The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Last Update: May 23, 2006
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is it ok to wear abecrombie aeropostale'and old navy together if it matches my friends say no but i was wonderin
HELP,
~FaShIoN CrIsIs~:> (link)
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Of course! Who is going to know that you are wearing those brands. It doesn't matter as long as they match and look cute! -Kayla
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Hey. Alright, this guy really likes me and no one has ever liked me like that before..people keep telling me to go out with him because he likes me and even if i dont like him, i should just "settle." Well, yea, um, i don't think thats right and im curious what your opinions are on that. Plus i really like this other guy but it would never work out for different reasons, and the guy thats likes me is sort of experienced and im..not..i want to save all my firsts for someone i really like. Should i just settle for the guy who likes me? Is it stupid to wait for someone i really like? (link)
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I think that you shouldn't go for a guy just because he likes you. If you don't like him like that then it isn't fair for you to do that to him. That happened to me last year and I was friends with this one guy and all these people were telling me to date him because they thought he was hot, but I only thought of him as a friend, then I got to thinking about it and realized it was totally wrong to do that to him, because it would hurt his feelings and I'd rather tell him no thanks then lead him on and make him like me more so in the end he gets hurt more. My advice, don't go out with the guy just because he likes you. -Kayla
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I have some friends that I used to know really well that I would talk to all the time, and we could talk about almost anything with each other; well not so anymore. And it seemed like all of a sudden we didnt talk. What happened and why? Is there anything I can do to reverse this? (link)
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Well, do you ever hang out with them anymore? Maybe you should set something up so you can hang out with them. Try hanging more and talking to them more, like call them up and stuff. Good luck! -Kayla
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hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!! (link)
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It will hurt the first few times because you aren't used to it. It will be ok, if it wasn't right you would know it. I'm sure you did it right, it's just that you aren't used to it. -Kayla
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lastnight 8 of us went to my friend stephen's house and then chili's and a movie and this guy robbie that likes me invited me and so at the movie he sat next to me and put his arm around me and he told my friend that he was sure he liked me last night but then today his AIM didnt work and so he had to put up away messages for me to read bc i was like hey and i didnt know his AIM wasnt working. so then his away message was like im sorry then another was like i just feel like we have nothing in common. then he signed off. and then i was talking to my friend and she said that robbie is not good at talking with girls and now he is thinking about if he likes me or not. and then i was talking to my friend eric and i was like i dont think robbie likes me anymore. hes like he likes u. and then he was like he just isnt good at talking with girls but i talked to him about it dont worry. so now i dont know what to do like if he likes me or not/ if he doesnt he shouldnt lead me on and like put his arm around me? (link)
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I think this Robbie guy does like you, but I also think that he is shy and doesn't know how to tell you he likes you. If his friend said he talked to him about it, then your good. If you aren't sure though, you need to talk to him about it, either call him or write him a note or something, or if his AIM is working, then ask him online. Just ask him if your worried, but I don't think you should be. I think he really does like you. -Kayla
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I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.
how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex? (link)
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This guy you may never completely get over, but try dating other guys to get your mind off of him. It will get you to thinking of other guys, rather than thinking of him constantly. Plus, you will have lots of fun. Hope this helps, well, I know this helps for almost any girl. -Kayla
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what does "two stepping" mean, like you do it a rock shows and stuff... explain, cause i feel stupid (link)
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I think that has to do with clogging. I'm not sure though. -Kayla
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I'm like, OMG, in LOVE with this guy, but like, he is just a FRIEND, and I have a boyfriend, but this guy is like THE ONE!! (link)
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OMG WOW TELL ME ALL ABOUT IT PLEASE! I CAN GIVE YOU GREAT ADVICE YOU KNOW!! haha good one! -Kayla
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ok im not quite sure if i have an eating disorder or not, or if im in the first stages of it. My friends are constantly telling me how im too skinny and need to eat more, but my mom tells me its fine if i diet and w/e. i hate eating, especially around other people, and when i do eat then it makes me feel sick and fat. but sometimes i just go on these binges and eat a ton. is it normal, or could i be in the early stages of an eating disorder? (link)
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Sweetie this seems to be the early stages of an eating disorder. You need to see a therapist or doctor about it and find out how you can prevent this from happening. -Kayla
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha (link)
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I really think you need to take time to think about whether or not you want to marry this kid and if you come to the conclusion that the answer is yes then you need to sit your dad down and explain to him that whether or not he likes him he is still going to have to put up with him because you are pregnant with his kid and you would really love for him to meet the guy that asked you to marry him because he means a lot to you and you want him to give him a chance and ask your dad why he doesn't like him. Then try to maybe have a dinner with all of yall together. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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Yeah, I think everyone knows about Daniel, and I have a question bout him...how do i deal with it? I mean I like him a lot, but how do i get to know him better? Like, I try to talk to him, but he doesn't carry on a conversation with me or anything. I dunno...what should i do? (link)
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Please tell me about Daniel.
