my cousin seems to be flirting with me. he's like 13 and i'm 16. he got my number and has texted me a lot. i can understand that he only has his sister and step brother around.. but he's been texting me a lot. he followed me around a lot too and got too close. i caught him staring at my boobs. i found out he's coming over to visit for a few hours.
what should i do? i'm not going to accuse him of anything. i can't go anywhere either. my uncle is coming over and its just one of those hang out days. it's really hot [103] and i can't lock myself in the guest room. i need advice on what to do..
i was thinking of watching tv downstairs and making necklaces.. to keep myself distracted.. so i wouldnt have to pay attention to him.
i only wanted to have fun on my vacation. since my other cousins ****my age.. feel as though i'm not old enough to be in their group [wtf, yes?] i was hanging out with him.. because he allowed it i suppose.. but if i knew he was going to be like this.. i wouldn't have.
help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? ynnej610 answered Friday July 13 2007, 12:55 pm: ok i agree with the girl down below boobs are boobs haha this sounds weird but sometimes i think my 11 yr old brother stares at mine..but idk. but if you really think your cousin likes you then i would always be with someone lik your mom or dad or if you hav littel cousins that would be good also. but they key is to never be alone (with him). another good strategy is to talk on the phone (to your friends because it keeps you distracted and occupied so he cant hangout with you). but i hope everything goes well and if he does try and make a move on you tell him to stop and then be like that is not right and if he doesnt stop well you need to tell an adult or someone. goood luck & i hope i maybe helped! [ ynnej610's advice column | Ask ynnej610 A Question ]
MAK answered Friday July 13 2007, 1:55 am: Ok, almost all guys stare at boobs. No matter if its their girlfriend's, sister's, or cousin's. Boobs are boobs, and guys have a strange fascination with them. As for getting too close, maybe he is just trying to be brotherly? You guys are a family, and I think you need to be nice and friendly to him. If he is in fact flirting, tell him to stop, that you guys are related, and that it's gross. But say it in a joking way, so as not to hurt his feelings. [ MAK's advice column | Ask MAK A Question ]
andrewislovesick answered Friday July 13 2007, 12:07 am: you need to tell him that knowmatter how long he flirts with you he will never make you like him in the way he likes you. Or he just needs a friend and doesn't know how to ask.
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