Question Posted Thursday February 8 2007, 12:05 pm
Ok so they say the first time you have sex with a guy. you stay connected to him forever. Well i dnt kno if this is true. But im 18 now. and about 2 years ago I met this guy. and i fell for him big time. anyhow we were sort of dating but it was kinda behind the scenes since he was 2yrs older than me at the time. Anyhow we had sex or whatever and were 2gether off and on for abotu 2 years. i kno he loves me and i love him. but bout 6months ago he started hanging out with a different group of people. with girls who were bout 5 years older than me and 3 years older than him. He never went out with them or anything. but he never talked to me anymore. He told me he didt want anything between us . so for the last 6 months i avoided him. and than one night when i went to play poker at a friends house, he was there and started like rubbing my leg. and calling me baby and everything. i just told him to **** off. lol. But i just dont understand why he does it. Like im sick of getting played around by him. But i love him and i want to be with him soooo bad. But i cant put up with it all. but like Y does he do it?? i dont understand?.. please help. i love him soo much.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iloveaar answered Thursday February 8 2007, 4:36 pm: he's probably doing it again because he's hoping your have sex again...guys are weir so please be careful =) don't believe everything he says! and if you decide to date him again or anythin ...don't have sex! so if he starts behaving so desperate about you both having sex , then it is what he was looking for ...if he doesn't mind ,,maybe he has changed ..though i don't think so
twistedlover69 answered Thursday February 8 2007, 2:32 pm: what an asshole he just wants to know that you still care for him and you do and like u said he plays mind games with you and you did good by telling him to fuck off i would lay down the rules tell him how you feel tell him first he says he only wants to be just friends but than he wants to rub you and shit hell know tell him to make up his mind he eigther wants you or he doesnt know its and or buts about it and your better than just his rebound bitch and about the whole thing about somebody who takes your virginty you dont get over them thats not neceassy true you probly wont ever forget them but you wont necassary be stuck on them either you know you would of moved on but there always be apart of your life i hoped i helped goodluck [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
xxSAANxx answered Thursday February 8 2007, 12:38 pm: This guy seems like a player. He's not worth it...I know it sounds soo harsh but I went through the same thing. This guy is probly coming back to you because he thinks that you will go back out with him and be there only when the time dis good for him. He probly just wants a f**k buddy. Watch out for him. Treat him like he treats you and see how he likes it and hopefully things work out for the better.
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