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i dont know what to do.. ive told this guy that i love him.. and he told me that he loves me back.. but now its like he got a girlfriend when he was drunk.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean he broke up with her already.. but how do i know that he didnt just go out with her cause he still likes her.. i dont want to talk to him about it.. cause i dont want him to be all weird with me.. i havent been talking to him very much.. and he sees me with other guys.. and he thinks im going out with someone.. but i told him that im not.. but maybe he doesnt believe me.. and thats why hes being all weird.. but i dont know what to do.. should i talk to him.. tell him whats going on.. tell him what i feel.. or just let him wait to talk to me.. and what if he doesnt believe me.. what should i do?? (link)
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You really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him about that girl and tell him that you are single and everything else that is going on in your life. Don't let him come to you because chances are if he does come to you it won't be about that because he won't want to bring it up. -Kayla
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i already told my friend like a couple of weeks ago that he likes me but she doesnt know i like him..i need help with ideas of how to tell her (if nething happens if we go out or w/e) that im sorry or something..im gonna come up with ideas tonite cuz im a loser lol..but thats just because i really care about my friends and hurting thier feelings .. lol
xoxoo (link)
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I don't know who you are talking to, but I answered your question. I think that you need to just be forward with her and let her know that you like him by like saying, (whatever her name is), look I really like him and I know you like him too and I don't want to hurt your feelings in any way, but he really means a lot to me and I won't hook up with him if you are going to get mad at me, but I really think me and him could be something and I know you also like him and this is why I'm saying that I won't hook up with him if you are going to get mad because I care about my friends more than guys and I'm not going to let a guy get between us, but I really need to know what you think of all this. I really don't want you mad at me and this is why I'm coming to you with this before I say anything to anyone else. Please tell me what your thinking about this whole idea, because I really like him and I really need to know. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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Ok, I LOVE my family to death. My mom's best friend is like family to us, and she has a son and daughter. Her son is a month younger than my little sister (my sis and I r 4 years apart) and her daughter is a little younger. We're always together and I get so bored because I have nobody my age. please help me! (link)
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You just need to invite a friend over whenever they are over, that way you won't be left alone and with no one to hang out with. -Kayla
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My cousin, lets call her B, is the same age as me. Over the summer, I had a party and I invited her, friends of mine and even my ex, we'll call him D. They hit it off right away. About a week later, we all went bowling and my other cousin came up to me and asked if there was anything going on between B and D. I said no. So over the course of the night I saw them flirting, got upset and did not have a good night that night. That night D called me and asked me if anything was wrong and I told him everything about that night. Then the next day B called me and asked me if I would get upset if the two of them would hang out. I said yes at first, and then B said that D said "he would never date her cuz she wasnt his type" After that I said I dont mind at all- my mind was at ease. A couple days went by and B had a party at her house with only close friends of ours. I didn't spend the night cuz I had to work the next day. I found out D was spending the night at her house along with one other guy. I was upset about that.
My friends are upset at me for thinking anything was happening between B and D, but I think something was going on between them. They are both the very flirtatious type and she puts out more than me.
Was it wrong of me to get upset about my cousin hanging out with my ex? I mean, over the summer we were going to get back together but never did. I know how D acts when he likes a girl and he acted that way with B. So I asked my friend and he got upset at me.
Now I don't talk to any of them, my ex, cousin or the friend.
