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hey there, i'm missy!the names missy, i'm 16 years old growing up in chicago. i hate when people judge me, so dont. if you steal my picture, i'll fucking hunt you down (; anyways; i'm really great at giving advice. probably because i've been through a lot of shit in my life. from the time i could remember until one year ago, my parents were both huge alchoholics. i basically taught myself everything. dont write sympathy notes to my inbox either, because i hate that. i'm always really nice to everyone and i dont judge people the first time i see them. i find that wrong to the furthest point! every person has their own story, so i choose to listen (: my boyfriend of two years is darren. darren is my life. honestly, he completes me in so many ways. he's the only person that makes me completely happy. i truly love him. so ask me as many questions as you need, i'm not a fake bitch and i dont give you phony answers. have a nice day (:
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my boyfriend and i want to try something new. however, we are both virgins and would like to keep it that way. we have both performed oral sex though, and i just want to spice things up a bit. a friend of mine suggested the whole blind-fold deal, but i want to try like flavored lube. do they sell that at like walgreens? or where should i go? this is probably a stupid question, but i'm only 17, they wouldn't like I.D. me or anything, right? am i ALLOWED to buy lube? thanks.
Try spencers,
or go to google & look up
where you can find stores
to buy some.
and no, you dont need an I.D.
haha(: have a good one.
15/f. Pardon me if this is long. But it's ruining my life.
Last year I was a really lonely and pathetic teenager. At 14, I had no friends I could trust, and all that revolved around my mind, was school and homework. And then I stumbled upon an online forum. There, I made lots of friends and became so much happier. I had gotten more social through the ways of the internet chatroom. The people there all shared my interests and were so nice and sweet to me. It was almost like a dream. I actually thought I was fitting in somewhere. Ever since, to this day, it has become an addiction. Particularly because of one guy. Let's call him "Vibrator". Vibrator is 3 and a half years older than me. That makes him...(well, you do the math, if I'm 15 1/2) And he lives in North America (as I do) He shares my music interests, hobbies and other things such as this. When he talks to me (and we have been talking online on MSN and AIM for a course of one year) he is always so sweet and sugary and amazing. I feel like I've known Vibrator forever. He always compliments me and tells me I'm pretty. It makes me feel amazing. But, I'm a bit paranoid, because I've only seen like ONE picture of him! And I'm always sending him pictures o.o And everything we discuss....personally..is always about me. So I feel as if...he wants to know about me, but never tells me about himself. Is he hiding something? I don't know what to do ! I'm so emotionally attached to him. And he flirts with other girls too, and then tells me later that he has no "sexual" feelings for me. He tells me that we should meet and he tells me he wants to. He manipulates and plays with my feelings. He really is ruining my life. I hate him, but at the same time I like him a lot. I don't know what to do. I really want to meet him. But I'm so unsure. It's becoming an obsession talking to him. And he gets mad very frequently...when he does, I cry. He upsets me a lot. But then he apologizes and plays with me...like that. I cry over him. I can't tell this to anyone. Not even my best friend, because I'm too embarrassed to admit that I like someone online.
What should I do? Please. :( Any piece of advice would be helpful.
You should honestly, stop talking to Vibrator.
You've pretty much answered your own Q in way,
he's ruining your life, so obviously you should
stop talking to him. Seriously, you need to
realize that he's just playing games with you.
If he hasnt sent you over two pictures, he's
not who he says he is! He probably just got the
picture off photobucket. And this is becomming
more of an obsession than an online "crush."
Get out more & spend more time off the computer.
Try finding real friends because once you do,
you'll become really happy & you wont have to
worry about Vibrator. =)
my boyfriend thinks vaginas are gross.
i need professional help.
what do i do?
Well depending on how old you are I guess,
I think you need to dump this guy.
He might be gay, because whoever thinks
VAG. is gross, and he's a male - then its
pretty much not normal. So ask him questions,
watch how he talks with men, and just keep
an eye out for homosexuality. Its okay to be
gay, but not to have a gay boyfriend(:
the difference between punk and emo's? and what they are?
Punks & Emos usually dress the same,
but the real difference between them
is the inside. Punks are usually hardcore.
