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I'm Sarah I'm 17years-old. I have been through alot of stuff with my friends, family, and guys. There is nothing really I can't answer my parents got divorced when i was young they both remarried. I have 2 sisters & 2 brothers, my dad had my sisters with my step-mom. My mom is my favorite person in the entire world, she is the only person I look up to. My step dad is a computer tech. so I can help with computer questions. I can help with basically anything because I enjoy helping people.

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i want to scrunch my hair for tomorrow. so i plan on showering tonight and adding jell and putting it in a messy bun. then tomorrow morniung taking it out...will that work , or do yoiu have any tips ?



ps..will my hair stll lget frizzy w/ the gel on it ?

Shower in the morning towel dry your hair for around five minutes. Put gel in your hands then put your head down and scrunch up your hair in your fist and do that untill your hair is scrunched all over, it should not get frizzy. I have naturally straight hair and it works for me. I hope I help.

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when someone says "how do you drive a stick?" what does that mean? i know it's related to cars lol but what kind?

When someone is talking about driving a stick they mean a standard vechile. A standard is when you have to switch gears, instead of an automatic. With an automatic you don't have to switch the gears.
hope I helped.

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alright this might be lnog but here it goes..
so ive known this guy, call him Jack since 4th grade
well we started going out voer the summer
and i honestly fell in love.
like i cannot even describe in words how it felt when i was around him.
abut anways..
we went on adn off for a few months

then along came kyle,
whom im with now
and jack is with molly


thw thing is..
i really still love jack
and he said he'd always love me
but i dont know what to do?


help plz

You guys both moved on, if you guys think that it was for the better stay apart. If you guys still have feelings for each other, do you think it is fair to be with someone if you are still in love with someone else. The people that you are with now are going to end up getting hurt.
When it comes down to it you guys have think who you want to be with more. Talk to Jack and see where he stands if he wants to get back together. Do what you guys think is best for you two.
Hope I helped

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i have really dark brown eyes, pale skin, and acne

if i use black eyeliner inside my eyelid then it all leaks off during school and makes my eyes look all dark and gross

i need an eyeshadow to really make my eyes pop.
any kind or colors i should use?

any ways to do my eyeliner?
and what color eyeliner?

If you use light pink, light blue, or white it should look really good with your eyes. Try diferent kinds of eyeliners, I ahve the same problem. I find that bonnebell eyeliner works the best. A way to get rid of the problem is don't put the eyeliner on too dark.
If I were you I would stick to black or dark brown eyeliner.
hope I help

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well i really am tired with my hair color because in some lighting it just looks green and sometimes it doesn't match my skin tone, so what color would look good?

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Brown would probley suit you really good but don't go too dark because you have a light skin tone, if you go too dark you will look really pale.
hope i helped

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Iam trying to fit into a skirt and i want to lose 5 pounds how can i do that in a healthy fast way?

When you eat have three balanced meals a day with all the food groups in coroprated. Exercise but don't overdo it, cardiovascular exercises are the best to do. Don't do crunches untill you lose the weighht because you will have nice abs under a layer of fat.
During the day if you have a craving for a snack have fruit.
Hope I helped

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ok i know some of you will say google so please dont...this is for anyone who looks up lyrics often...what is the best site that you would reccomend to go to to find accurate lyrics of songs.

lyrics.com is a really good lyric site.

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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a year now, and I wanted to spice things up. I was thinking about sex games. However, I'm kind of shy about asking him. Would a person who plays sex games tell me if theyre worth the risk of rejection?

If a girl wants to try new thigns in bed I'm sure no guy would reject. Don't be shy if you guys have been having sex for a year, then you shouldn't be shy to ask him to spice it up a bit. I'm sure that he would not reject you.
I hope I helped.

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ok, i like these 2 boys and they both like me but i don't know what 2 do? i mean i like them alot and im really confused!!!!!!!

Spen alot of time with both of them an dyou shuold eventually figure out which one you like more. Go for the one who you like the most and rember looks are not everything when choosing a guy.
hope I helped

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Well first off- I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend Logan*(both turning 14 soon). Well me & Logan will be going out for two months next friday and that weekend I'm going to the beach with him and his family. He really wants to have sex & I do too- but..I'm kind've scared because what if the condom breaks? I really don't want to be pregnant. & I'm not sure if it will hurt or not. Like will I be sore the next day? But I do want to do it & plus if I say no he'll probably get upset. Ahh. Help me please

I wouldn't have sex at such a young age if I were you. you are worried about alot of things. If you are going to do anything make sure that you use a condom. You guys ahve been going out for two months thats not a really long time.
If you guys do have sex it will most likely hurt the next day. Don't have sex just because he want you to. have sex because you want to and remeber if he really loves you then he'll wait as long as it is going to take for you to have sex with him.
hope I helped

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why do people "pack" cigarettes? like hit them against their palm or something before they open them?

Sonme people hit "pack" them down beacuse it moves the tabacco to the bottom of the cigarette. My friend does it, but people say there is no difference....

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do u know any songs with "i love you" statements on them? or the "i wanna tell you how much i love you" kind of songs? need it.thanks.

:)

I knew I loved you - Savage garden
baby you save me - kenny chesney
you and me - Life house
secert love - jojo
one love-Mary j. blidge & U2

there about love...
sorry I don't know many...

