hi im jenny :)
i go to highschool && and im going to be a somphmore.
i love my friends more than anything &&
i have gone through alot these past couple of years.
my parents got divorced when i was 5 && my dad is homosexual.
i dont really get along with my family
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i have had really bad dating/relationship problems. so i know how most of you feel.
i have really learned alot and hope to learn more.
highschool is really what people say it is DRAMA.
people really do set out to hurt you and bring you down, but that's were i would really like to help. haha
so if you are having friend, family, or GUY problems just feel free to ask me anything.
i probably know how you feel and i hope i can help you. LOVEEE YOU :)
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Age: 15
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okay so i just started to hang out with this guy (we're not going out. i've only made out with him once) and im pretty sure he's more into me than i am to him. hes at the beach and he told me that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of me.
now as cute as that sounds, im really not into cheezy things like that. hes also in a band which might be a reason for this whole passionate thing.
how do i deal with this? do i tell him straight up he's too sensitive?
i mean we only talked a bit and he's kinda rushing things. help please! (link)
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hahah i know how you feel i used to date someone kinda like this and I HATE sensitive guys, i really do not know why but i just do haha. ok but what i did is we were talking on the phone and i asked him what things about a girl did he like and then he told me and then i go ok what DONT you like in a girl..and he told me. Then i told him what i like in a guy and wat I DIDNT LIKE in a guy. in the part were i told him about what i hated in guys, i told him i hated when guys say cheezy,sensitive things and well i think he got the point bc he stopped saying weird stuff like that. so i would try that and see if it works!
good luck and i hope i maybe helped!
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my cousin seems to be flirting with me. he's like 13 and i'm 16. he got my number and has texted me a lot. i can understand that he only has his sister and step brother around.. but he's been texting me a lot. he followed me around a lot too and got too close. i caught him staring at my boobs. i found out he's coming over to visit for a few hours.
what should i do? i'm not going to accuse him of anything. i can't go anywhere either. my uncle is coming over and its just one of those hang out days. it's really hot [103] and i can't lock myself in the guest room. i need advice on what to do..
i was thinking of watching tv downstairs and making necklaces.. to keep myself distracted.. so i wouldnt have to pay attention to him.
i only wanted to have fun on my vacation. since my other cousins ****my age.. feel as though i'm not old enough to be in their group [wtf, yes?] i was hanging out with him.. because he allowed it i suppose.. but if i knew he was going to be like this.. i wouldn't have.
help? (link)
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ok i agree with the girl down below boobs are boobs haha this sounds weird but sometimes i think my 11 yr old brother stares at mine..but idk. but if you really think your cousin likes you then i would always be with someone lik your mom or dad or if you hav littel cousins that would be good also. but they key is to never be alone (with him). another good strategy is to talk on the phone (to your friends because it keeps you distracted and occupied so he cant hangout with you). but i hope everything goes well and if he does try and make a move on you tell him to stop and then be like that is not right and if he doesnt stop well you need to tell an adult or someone. goood luck & i hope i maybe helped!
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15/f
my friend, ok yeah so she sent all these pictures of her body, like her boobs, and vagina, to all these guys. and yeah i know its slutty, but ive kinda always been the type, that i give my opionon, and say its wrong, but i believe everyone can do whatever they want, & if its what they choose, then fine. but anyways, her sister saw one picture, that a guy sent her. so they got in a fight, and her sister told her mom. well now her moms taking the phone to the store or whatever, and like going to see all of her txts and everything. soo, any advice for my friend on how to get herself out of this mess? (link)
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hahaha my friend did that too, but she didnt get in trouble by her mom. GOSH THAT WOULD SUCK! anyways if i were her this sounds really bad but..tell her to find her phone and throw it in the bathtub filled with water and let it soak and then it will be broken so then her mom will not see the pictures.i mean yeah she will get in trouble but personally that is better than her mom seeing those pics (well i think). the only bad thing would be if her mom hid her phone and she cant ever find it. so you and your friend GOOD LUCK! i hope i helped
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well I really like this kid and he asked me if I had one wish what would it be? and I honestly my wish would be to be with him :] but Idk if I should say that... it seems to forward.. Im like way sure he lieks me back... but idk.... should I tell him that I like him??? or would it mess it up? (link)
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girll just tell him you like him, i mean really go for it especially if he likes you back! Besides every relationship makes you smarter and stronger when it comes to dating! so i say tell him you like him and if he likes you back..then well..ITS PERFECT! haha
so i hope i maybe helped GOODDD LUCKK :)
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OK this is the situation i broke up with my bf we hadn't been going out long. This girl in my class had liked him all the time we had been going out and about 2 days after we broke up she asked him out (which is really lame!)He said yes and they are going out now should i be angry that it had been only 2 days since we had broken up or should i get over it?
Please help!!!
thanx (link)
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i mean ok i know EXACTLY how you feel.
you did break up with him first of all, but i feel you if your mad because personally i would be pissed off! so i think you should tell her that was really lame of her to do that 2 days after ( if your friends with her) if your not friends with her then as hard as it is even though you didnt date for long you just have got to let it go, because there are so many other guys that probably really like you and you probably dont even know it. but trust me i know how you feel girll.
good luck and i hope i maybe helped!