They act like they dont have feelings.
Where Emos, are pretty much sad, depressed
people who usually cut. Punks just dress
the part, but usually they're just very
loud & stuff. hope i helped.
15/f going into 10th grade
Ok so I want to be more confident about what I wear and look like. I'm super small (80lbs) but not annorexic or belimic...(please believe me) but I won't wear a cute casual dress or high heels because I'm afraid of what people might think (last year I saw some girls looking at me then wispering about the heels, that I got the guts up to wear, they were makin faces like you know "those are ugly" and they weren't!!)
But anyway, if I do get the guts up to wear heels I won't wear them with shorts because you can see them.
I'm also too shy to talk to guys and even other girls I don't really know. How do I fix this??!??
I hate not being confident in things I wear and what to do!!!!?!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!
You pretty much just have to look in the mirror,
and see the things they do on tv.
Like look in the mirror & say "Man, those heels
look amazing on me." OR " Wow, i'm tiny & i love
it (:" Always smile and laugh, because that
draws positive attention to you & people will
notice that, which will make you more confident.
Hang out with people who are nice, unlike the
girls thats jealousy made them laugh @ your
shoes. Ignore them, those girls are the ones that
everyone hates and you'll just lose confidence
listening to them! & for guys, just tell yourself
the worst thing that could happen is that they
wont talk to you, but chances are if you are
confident and just go up & strike a convo with
a guy, they'll notice that your outgoing & easy
to talk to. Hope i helped.
m/13 hi i have i normal account on paypal. i cant send money to other paypal accounts. can i send it to my debit account or bank account? i have the free paypal.
debit.
15/f. I have a stupid crush on someone older and it's gotten really crazy. I can't stop thinking about him and for some reason, I can't do anything anymore, even when i'm alone. I can' t even eat, or listen to music. i'm always thinking about something I might of said, or something embarrassing I did in front of him, even if it's not really that bad. I realized that my whole mood always depends on how things are with him.
I feel so stupid and out of control. I know this isn't healthy and it's killing my self-esteem.
How can I get over him ?
FIND ANOTHER GUY!
if he is not interested, then he just isnt
plus, he's obviously not the one, or you guys
would already be together (: There are other
guys out there for you that you can be in
a good, healthy relationship with (:
alright this is sort of weird and i'm not sure how to ask this but i'm really nervous about it. one of my nipples is red and bumpy on top and has a little lump inside it...but only on part of it, and it just started about 3 days ago. could it be because i let my boyfriend suck it and rub it and stuff? i didn't know if that was it or not...i really need answers but i can't ask my mom because she doesn't know how far i've gone with my boyfriend.
I'm sure its just from your boyfriend.
Because if it is your 1st time having a
guy do that to you, the nipple will react
differently. If i does continue to worsen,
then just tell your mom. You might feel
VERY awkward, but it could be an infection!
So, just check it like everyday &
see if it does get bumpier.
me and b.f spend alot of time together and i know he loves me alot and i love him to but ,,,i dont know why this feeling has been with me for like a week now and its bothering me...i feel very obssesive over him like i want him to call me everyday but i dont want to call him..like right now i wanna call him cuz i hvanet seen him at all today but then i want him to call me..and im not sure what my question is but i want to spend alot of time otgether more then we... but i really wanna stop feeling this way ...dont get me worng i still do but i think im getting obssessive over him...help what should i do???
sry if its too long but i need the help !!
It's really good that you like him that much.
And I also like how you want to keep in touch
with him everyday. I dont see anything wrong
with how your acting, but if you feel you rlly
are obsessing then I would try focusing on other
things. Hangout with some of your "single"
friends & have a girls day out! Try & just hang
with your friends, and then think about him.
Because sometimes, being obsessed with him or
the relationship is a major turnoff so just focus
on other big things in your life.
i'm a pretty outgoing girl around people i feel comfortable with, but when im at parties i have a hard time just going up to people n talkin to them.. because im not the "popular one" but im in the middle n the people at the parties i go to are the "popular ones".... how can i be more confident with myself to talk to them? please help i really just wanna have fun at parties n talk to everyone.. n be liked by everyone.. and im hopin it will help me find a guy
I would just go up to them, and say hey,
how are you? Then - compliment them. If
you do, they'll know that they you're nice
& you'll get more respect from them.
