
Somethin' from nothin'
One storm can come and blow it all away
Build it anyway
You can chase a dream
That seems so out of reach
And you know it might not ever come your way
Dream it anyway
(Chorus)
God is great, but sometimes life ain't good
When I pray it doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway
I do it anyway
This world's gone crazy and it's hard to believe
That tomorrow will be better than today
Believe it anyway
You can love someone with all your heart
For all the right reasons
And in a moment they can choose to walk away
Love 'em anyway
(Repeat Chorus)
You can pour your soul out singin'
A song you believe in
That tomorrow they'll forget you ever sang
Sing it anyway
Yeah sing it anyway
I sing
I dream
I love anyway
anyone know this song.
it goes like this,
"is this the start of it?
has this become a part of it.
maybe we should've slowed down.
this is how we watsed it,
maybe we'll get it abck somehow."
it's in alexheartbreaker's myspace btw XD
"The Start of It". It's by: Meese.
15/f. i'm so overwhelmed by everything right now and i just need help. i used to be so honest and always tell the truth, but now for some reason i find myself lying all the time, especially to my parents. whenever my parents are away my sister always has parties, and i always have to lie to protect her.
but i'm so over lying. it gets me upset to have to lie. i just want to be able to come home at night to my house, without a bunch of people here. then they all get drunk and sleep here.
what do i do? i don't want to betray my sister, but i hate lying. i've lied before to protect her, but i don't want to have to lie anymore.
thanks for any help
She should not be putting you in such a situation. Family want the best for you, so don't feel horrible if you turn her in for her wrong doings. Of course, you should warn her beforehand that you're done covering for her, so from that point on there should be no guilt for her actions and the consequences because she'll know in advance that she's not making a smart choice.
where is mall of america?
Bloomington, Minnesota.
long story short, me and friend want to put together a disney cabaret
what are some of your favorite disney songs?
by the way, high school musical DOESN'T count
I mean like classic annimated movies.
thanks!
There's a rock version of "Part of Your World" performed by Skye Sweetnam.
Baby Mine-Dumbo
I Won't Say I'm in Love-Hercules
Just Around the Riverbend-Pocahontas
Once Upon a December-Anastasia
Journey to the Past- Anastasia
Belle-Beauty and the Beast
Tarzan-Strangers Like Me
-I hope you'll give these a try or be able to recall them!
whats the song, its main verse
"twine twine twine inner twine,
the inner twine,carelessly growing up,
*something*,
on our time,
*something*,
so girl,
*something*,
i wake up but i feel alone, i was just alseep, *something*,
inside this
sad sad song"
^something like that.
It's called "Like Vines" & it's by The Hush Sound.
Can anything think of any crazy things to do at school?
At break and lunchtime?
Like where we can get a load of people to do it so we look like a ton of crazy people?
Random question I know, but if you have any ideas the please answer, thanks in advance, xxx
Link arms with people walking the opposite direction from you: they'll never expect it and just keep walking with their arm linked to your's. Do this at lunch. I call this "The Food Chain!"
my friend threw a sleepover party last
night and i wasn't invited.. yeah she
could only have 11 people.. and they
prank phone called me like at 1 a.m and
it was obvious it was them because i heard
tons of laughing in the background.. they
didn't say anything mean but for some
reason the fact that they prank phone
called me and probably said something
about me while doing it is pissing me off..
i mean like why prank call ME ?! why not
someone they don't like.. ughh
i think its immature
what should i do?
am i overreacting?
If you're looking at the principle of it: what they had done was wrong and it's understandable that it upset you. For one, she didn't even invite you and then had the nerve to call-It is immature and you should inform your friend of how her actions offended you.
well i masturbate pretty much once a day with a back massager on my clitoris and i reallyyy want to have an orgasm but after a while my clitoris starts to "spazz" and i feel like i should stop when this happens. what's happening? is it normal? how can i orgasm?
Find another method because maybe the power level is too intense and you need less stimulation for a longer period of time.