hey. i like two girls right now. and im so confused. one i hangout with a lot more, and im too good of friends with her too goo out but then i like her. she told me she likes me. and then the other grl i see very rarely, but when i hangout w/ her, i like love her haha. HELP ME HANNAH!
Haha. Okay well my advice to you would be to try it out with the first girl. I mean, you get to see her more often, you're really good friends, and she likes you... why not go out with her? And yeah everybody says, "Oh my god, going out with one of your best friends is going to put you through hell once you break up!" But honestly, from my experience, i doubt it will. So, why spend your time waiting for somebody who youre never going to see? Sure, she makes you happy but it seems like the other girl does too. Take a look at who you can see yourself better with and look at whats positive and negative about each girl. THEN make a decision. Hope I helped! :] xxo Hannah
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I have come to the conclusion that I am afraid of commitment, I think. I really like this guy right now, like a whole lot. I can only think about him like all the time. I like love school just so I can see him. It's crazy. I am scared though about when he asks me out. I like to usually just flirt and hang but maybe going out won't be so bad. Any advice on how to get over this fear?
Well, I used to be scared of commitment too and my advice to you would be to think about all the possible reasons why being committed to a relationship scares you. Question yourself as to what it is exactly that you fear and find out why. There's ALWAYS a reason for things like this. What's soo horrible about being committed to a relationship? In my opinion, go for the guy! Don't worry about what could happen or be afraid. Just have fun and live your life. If you find yourself questioning if you want to still be in a relationship because you are scared of commitment, talk to the guy or to a friend and always stay positive. Chances are this guy isn't the guy you'll wind up marrying so you don't have to feel tied down or in a position that you can't get yourself out of. Relationships are supposed to be fun! Don't stress :] Hope I helped! xxo Hannah
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So i met this girl in 1st grade. weve been best friends on and off since and now were going through a rough patch.. we get along great, we have 15678756 insiders and idk what to do cuz i think about her alot like i dont wanna lose my best friend ya know?? so get back to me =) thnks,
Ilana..
Well, my advice to you would be to figure out exactly what it is that you think you can do to improve your relationship with this friend of yours. I mean you seem like you've been friends for such a long time now so why call it quits? Every pair of best friends goes through "rough patches" no matter how well they get along. I don't think you're going to lose her :] Just talk to her and come to an agreement on what you both can do to help your friendship be more stable and less rocky. Best friends get in arguments. It's normal. Don't worry. Everything is going to be fine :] Hope I was able to help :] xxo Hannah
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i was in a relationship with this guy before he lives in a different state and we dated on and off for almost 2 years and over the summers and breaks my family and i used to go where he lives and visit him and his family cuz we were close and then my parents got divorced so we stopped going and now 4 years later here i am and i still have feelings for him and him the same for me but im not sure if im ready to be with him again. i mean i really want to but its just awkward because it was 4 years of not seeing eachother because now we are seeing eachother again. so im not sure if a long distance thing would work? i need some advice.
Well,the chances of you being able to see him and spend time with him are slim to none. I personally don't suggest long distance relationships because you never really get to see or talk to the person and you begin to feel tied down, like you have an obligation of some sort. And, yes there's a chance that calling him or talking to him after four years out of nowhere would be a little awkward. I wouldn't doubt it. My advice to you is not to get involved with a long distance relationship but to keep in touch with him. Who knows what could happen in the future? Maybe you guys will be reuinted again but who knows? For now just do your best to not entertain the thought of a relationship and think about moving on. I'm sure there are plenty of guys in your area worth dating :] Hope I helped! xxo Hannah
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alright so there is this boy in my life who i am maddly in love with and ive been dating him for a month on todays date. Well the other day i met this other guy who kept layin on the pick up lines realy strong corney i know. But he told me i had real pretty eyes which i guess flattered me because i started getting all excited when i found out he was talkin to all his friends about how hot i am. Well me and my friend are going to hang out with this guy i met at the mall this weekend. Do you think this is the best idea?
Well, in my opinion, it's not the smartest idea to go. I agree with the person under me. If you are "madly in love" with your current boyfriend why not bring him along? My advice to you is don't ruin what you already have for something that you don't know will last. Yeah, the other guy seems like a nice guy and all but you seem to be in a pretty stable relationship and you seem happy already :] if things wind up not working out with your current boyfriend though in the future, maybe think about getting with the other guy if he still shows interest in you :] Hope I helped :] xxo Hannah
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O.K. theres this guy. I really like him! we don't really talk much, but when we do, we flirt. i can't tell if he's into me or not. im kinda scared to just approach him and ask him. what should i do?
xoxo
~scared and confused!~
Well, it's normal to feel scared and kind of awkward around a guy who you have feelings for. Trust me, I know first hand. :] But if you don't ask questions and put yourself out there, you'll never know what his true feelings for you are. Everybody says, "Be yourself and have confidence," but like I tell a lot of people, there is so much more to it then that. My advice to you would be to hint to him in many ways that you want to know exactly how he feels about you without actually just coming out and saying it. Ask him questions like, "So what's your status, girl friend wise?" "Is there anybody that you would particularly be interested in dating?" "What is it that you look for in a girl and what qualities do you like?" Without putting yourself out there and letting it be known, you are only holding back and hurting yourself. Don't be scared to ask questions and let him know you like him...A LOT. If he flirts with you there's most likely some kind of conenction. Well, hope I was able to help! :] xxo Hannah
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okay so heres the deal. i havea goldfish addiction. im addicted to pizza goldfish and i dont know how to stop eating them! im eating them right now. i just started this bag like 30 mins ago and its already half gone. waht should i do?!
