hey my name is melanie :]
so my life has it's problems, and i rarely know how to fix them. but when it comes to other people's problems, i have great advice. idk what's up with that, but take advantage of it!
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a boy at my school likes me and i dont like him and hes like stooking me hes at my looker and in my class i keep telling him to leave me alone and he still calls and i dont even now where he got my number and my boyfriend thinks im cheeting on him with him i keep telling him im not but he doesnt belive me by a boy stocking me its ruining my reltionship and i love him what should i do (link)
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just t3ll this b0y t0 stay away fr0m y0u. t3ll him that h3's ruining y0ur relati0nship. H0p3fully this kid will und3rstand. just l3t him d0wn 3asily.
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I really like this guy and we met at work. We became close and we flirted a lot and emailed each other. I told him that I liked him and he was cool with it and said he just wanted to be friends. He has always kept his word. He started to act funny though and I don't know how to percieve it. He called me babe and turned around to see the expression I had on my face and had a great big grin on his face. When he told me he was getting another job I was happy for him as I think he deserves the best. Gave me a pix of himself that he took at 1am, and emailed me. Since then I haven't heard from him.Should I give up or give more time? F-40's (link)
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giv3 him m0r3 tim3. 3mail him and ask him if th3r3 is still n0thing b3tw33n y0u tw0. and if h3 says "n0" th3n ask him why h3 was always l3ading y0u 0n t0 think that th3r3 was m0re. but if h3 still says that he 0nly has "Fri3nd f33lings" f0r y0u, then f0ll0w y0ur h3art and d0 what y0u want t0. if y0u want t0 g0 0ut and find s0m3b0dy 3ls3, than d0 that.
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im going to a birthday sleepover party tonight for my friends (they are twins: one boy on girl) and after their parents go to bed the guys are going to hang with the girls and play a game called seven minutes in heaven.
my questions:
what the heck is that?
how do i play it?
and what do i do in the seven minutes?
WILL RATE
BTW: im 13/F (link)
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0kay 7 minut3s in H3av3n is this gam3 that b0ys and girls play t0g3ther. 0n3 b0y and 0n3 girl g0 int0 a cl0s3t t0g3ther f0r 7 minut3s and th3y g3t t0 d0 what3ver th3y want t0g3ther. g00d luck!!
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School starts soon, and I want a new hairstyle, but I don't know what to do. I always left it down last year. This year I want to try something new. I have thick,straight,blonde hair. Like if I should cut or highlight etc. Any ideas would help, plz! (link)
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Y0u sh0uld g3t layers!! layers ar3 s0 pr3tty and th3y always mak3 y0ur hair l00k b3tter and differ3nt!! g00d luck!!
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my bf && i have pretty much made if a habit to talk everynight past midnight. i have my cell on vibrate (i have free min) & he calls from his house. we hadnt gotten caught after 3 nights of that but today when my dad woke me up, he saw the phone on my bed & asked why so i said it vibrates at night b/c i was still half asleep. i dont know what else to tell him if he asks! ok so we are on a plan that we share and he pays...will the time & number of the call show up on the bill? please help! any info is important!! (link)
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y3ah i'm pr3tty sur3 that th3 numb3r sh0ws up 0n th3 bill, but i'm n0t sur3 ab0ut th3 tim3.
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My boyfriends aunt like hates me. Now we can't hang out because of her and i really love him and he really loves me ut it's so hard because we'll neever see each other. I never even did anything bad or wrong she just hates me for some reason.well maybe because i broke up with him 2 times for VERY good reasons. What could I do to let her let us hang out? Or at least see each and hang out somewhere! thank you! (link)
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if i were y0u, i w0uld talk t0 her. it may s33m weird, but if y0u want this wh0l3 thing t0 b3 0ver with s0 that y0u can just hang 0ut with y0ur b0yfri3nd, th3n just talk t0 her. Ask her why sh3 hat3s y0u s0 much. Mayb3 sh3 just misjudg3d y0u at first, but 0nc3 sh3 s33s that y0u ar3 a r3sp0nsibl3 girl, and had th3 n3rv3 t0 talk t0 h3r, than mayb3 sh3 will chang3 her mind ab0ut y0u! h0p3 i h3lp3d!!
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is it wrong if you are 15 yrs old and have a 25 year old boyfriend??everyone tells me that its wrong.. (link)
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it's n0t wr0ng, i gu3ss, if y0u guys ar3 in l0ve. it's just that m0st p30pl3 ar3n't us3d to s33ing c0upl3s with that much ag3 differ3nc3. But if y0u truly l0v3 him, than it sh0uldn't matter what 0ther p30pl3 say.