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first things first--15/m.
ok so like i said, im 15 and theres this girl(lets just call her bonqueesha lol) who is basically all over me, and shes really cute and all.. but shes only 13. see in my opinion i think it would be wrong/weird for us to hook up or go out or whatever, so what do all you advicenators think? (link)
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alrightt i was in the girl you like's situation. likee if you really like herr then i would go out or hook up with her or w/e your going to do. i mean i think you should kinda keep it on the down low for a while i mean only tell your bestfriends about her..so then you can hangout with her and your friends. but like dont tell you know like EVERYONE,because some ppl may think its a bit weird. so if you like her i would go for it but if not then i wouldnt. and then if you do end up dating quietly or however then later when she gets to be 14 or 15 it wont look as differentt! i hope that wasnt to confusing and that it helped
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Ok well my friend really likes this guy. Shes liked him for like two school years i think. We Anyway, I dont like him, but I have this feeling that me and him might date in the future... like soon, in a couple of months of getting to know eachother again, because we used to be friends. And like i said I dont like him but I do sometimes wonder what me and him would be like. And I dont want to lose this friend, she like him and I would never date her crush, but I wouldn't want to like him either. What should I do?? This feeling is strong, and i feel so right. (link)
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well when your friend finds this out she will be really mad. i mean it depends on how great of a friend she is to you. i mean if shes just an aquiantence then go ahead, but if shes like one of your bestfriends then idk thats tough. I mean i know you like this guy or maybe will in the future but guys dont last forever i mean your only 16 and friendships can last VERY LONG! so basically my advice is hoes over bross. i hope this helped and good luck!
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Kay well my parents' are spliting up , and I've been expecting it , I'm not sad or anything [no I'm not in denil either] and I have a desision to make , who I want to live with.
1) My mom : She sooo nice and I can tell her anything , But she can get moody and emotinally abusive [just a little bit].
2) My Dad : He is always asleep or a work or on the computer ,I can't really talk to him about anything.He is always in a bad mood and is vitiamin D deficiant [usually really bad mood in the winter] and he over grounds me for everyhting.BUT he brings me places and gives me money and treats me my age. (link)
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ok hi im jenny
my parents also are divorced and my dad is homosexual. they got divorced when i was 5 so i really didnt have any choice on who i would live with. i now am 15 and i live with my mom, I really like living with my mom.
For example, if you live with your dad who is going to buy you tampons and stuff when its an emergency. I mean i no that sounds lame but its true. Your dad seems cool, but if you do live with your mom your dad with miss you and feel bad so then he will spoil you EVEN MORE! so my opinion is that you live with your mom. plus your mom always is your bestfriend and that way she will ALWAYS be there for you. i hope i helped and good luck making the decision.
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what's the best lotion to use for when i'm laying outside that will make me get super tan, fast? anything that i can get at a drugstore, or like walmart/target. even things i can find around the house would work. (link)
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i would get this stuff that is really indoor tanning lotion but you can also layout outside with it too. it is called JAM and comes in a black container. make sure to wash your hands after you but it on!
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ok well now Trevor (my ex bf) is being an ass.... but i love him alot.... we just broke up this morning and he ALREADY has a new gf!!! its really pissing me off! we r just friends but then just like an hour ago he said he still loves me but he loves his new gf too so its "hard" to choose between us..... should i just get over him or just wait 4 his answer on who he loves more? (link)
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i knoww how you feel..
but like idk who broke up with who.
but i think you should play really hard to get and then maybe he will want you back i mean i cant guarentee it will work but idk. if that doesnt work then tell him you really really still like hiim because you do not want him to get to serious with that other girl trust me! but just try not to get jealous i mean maybe you could even try and make HIM jealous ! :)
good luck and i hope maybe i helped
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Well i like this boy and he knows i do right,but when we tlak on msn he goes i know who you like i go who? who ? and he names another boys name and he knows i love him and i go you know i love then he says sureee do you know why ? (link)
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uhm well hes just trying to get you to say that you love him.
so mess with him and be lik no i dont like them i dont like anyone.
and then see what he says haa that will probably make him think a little !
hope that helped!
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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14. (link)
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my opinion is to be sneaky bc thats what i do and it works most of the time for me.
i mean ok the good thing is you will have a boyfriend and you will be able experience realtionships, and you might date someone you rreally like, it could be a good experience and you could really learn alot.
the bad thing is if your parents do find out they might be mad for a little and not trust you or the guy you date and then you probably could NEVER date him.
but i would date if i were you or tell your parents you really want to ( they might listen ).
so i hope i helped. andd goood luck !