Well, if you want to stay fit for the ladies ;] I'd suggest you STEP AWAY FROM THE GOLDFISH! easier said than done, I know. It's hard to break addictions but try thinking of other things you can eat or better yet, things you can do to keep your mind off the goldfish. :] Hope I helped :] xxo Hannah
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okay im not sure if this is in the right category! but heyy.. i figured id give it a try. MY BEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD JUST CALLED ME FAT AND A PIG AND UGLY AND STUPID AND SHE SAID SHE DIDNT LOVE ME ANYMORE!!! DID SHE MEAN IT? IS IT OKAY THAT SHE SAID THAT? CUZ SEE FIRST I TOLD HER TO PUT HER CAT AWAY. SHOULD I HAVE NOT SAID THAT? I DNT KNO WAT TO DO.
- BY THE WAY IM A 7/F SHES 51/F PLEASE HELP!
Well, first of all, I would hope this woman is your grandmother or something because if you are a seven year old hanging out with a 51 year only woman, something isn't right. But, besides that, I'm sure it was just a big misunderstanding. :] Women who are going through menopause often have major mood swings that cause them to say things they don't exactly mean. I don't think she meant it but in all honesty, I'm not her so I don't know for sure. :] And if you had a good reason to tell her to put her cat away then i guess it's okay. Just give her some time to calm down and talk about it with her later. Hope I was able to help! :] xxo Hannah
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13 going on 14 =D female !
so then, theres this guy.. hes my bestfriend, and hes the only guy i can trust.. i talk to him everynight on the phone.. && guess what ? i fell for him.. i liked him for a long time.. and the thing is that he likes my bestfriend.. me & her are also close.. we call ourselves "twinnies" because we have so much in common.. and that really hurts because i waited for so long for him .. hoping that i'll get a chance & i like prayed everynight hoping that too.. and im still hoping.. the thing is that my bestfriend my "twinnie" likes him too.. and she thought it was wrong because she js started liking him because i started liking him in the first place, and she knew that too.. but then i put her happiness before mine, so then i let her have him.. and she thinks that i've been happy for a long time and thats a good thing, but i HID my sadness because i knew it would make her feel bad.. and then it hurts even more cause when i talk to him on the phone hes talking about her. im js really upset about the whole entire thing.. help me out please.. please give me some advice and help me get over him.. because this hurts too much for too long.
Well Mary, join the club. I've had the EXACT same problem. First of all, yes, it was very nice of you to let her have him, but at the same time, you are only hurting yourself. My advice to you would be to let your friend know what it is you have been feeling. If you're as close to her as you say, then she will understand and hopefully do something about it to make sure you are both happy. You shouldn't have to put yourself through all of this pain. You need to remember, you need to work on pleasing yourself and not trying to satisfy everybody around you, whether they are your best friend or your worst enemy. So just talk to your friend about how your feeling and hopefully things will change for the better. Hope I was able to help :] xxo Hannah
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Ok, so a while back,i asked if my bf was cheating. I found out he isn't, but my friend really likes him. She is my friend, and she knows i LOVE him to DEATH, but she dosen't get it. She wants him, but he can't stand her because she is always flirting! He dosen't know how to get her to leave him alone, and neither do i. How do i get her to understand he is MINE and not hers? ♥Please Get Her Away From Him♥
Well, of course (as I'm sure you already know) people can't control the feelings they develop for somebody. But, they can control what they do and say and how they act. You need to sit your friend down alone and tell her how you feel. Easier said than done... i know. But, letting her know that it bothers you so much and that it bothers him (your boyfriend) as well will possibly make her open her eyes and realize that whatever it is she's trying to accomplish, it's not exactly going to work. He's YOUR boyfriend and as your friend, she needs to respect that. You shouldn't have to fight to keep something that's already yours. Don't get so worked up over it though. He's with YOU for a reason, not her. :] Hope I was able to help you out :] xxo Hannah
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I need advice on getting a guy.Well, i know things take time and that i need to wait for the "One" and all, but i need an escort to a friends ball. and a date is requed. Is there anything i can do to make a guy a i like like me? i need to know wht kinda stuff guys like.
Oh and i am 14 and a female.
Well, guys tend to like when girls smile a lot and show interest in them. You need to put yourself out there and let it be known that you are a likeable person. I know everybody says, "Oh, just have confidence," and "Oh, just be yourself," and yes you do need to do those things but there is always going to be more to it than that. Make sure you let your good qualities be known and really put yourself out there if you want to be noticed. And worst comes to worst, you make a new guy friend and ask him :] just be casual about it... don't make it a huge deal or anything. Well, hope I was able to help :] xxo Hannah
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dear reader,
i am 14 old boy. there is this girl that i asked to be my gf and its already been about 2 weeks and i still didnt get my answer. every time i call her up she says shes busy and cant talk. i think shes trying to avoid me also. what should i do?
rafol boy
Well "rafol boy", I'm a 14 year old girl and speaking from experience, I'd say don't give up. Maybe she doesn't exactly know what she wants and that's why she's questioning which answer to give you. Girls tend to think every little detail and possible consequence through to make sure that the decisions they make are the right ones and sometimes it takes a while. Maybe she is doing the same. (of course I dont know for sure because I'm not her.) Just give her space and time to think about what she wants and maybe wait another two weeks and if she's not giving you straight answers or doesn't even want to talk about it then maybe it's time you move on or at least confront her about it if you're comfortable. Girls can be cruel... trust me :] Love isn't an easy thing to deal with. Well, hope I was able to help :] xxo Hannah
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