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I'm 13 & so is my boyfriend Logan*. Were both in 8th grade except we go to different schools. We hangout alot & stuff but here's the thing. He has this ex-girlfriend named Kelsey and everytime we're somewhere and she's there too he always trys to like hide from her & not be seen with me and he says it's because his brother still dates her older cousin and he doesn't want to make things weird for him. But I'm not sure. The other night we were at a basketball game together and he did EVERYTHING he could not to let her see us. I just don't understand it. And he has another ex-girlfriend named Blair that he goes to school with and he ALWAYS talks about her to me. Like "let me tell you what Blair did today at school.." or "you'll never believe what Blair said today.." or "oh my god it was so funny today cause Blair.." and just all kinds of stuff like that. I'm not sure what to do. And I want to say something to him because I DON'T like listening to stuff about them at all but I don't want it to seem like I'm mad even though I kinda am. Ughh. I'm just confused. Someone hellpppppp.

Logan* could still have feelings for kelsey and just hasn't let go yet. Tell him that it upset you. I have dated plenty of guy that have talked about their ex's constantly, most of them were just trying to make me jealous. Don't let him get to you, let him see that it doesn't bother you. After a while if he doesn;t stop tell hime that your his girlfriend now and you would appreciate it if he wouldn't talk about his ex's.

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16/f ok so there is this guy that i have dated( 18 in college) for a year and a half and we ended up breaking up over a dumb reason but the thing is i still love him
he has a new girlfriend( 16 in 10th grade) and everything
and i dont know what to do. he tells me he still loves me and crap and he cheated on his current gf with me so it gave me hope that he still loved me. i asked him he said yes but he loves her too. she she ims me and we start talking and she accidently tells me they had sex and he took her v.. and they only been going out for 2 months! they had sex the first month.. and my heart dropped to the ground. and i was like well he had sex with me 2 months ago too.. and she was like what the hell we were going out and i was like well so were we! and now he told me he hates me for telling her.. i fucked up their relationship and im a hoe. but i never had sex with anyone but him. he told me to stay out their relationship and i was his bitch for a year and a half. she told me and it just slipped out. was i wrong.. idk why i still love him.. idk why she still loves him either HE CHEATED on both of us what should i do. SORRY SO LONG

This guy is deffently a player. If I were you I wouldn't let him paly games with your head. It's completely normal to still love him, you cared for him alot. If you had sex with someone for your first time, it is usual to still have feelings for him no matter what. But don't go back to him if she still wants to date him it's up to her but he cheated on both of you and thats not the kind of guy that you want to be with. Don't let him walk all over you.
hope I helped.

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Hi, im 18yrs old/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a lil over a year. We've only just start having sex for a couple months. We always used a condom. Im not on the pill bcuz i dont have insurance any more. Well its feb. 8 and i was supposed to have my period yesterday. My period has been known to be irregular. It usually comes between the 1- 17. Im scared i might be pregnant. Ive been grumpy and certain things make me mad and ive been craving sweets. Thats how i usually act when im PMSing. I took a test and came out negative. Ive been under alot of stress from losing my friends and other situations. Ive also been really worried bout being pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have stopped having sex and hes just been fingering me now. Could that delay a period? Please help me. Im a mess. I dont want to even think about kids right now. Im not mature enough or ready to raise a child.

You are mostlikely not pregent, if you are under alot of stress your period sometimes will stop. If you have not been eating properly your period can stop as well. You took the test it came out negitive then you most likley aren't pregent. If you are freakingout and thinking you are pregent then you can think you have all the symptoms of being pregent. If you are really worried about it go to the doctors and get a pregency test thats the only way you will know for sure.
hope I helped

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Ok so they say the first time you have sex with a guy. you stay connected to him forever. Well i dnt kno if this is true. But im 18 now. and about 2 years ago I met this guy. and i fell for him big time. anyhow we were sort of dating but it was kinda behind the scenes since he was 2yrs older than me at the time. Anyhow we had sex or whatever and were 2gether off and on for abotu 2 years. i kno he loves me and i love him. but bout 6months ago he started hanging out with a different group of people. with girls who were bout 5 years older than me and 3 years older than him. He never went out with them or anything. but he never talked to me anymore. He told me he didt want anything between us . so for the last 6 months i avoided him. and than one night when i went to play poker at a friends house, he was there and started like rubbing my leg. and calling me baby and everything. i just told him to **** off. lol. But i just dont understand why he does it. Like im sick of getting played around by him. But i love him and i want to be with him soooo bad. But i cant put up with it all. but like Y does he do it?? i dont understand?.. please help. i love him soo much.

This guy seems like a player. He's not worth it...I know it sounds soo harsh but I went through the same thing. This guy is probly coming back to you because he thinks that you will go back out with him and be there only when the time dis good for him. He probly just wants a f**k buddy. Watch out for him. Treat him like he treats you and see how he likes it and hopefully things work out for the better.
Hope my advice helps

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My dad's 50th birthday is this weekend and at his birthday party, im suppose to make a birthday speech (im 17 fyi)in front of 30-some of his guests and 4 of my friends.. and i dont know what to talk about! Im suppose to be funny and entertaining and stuff but i dont know what to talk about.. any suggestions on what to talk about? i dont have many funny memories of him or anything >__< please help! the party is on saturday

You can ask some of your family or his friends about some of the funny thigns that he did when he was younger. Tell him how much he means to you and thank him for being there for you.
Hope I helped

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Hello, I'm getting a needle at school (Diphtheria, Tetanus and Pertussis [whooping cough]) and I have a horrible fear about it. Last time I had one (grade 7) I cried by eyes out and in the end I was sick in bed for 7 days after the needle so I do not have a good record of them. Please give me some hints and tips on how to control this Pobia :)

I also have a hudge fear of needles. When I had to get my needles what really worked was concentrating on something else besides the needle. If you don't look at the needle it won't be as bad as if you were sitting there waiting for it to go in our arm.
Also counting to ten works two just look the other way and count to ten and it will be over before you know it.
I hope my advice helps.

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