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i have a boyfriend that ive been on and off again all summer long and i think that i finally realize that he is using me and he doesnt really care about me, and yesterday he kept getting in my pants and i kept telling him not to and he seemed mad at me and kept doing it,i think its time for us break up,wat do u think?? (link)
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y3ah, d3fin3ntly! if y0u d0n't want him ar0und anym0r3 and if y0u d0n't want him d0ing that, th3n y0u sh0uld D3FiN3NtLY br3ak up with him. H3 0bvi0usly d03sn't hav3 any r3sp3ct at all f0r y0u if h3 k33ps trying t0 g3t in y0ur pants, 3v3n aft3r y0u t0ld him n0t t0.
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Well out of nowhere me and my ex bf got into a conversation..and he told me he missed me and he wanted to hang out..but i saw in his profile tht he loved some girl. So then i showed that to him and hes like "oh thats been there forever you know that" and he took it out. When i went on away message he put it back into his profile. Today he hasn't even talked to me once. It was so weird. What is going on?? (link)
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if my ex started hitting on me again and then did that. i'd be mad. you shouldn't give him another chance if that's what you're thinking. Just act like that never happened or something. and next time he tries to lead you on again, avoid him. Or if you are actually willing to give him another chance then talk to him about it. maybe he'll stop being a jerk.
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ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high (link)
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i don't think you should dump him. If you love him and he loves you then you definently shouldn't just break up because you guys don't see eachother that often. What you should do is just find ways that you guys could be together more often. Talk on the phone and internet more. And once school starts, chances are you guys will get even closer. Good Luck
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I just started a xanga, and I am really confused about how to put music in there and icons and all the different layouts... if u can help me at all, please do. (link)
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Layouts:
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=verycute_layouts_4you
Music:
http://www.xanga.com/music_galore
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well I've got msn and I'm always on the internet but my contacs are never on and I'm always looking for someone to chat to how can I make more friends on the internet (link)
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Try going into chat rooms and meeting new people. Or find some new friends on myspace if you have one. If you don't, then you should get one. it's a really great place to meet new people.
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can someone please tell me some cheap stores that i can get really cute clothes from?!? especially jeans! and what kind of make-up should i wear i have lite brown/dark blonde hair and blue eyes thanks (link)
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You can get some really cute inexpensive jeans at Plato's Closet.
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i wanna know what are some good presants to get my mom she is turning 50 and i love her so much she is my best frined and i am 15 and i have about $150 to spend i already have her a card and some victoria secrets spays lotions and soaps and looking for toe rings online and were going to concert but is there anything else that would make it a birthday she wouldnt forget?please help thanks (link)
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i kinda think that the whole concert thing would already make it an unforgettable birthday. but if you wanna make it even more special than maybe you could rent a limo for the night and drive to the concert in it??
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ok so i got my period yesterday and it is already like done and usally it lasts for 3 or 4 days is this normal or ok?? (link)
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it's probably not done yet. it just stops for some reason and then it starts again. mine does that all the time. maybe that's what yours is doing??
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I want to add music to my xanga but i don't know what to type when it says "music" then u type a URL. I don't really care what song it is, I just want to see if it will work, so could someone give me an example of what to type because i just don't get it. (link)
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Yeah, you have to go to
Http://www.xanga.com/music_galore
and then you find the group that you want,
and then click on them. you right click on the song that you want where it says "PLAY" and then when that list comes up after you right click, find where it sasy "Copy shortcut" and then click on it. go back to your xanga and find the place where you need to put the music URL and just paste that shortcut in there. it shoud work.
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ok i turning 13 this year and i am really tall(5'5) I weigh about 20lbs over what i am so puppose to weigh...i have tried almost every diet (weight watchers jenny craig south beach ect.) and this year i want to look good. So what are some eating habbits or deits can i use to lose weight???
thanx (link)
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Yeah, just like watch what you eat, and try to not eat any things with lots of sugar. And you could also try a little bit of excercise. Good Luck!
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is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew! (link)
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yeah, 13 is DeFfInEnTlY a good age!
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does anyone know where i can go to get surveys/quizes for my xanga for free??? (link)
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www.quizfarm.com?
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My boyfriend & I haven't really talked about the subject of "love". We've known eachother a while & we were friends prior to dating & I think I love him. I know 13 is young so I'm not sure. Is there anyway to bring it up to him? Will it just come up in a conversation one day? There have been certain things he's said that leads to me thinking that. For example, we got into this big fight (just a few weeks ago ... yes, we were dating) & I said "Do you hate me?" and he said "no, the exact opposite... do you feel the same way?" and I said "ya." Does that sound like he was talking about love or just the common liking we have for eachother? (link)
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yeah, it sounds to me like he meant "love". The first time i ever told my boyfriend that i loved him was right after we had a fight lol. He was bitching off to me about something that i did a LoNg time ago, before we were even together and yeah...lol. So i bet that your boyfriend feels the same way that you do. So tell him, he may be really relieved.
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