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Shortie8959
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I KNOW IT IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ AND HELP
ok here is the thing my parents have been divorced for 8 years now and my dad got remarried like 2 years ago and i am fine wit that bcuz i like his wife. But now my mom has started datin this guy that is 18 years younger then her and i don't like him like at all and what makes me really mad is that my family is straped for money and there r some things i NEED and my mom goes and buys the guy random expensive gift just bcuz he likes it. And she drives 2 hours back and forth 2 pick him up just 2 spend the night wit him and "talk" (he doesn't have a car right now) and that is wastin alot of our money in gas. just how can i tell my mom how i feel and isn't that ur parents should have u kids approve of the person 2 cuz if ur kids don't like them then how will that work. someone help what can i do, say or nething? sometime i just wanna runaway cuz she pisses me off sooo much HELP!!!! (link)
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wow sorryz 2 sayz but just wrong that ur mom iz with a 18 year old man!! um sit down with with her and tell her how u feel but sayz it as a nice way so she wont take it da wrong way and dont runaway just do what u have to do right now when ur older yeah you can go and have ur own place aight i hope i helped aight love shorty
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Well, I'm 14 and I'm in 9th grade. I think I'm failing 2 of my classes this year. My sister understood kinda she's 21. But, she told my mom 9th grade is the hardest grade. But My mom said shes going to take away my internet if I fail something this year, and then I'll be screwed. I'm in Algebra 1. And it's SO difficult, I have gotten an F on every test possible in that class, I just don't understand how to do anything, I've asked the teacher for help n stuff. But, he just always says. "maybe you should pay attention in class" but I do. I've told my mom a numerous amount of times. And she keeps telling me to bring my book home so she can teach me, but I know she won't know anything. And when I told her last night that I might be failing 2 things on my report card, she compared me to my 3 older brothers and sisters, and how they've never failed something, and she would be disapointed. And I just don't know what to say to her, it really hurts that she can't understand where I'm coming from. And I'm trying harder. How can I get her to understand where I'm coming from? Please help. (link)
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wow thanks i know how da feels..w ell tell her its hard for you and try to get in a class that is like not da hard and pretty easier so then u could understand and if not stay after school or something for somebdoy to help or ur teacher or ur friends if u dont get it ok i hope i helped aight love shorty!!
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there is this boy that goes to my skool and i used to have a crush on him until my friend called him on 3 way and she told him that i liked him and he was like HELL NO SHES UGLY AND FAT AND JUST HELL NO!!!! as you can tell 1 i was upset and 2 i was just str8 up MAD!!!so the next day at skool i told him my cousin Nikki(not a real person)had a crush on him well i pretended to be her on the foneand stuff and when we went to the movies my cousin pretended to be Nikki and he fell for it and he really liked her but some gurl thought that me and my friends were being mean and she told him what we were doing and hes mad...do you think he'll forgive me???Should i forgive him 4 what he said abuot me????PLEASE help me (link)
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no dont forgive him!! first he said all that about u t h ats just messed up get over him but still confusing sorry!!
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how do i loose about 15 pounds? (link)
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umm work ouT!! dont eat dat much!!
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HI IM 12 AND IM GOIN OUT WITH A 15 YR OLD AND HE GOT ME PREGNANT AND IDK WHAT TO DO. PLZ HELP. MY MM OR DAD WOULD PROBULLY DISOWN ME IF I TOLD THEM AND I NEED HELP SHOULD I HAVE AN ABORTION OR NOT SO JUST PLZZ HELP ME . MY BF HAS LEFT ME AND I NEED HELP ANYTHING!!! (link)
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wow.. thats crazii!! and ur 12!! wow does he know that you are pregnant? and why did he leave u 4? well i just think u need a abortion bc thats just sad u having a baby @ 12 sorry 2 sayz aight i hope i help anyways how did u get my name? ok love nicole i hope i help!! if u wanna talk or w/e just imed me on AIM ok my sn iz XUrMySuNsHiNex1
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Situation: Ex boyfriend moved to another state.. i mean.. i love him soo much! i havent see him since he left... 2 months ago.. And I talked to him recently.. he says hes moving back here.. Hes the guy I lost my virginity to...
Situation: I'm engaged right now.. but I think if my Ex came back... i would do something I will regret..
I know I love both guys..and both guys love me.. so how do I choose? (link)
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well just follow ur heart.. and write a paper like about ev erything u like about them and write about what u dont like about them. and u should pick from there or u can tell ur bf that u aint really ready for getting marry so just take things slow with him!! i hope i help k love nicole!