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im perty sure this question is probably asked alot but im just gonna ask 1more time! im 14(and a half lol) and hes 18.he gonna be a senior and im gonna be a freshman.i like him and he likes me.i wanna go with him but if i do he told me not to tell anybody cus it might be illegal!is it illegal to be with him?!? or is it only illegl if we participate in sexual acts?i just really dont want to get him in trouble if it is illegal! (link)
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in my opinion you should date him.
who cares and its not illegal unless you have SEX!
so keep it to other stuff until you turn 18.
you wont get him in trouble, but make sure your parents approve or dont find out haa
good luck
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oka i like my friend brother and well he just found out that i like him and well usaully i go over her house to hang out and stuff and this week im going over there but her brother is goin to be there and i dont know what to do.I mean he knows i like him and stuff and i just wanna know should i play it cool or what.(and by the way he his very flirtation).Or should i wait to see what he gonna do. please help! (link)
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ok i no exactly how you feel.
and the best thing to do is not let your friend know so play it cool AROUND HER..
but somehow get his number or w/e and text him and see if he likes you or on aim or w/e.
like wat you have to do is really play it cool like play hard to get and dont flirt back because then he will really want you and your friend will never know. but try that and see how it goes.
i hope that helped
emial me if you need more advice :)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now, and things are great between us. but we tend to have awkward silences whenever we talk on the phone, and it's really annoying. it also makes me feel bad because it seems like he's bored when we're not talking. what are things i can talk to him about? we talk about basically everything, but i need specific things i can talk to him about.
thanks. (link)
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i know how you feel hahah
but ne ways just talk about..
hmm like your problems you know with your family or w/e guys like when you tell them your personal problems it makes them feel comfortable. or talk about music that you like and songs.
or talk about this sounds reallly really lame but about your future (like what you want to do for a living, and like your plans..its a good conversation starter.)
if you need anymore just email me.
hope this helpedd
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ok well i have a problem i have liked guy for almost 2 years and i cant get him out of my head...i cant to get over him i just dont know how.... all my friends have been telling me i need to but its not as easy as it looks and i feel they just dont get it. i am getting really annoyed with thm!!!!!!!pleze help me before i go crazzzzzyyyy!thanx (link)
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ok i kind of need some more information.
does he like you?
do you talk to him alot?
or whatt
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ok so i've been talking to this guy online. and he goes to a different school then me. im 15 and he is 16. im gonna be a freshmen and he is gonna be a junior. we talk all the time. we get along great. he is always saying im beautiful. and last time he said i reall do mean it. and he is always saying im here for u if u need someone to talk to. and earliar he just gave me his number. oh and he is my ex best friends ex boyfriend. they went out for like a week and a half. i was wondering if he likes me? or has feelings for me?oh and if my mom found out i was dating a junior if he asked me out she would kill me. what should i do??
sry its so long. please help.
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ok so i was wondering if you just talk online bc if so that isnt good..but if you talk on the phone and actually hangout sometimes then yes i would say that he likes you. and you will know if he likes you if he really makes time for you and stuff because sometimes guys just say cute things to get some yeahhh that sounds really lame but trust me its true. haa. but about the mom situation you can hide it from her easily just tell her your hanging out with your friends at the movies and then just go with that kid. but really its not as hard as you think to hide things from parents especially dating! so basically just start out by talking to him alot and hanging out with him. yeahh i hope i helpedd and good luck!
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Ok..soo last thanksgiving i met my best friend's older cousin who came to visit from minnesota with his family..he was really cute and we hit it off the last night he was there..we exchanged numbers and talked/texted on the phone nonstop for about a month until suddenly he stopped calling and texting...i was soo heart broken..i really liked this one for some reason. Soo a couple of weeks ago i found he got a girlfriend..i was hurt..but i didnt know why? he lived far away i knew it wasnt gonna work..i think about him nonstop..im not an obsessive kind of girl but..i cant stop thninking about him...how do i get this guy out of my mind for good!?! (link)
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wow i know kinda how you feel.
i mean you just need to realize that he lives really far away and if he does like you or w/e you would rarley ever get to see him and i mean i would just block him on aim and on any websites like myspace or facebook (it seems harsh, but it works..even though you probably want to look at his photos and talk to him). and then finally you need to tell yourself that you can do better and then well..DO BETTER! you need to find another guy even if its just a guy"friend" and trust me you are not obbsessive, your not even close!
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14/f
i dont feel liked at all. like no guys EVER look at me! ive never been kissed and ive never had a boyfriend. when my friends have and are always telling me about their stories. I'd just like to have a story to tell. any advice? (link)
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hmm well im 15
and this may sound a bit weird but just always try and look better than your friends. you know take the extra 5 minutes on your make-up and the extra 10 on your hair. Every little bit can count! Just whenever you hangout with your friends and a group of guys just be really flirtatious to all of them, and look cute. One of them is bound to be all over you, and when he is treat him greatt. I mean you never know you could end up dating. i hope that helped.
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Ok, me and this guy i was friends with started going out. At point we decided it would be better if we were friends. Now me and him are dating other people and I think I like him again. I don't know if I like him for him or for the fact that he's dating other people. I don't know what to do. Please help me out!!! (link)
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well i mean you could just be jealous or you could really like him. but i know what you are going through. Just call him alot and talk to him and if he talks to you for a long time on the phone alot then he likes you back, because any guy that is willing to talk to you for more than an hour likes you! but take it slowly but you need to eventually tell him you like him if you find out that you do! good luck and hopefully i kind of helped !
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