But anyways, should I have been upset about them hanging out?
im really sorry this is long... (link)
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Well, my opinion is this. You should've told them both in the beginning that you would get upset if they hooked up because you know, how are they supposed to know you are going to get angry at them because they liked eachother. On the other hand D told you he didn't like her, yet he flirted with her a lot. But if he is a very flirtatious type maybe that was how he was acting but nothing more going on. You really needed to talk to him about it instead of getting mad. This happened with 2 good friends of mine. I still liked this guy and he knew it and he was one of my good friends and this girl was one of my good friends and me and her and him went to the movies and out to eat and she told me that she didn't like him and she wouldn't date him anyways because I used to like him (I didn't realize I still liked him). Then later he also talked to me, but he told me he liked her. Then the next week and a half was hell because I was in fights with both of them because the girl ended up liking him and she lied to me about it and other things. Like she told my friends also that she wouldn't date him. Then, my best friend that is also good friends with her told her that she was gonna quit being friends with her if she didn't stop liking him unless I decided to be friends with the girl because by that time me and her quit being friends and in the end she told him she had to break it off because she'd rather be friends with him and I'm not friends with him anymore and the girl and him are hooking up now, but it doesn't bother me anymore because I don't hang out with them together. Sorry my story was long lol. -Kayla
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theres this really cool guy that i met. i talk to him all the time and we talk for hours on end. i talk to him more then i talk to my boyfriend! my friend doesnt like my boy friend thou and i was talking to him the other day and he was like "y dont you dump him? you can do alot better" and then he said "and you can get a guy sooner then you think". he flirts with me alot. would you say he likes me? i dont really know if i like him thou. (link)
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I think you both like eachother. I mean come one, why else would you talk to him for hours on end, more than your bf. I'm not sure, but maybe this guy is right, maybe you should give him a chance and dump your bf unless you really like your bf and keep him, but you gotta let go of one. -Kayla
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okay .. well there's this kid ivan who likes me .. well i don't like me and all his friends and like my friends are like are you two gonna go out b.c he likes you a lot .. i'm like okay but i don't like him he's just like my friend .. well ivan is always calling me non-stop .. to the point where i've told my family just not to give me the fone .. and now he calls my cell fone non-stop and leaves messages like .. on time he said he was upset and he was like i dunno .. just hearing ur voicemail and u talking made me feel better.. okay we're 14! i don't even kno what the frigg love is and i feel like he''s stalking me // he knows i don't like him and won't go out with him .. but he doesn't get the ount to stop calling and i don't know what to do .. b.c it gets me mad and aggravated .. so i need help on how to get this kid to back off (link)
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Maybe if he calls your phone so much, you should make a voice mail that says, Ivan please stop calling, I'm sorry I don't like you like that your just a friend and this is getting out of hand. And then after he calls change your voicemail back to normal. Or you can just tell him or tell a friend and get them to tell him. That is very crazy and that happened to me also about a month ago. I felt like he was stalking me too, so I blocked his sn and I stopped answering his calls and when he did call and I answered I told him I had to go and he got annoyed with it I guess and quit doing that and now he doesn't ever call me anymore. -Kayla
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Okay, its like this..
I really like this guy (Mike)- & well..he likes me too. Theres this party coming up in a couple of days and its like a huge party.. he told me he wants to get with me there - but thats just the good news.
One of my best friends (Laura) likes him..shes liked him for a long time..but shes the type that likes almost like everybody. Well, she told me that she doesnt like him that much anymore..but I just KNOW she still likes him. I really want to go out with him but I know she'll probably never forgive me. but shes not really a good friend but i know that ill feel horrible if i go out with him..i also wanna get with him but i dont want her to find out..
so can someone help me by giving me ideas of how to go out with him/get with him with out makin my friend mad?
(sorry its so long)
xoxoo (link)
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Wait, is your friend going with the party? If not, make sure no one is gonna like tell her or wtvr. Maybe you should go on a walk with him when you get there or go in a bedroom and make sure no one sees you go up there, that way no one can tell her and if you go on that walk, it will just be the two of you. Just some ideas. Hope I helped. -Kayla
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ok this is a ? for the chicas... do girls like guys that are like medium sized and like really ripped? or do they like big bulkyness? jus been wonderin 15/m (link)
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Well, I personally don't like big bulkyness. Maybe that's because I'm little, like short and skinny, but I don't like it. -Kayla
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I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break? (link)
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Go back out with him, you shouldn't listen to everything you hear, but instead confront him about it. He obviously likes you a lot or else he wouldn't have cried in front of all his friends. Guys just don't do that on a regular basis. He obviously really loves you and I really think you need to go back out with him, that wasn't a good enough reason to break up with him, no offense, but like if he was all over other girls and he liked other girls, then he wouldn't still be with you. -Kayla
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