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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~ (link)
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wow they isnt really any signs to there.. but if you r throwing ^ that kinda means yeah ur pregnacny well just take da test like end of da month if you are.. and how long u been with ur boy? ok good luck love, ShOrTy.
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ok so i think i have problems... i mean i like going out with people but the relationship i am in now is freaking me out kinda... i think i love my bf of a month and a half... i kno it doesnt sound very long but we've gone out before... but anyways... i really think i love him... but i have this problem where i go out with a guy umtil i think that he really likes me and then i just kinda loose interest... thats kinda what is happening in this relationship... but i still kno i have feelings about him... like i feel like i love him... but im starting to lose interest... waht can i do to fix this... i dont want to stop loving him... especially since it would break his heart... HELP ME... im 14 and female!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well u cant do anything about it.. well stop ur self not to do that..
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Hey, i dont know wat to do my ex-bf broke upwith me and this kid i know that likes me and i like him just got outta jail my ex already got a new girl should i wait 4 them to break up or go 4 the one dat just got outta jail.
Jason-17 just got outta jail
Justin- 15 new girl
HELP ME NOW PLEASE WAT SHALL I DO!!!!!! (link)
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aight i think u should just.. go for da kid.. i hope everything works now bye love nicole
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okay well i really need a guy in my life... someone who is there for me and can help me with my problems... because it seems like all my friends are like blocking me or something it just isn't fair.. :-/ i want a sweet guy who knows how to confert a girl... does anyone know that feeling?? (link)
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aight u need somebody to be there for ya.. and talk about ur problems aight girl if u wanna talk feel free 2 talk to on my aim ok my sn iz latina chica 650 k?
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me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do? (link)
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ok if u love him a lot and u dont wanna lose u.. and if a guy trys to kiss you.. and u do it back.. and then it means u dont really have true feelings for ur man sorry.. 2 sayz.. but if a guy does a move to ya.. and u do nothing.. so yeah that means.. u truely love ur bf.. i hope dat i helped aight! LoVe NiCoLe!!!
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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..
see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.
thanks a bunch
Manda (link)
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well u shouldnt.. listen 2 what pplz have 2 sayz about you and ur man girl.. bc all they r doing iz like being jealous and hating.. but if u love him shit!! go with him.. and if u both love each others u wont let anybody get between u 2 !! well good luck!! i hope i help!! if u need anybody imed me @ aim itz latina chica 650 or whenever u need help or something just hit me up aight!? xoxo nicole!!
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I went to the website for Planned Parenthood (Thanks to Druidx) and found one very close by. The only reason I wanted to go was to get birth control and tested for STD's without my parents knowing, but you still have to get a parent consent form filled out unless you live by yourself or dont have parents. Is there anyway to swindle out of it? I cant tell my parents, the whole idea of me going was to not let them know.. (link)
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well.. if u dont want ur parents 2 know..??
well u should go to parent hood.. and they give u a number or w/e u should go and ur parents dont need to go with anyways but where do u live? bc i think it depends where u live but im not sure though
well i hope i helped!! i hope it worked out
tell me how it went k?
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how can u tell someone u love then and atleast try to have them understand how much u feel and u need to be with them...i mean i kno u cant make someone fall inlove with you..but i really love him and i want to be with him... (link)
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well try to tell da person and like sayz what would u do if i told u i love u and i wanna be with u try dat
tell me if its work k?
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ok well my boyfriend and best friend have been fightin alot latly and now they r sayin they wont be friends again and ive asked them to try to 4give each other they wuldnt and then i sed ok if u cant do that just try to be nice and not fight wen we all 3 r 2gether and they wotn so im so lost kuz i dont wanna pick bekuz i dont wanna loose 1 or both of them so HELP!!
-Lost & Confused- (link)
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well i was like in da problem with one of my x's well dont hang out with hima nd ur friend just hang out with ur boy one day and then ur friend so then u will be ok i guess.. tell me how it worked k?
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i have a boyfriend whom i really love we been goin out for 2 years .. my friend who likes me says my boyfriend is thinking about breakin up with me.. im not sure if he is just saying that so maybe i would break up with him first and he could ask me out or if it is really true.. my b/f has been acting really weird and said he "dno" if he likes me as much as he used to! i have no idea what to do!! help =( i love him (link)
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i had a problem kinda like dat like my best told me dat he had a feeling dat my man would broke ^ with me and asked ur bf how he feels and stuff? but ur friend just saying dat to get with you
aight i hope i help ya tell me how it went!!
if u need more help or whenever just imed me on AIM k? my sn iz latina chica 650
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Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help! (link)
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hey, girl naw i dont think u should have a bortion u should tell ur friend about it.. and anyways how old are you?
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