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Member Since: July 15, 2004
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Last Update: September 23, 2004
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ive liked this guy for a while now but im not sure if he likes me . weve talked a few times but he never realy expressed or showed any emotions. i dont want to just qive up on him and move on . . please help (link)
maybe you should spend more time with him - whenever you find an opputunity to be with him talk to him and just hanq out maybe he`ll soon fall head over heelsz for you - / > rate me please


I met this guy on a cruiz..hes so amazing..im in love with him. Should i tell him that i like him or keep it to myself?? thankz.. (link)
you really should tell him dont let the oppurtunity pasz you by let him noe how you feel and who noesz maybe the two of you will end up with a stronq realationship - rate me please


if u like ur friend but dont want to and everyone thinks u do but u keep denying it what should u do? (link)
if you like your friend first you should tell a few of your closet friendsz that you know arent qoinq to spread it around and see if they can find out if he likesz you if he doesz like you then spend some more time with him and see if you two can further your realationship don`t woriie bout what other people think .. rate me please =))


me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE* (link)
just qo ahead and kisz him on the lipsz make it unexcpected and maybe he`ll chanqe hisz mind about all of thisz . . . but he doesz seem like an asz for not lovinq you just because you havent kiszed him on the lipsz . . rate me please


i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
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well if the number isz botherinq you then i would definitly call it up presz *67 if it isz hisz number just hanq up - / > star 67 blocksz all callsz so he`ll have no idea it wasz rele you that way if your to shy to talk it`ll have no affect and if it isnt hisz number id find out hisz number and yell at him =)) hope i helped rate me please .::*


me and my BEST FRIEND EVER went to pre-school together and thats how we met. we go to different schools, different dance places, and just about everything else diff except for our moms work together. we were born 2 days apart (mine december 18th and hers december 20th) and if we were standing next to each other u would think shes my little sister. im a head taller than she is. in the summer we do a lot of stuff together bc we used to belong to the same swimming club... but she moved so now she goes somewhere closer to her house. when we get together we have a such good times. i just feel that were growing apart though in some ways. shes inviting me over less and stuff idk what to do should i just hang out with her more or just dont worry about it? (link)
you definitly need to talk to her call her up or im her if she hasz a screen name dont let your friendship qo without tryinq to make it work. try and find a time where you two will both be able to hanq out but maybe she thinksz your qrowinq apart from her have u invited her anywheresz at all? please reply and rate me


what do i do here...

i wish that my parents would get a devorce at
points. there a very unlikely couple i guess u could say and i really dont like my dad that much...he walks around with no shirt on, beer belly, and the house that we moved into i have to walk through there room to get to my room and its really annoying when i have friends over. my parents get into fights a lot and i go into my room and cry and my mom thinks im stupid for doing that, like she thinks i exagerate. in the summer my mom just works on the weekends and leaves me home with my brother and dad which i hate. my dad will buy me practically anything i want-cellphone, trampoline but i think he just gets me all this stuff bc he thinks i love him more or something. and i feel worse for my brother bc he has to put up with even mor eof his crap. i so scared im going to grow up like my dad or something. please help...tell me, am i being a brat? (link)
your not beinq a brat at all . . nd dont listen to your mom ur not exaqeratinq when you cry everyone hasz those momentsz. remember your not qoinq to qrow up and be like your father unlesz you want to and by you beinq annoyed by most of the thinqsz he doesz i hiqhly doubt youll be anythinq like him . you suld talk to ur dad and explain to him that theresz maniie thinqsz he doesz the embaressez you and that you hate your parentsz alwaysz fitinq like thisz.tell him that by just buyinq you stuff osnt makinq your relationship any stronqer. hope everythinq qoesz well rate me please =)) and if you need anymore help just ask me hun xo


hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ? (link)
well you two definitly need to talk call her up or write her a note if your two shy to talk to her in person and just tell her that your not sure the friendship isz qunna work out beacause the two of you have tottally seperate personalitiesz . . . but everyone hasz their share of annoyinq quirksz i`m shuree she findsz thinqsz annoyinq about you and if she seemsz to be there for you and isz a qood friend then theresz no need to break off a two year friendship because of the music and clothinq that you wear isnt they same style as hersz.if her personality sucksz then you two souldnt be friendsz but pleease losinq a friendship over seperate stylesz is rele dumb . . . and if her annoyinq thinqsz rele do bother you talk to her about them and if she would be willinq to chanqe a bit but you have to be rede for some chanqesz to . . . rate me please



am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't. (link)
at 5 feet the averaq weiqht isz 1OO poundsz and for every inch after that isz another 5 poundsz so u suld be around 11O . . to answer your question you arent nessicarly extremly overwight just try eatinq some healthier foodsz and youll be just fine =)) RATE MEE!! .::*


do you think its wrong if a girl eats another girl out? because it makes me really happy. nothing has ever made me as happy as i am when i do it. i rate!!
signed
confused eater.. (link)
well itsz obviousz that your a lesbian . . i quesz itsz ok if you enjoiie doinq thisz i mean itsz somethinq i would never do but if u feel so joyful when you eat qirlsz out then qo ahead and continue doinq so . . what ever makesz you happy


Ok well ive already asked this but everyone is telling me the same thing.

well i went away for the summer. when i got back my mom hade this really bad attitude to me. in the beginning the attitude was comeing from my dad. i really didnt care because i dont live with my dad n e ways my mom was being all harsh on me for all the little things. i told my friend all the things i was thinking and my mom found out. she will not talk to me.ive already told her i was sorry.and did a lot to make her forgive me, but nothing worked. Should i keep doing what im doing or what. dont tell me to talk to her cause everytime i try she walks away and i dont want to play games. (link)
you should just ignore her eventually shell talk to you .. try doing something you wouldnt usually do thatll make her talk to you


HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!

SIGNED,
**NEEDS HELP** (link)
you need to talk to her - tell her that u don`t feel as thouqh you two are havinq any quality time latley and she if she would like to she a therapist or find a support qroup on people who are qoinq throuqh losinq loved onesz try to help her throuqh all of thisz and find a time to talk to her


What does idk stand for? (link)
it standsz for '` i dont noe `'


i have had a few periods and they have been exactly 28 days and my next one is coming and it will be while i'm camping... with my dad! i havn't told my mom cuz she makes a big deal over nothing! is there anyway i can make it come later or if i get luck it might be off! plz help i'll rate you! (link)
i understand how you feel i didn`t want to tell my mom either but trust me your mom is qoinq to find out sooner or later. If your mom has her own pads sneak a few out and then maybe when you are comfortable and out of the wild talk to your mom about it. while your campinq make shure to brinq extra underwear, your own toilet paper, and paper towelsz so that you can make your own padsz if your mom doesnt have any of her own. p.s. if u qet blood on your pantiiesz throw them out in the woodsz and burrie them lol




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