Then start a conversation about maybe the
latest gossip! It'll keep you and whoever
talking for a while and you can share your ideas
with them. Just keep smiling, greeting, & com-
plimenting and you'll have a lot of friends
AND MAYBE A GUY (;
i hear people talking all the time about the different bases of sex. like someone will say, " we got all the way to 3rd base"
can someone explain to me what all the bases are and what they mean?
A lot of people have a lot of different
opinions, but this the most common.
1st base, making out/kissing.
2nd base, Fingering or Handjob
3rd base, Eating Out or Blowjob
Home, full on sex.
hi =] well my problem is I'm going out with some kid named peter who's is amazing and wonderful he's like my dream guy but for some reason I always have a feeling of dought. meaning I always feel and think about us not lasting long like were gonna break up very soon! even though I don't want to....but I'm always having dought in myself when it comes to relationships. and the guy who I'm going out with he's like my dream guy he's everything that I've wanted but I don't know why I'm always having dought when I have someone special like him! I wanna no why am I having this feeling? I don't want to have this feeling anymore!am I scared of something? idk please help =/
Chances are, you guys are gonna split.
But the good/bad thing is, when?!
I totally know what you mean, i am going
through this feeling now. Mainly what i do is
just focus on how long we HAVE been going out.
And then i just keep adding on the days.
This helps me because it makes me feel great
about how long we've actually been a couple.
Also try and tell yourself that you were
obviously meant to be together if he picked YOU
to be his gf.
Goodluck doll.
So I have this friend, who I've known since 6th grade, well she got a bf 4 months ago and its a long distance relationship. Well she's always texting me sayin things like, " I think he's cheating on me" because of some stupid comments he left on myspace. Or she says, "what if he doesn't like me when he sees me in person?" I tell her he will cuz she's beautiful but she feels fat and ugly. So what do I say to her? Cuz it gets annoying after a while. Thanks anyways.
Well in my case, I would just talk to her face
to face about this. Tell her thats she's beautiful and that she isn't ugly or fat at all.
And even if this isnt all true, compare you and
her. Say things like, "uuughhh, your SO MUCH skinner than me!" Or-"Gosh ___, your hair is so
fricken pretty!" Just try to convince her shes
not. And if she keeps doing it, agree with her.
She`ll get the picture.
how exactly do you give a blow job or a hand job? i've always wondered about that. >.
blow job :
when you take a males penis and suck on it.
hand job :
when you take a males penis & "massage" it
by using your hands.
(:
ok. i'm 13, almost fourteen, and i NO boobs, whatsoever. i have to wear a padded bra that's too big for me, but they STILL are small like that. i'm petite, only 4'10 or 11 and about 80 lbs. my mom has a very little A cup, but on my dad's side, his sister and his mom have either a big C or a little D. i was just wondering if there was any way my boobs might get big, or since they've been not growing for so long, are they pretty much gonna be small like my mom's no matter what??
oh and also, i play softball and am a pitcher, so i guess my muscles under there are worked a lot, so that might be a reason....?
Either you'll start growing soon until your
around the age of 16, or thats as big as your
gonna get. Usually, if your mom has small/big
boobs, that's how you'll end up.
Its just how it is (:
hope i helped.
okay well my 2 very close friends ( both guys) are joining the military so they've been in training basically all summer.. my friend is having a party for them when they come home in august and it's supposed to be a sleepover. there will be 3 girls & 3 guys.. 2 of which are boyfriend & girlfriend. one problem, my mom doesn't agree with coed sleepovers and doesn't think it's necessary. i really want to go because i haven't seen them in so long! nothing would happen because the boys are decent and wouldn't do anything. all we're going to do is watch movies & sleep like an all girl sleepover haha. i already tried telling her that but she still won't go for it.. how to i convince her to let me go!?!?!?
Tell her to talk to the parents.
If there are supervisers and she knows it,
then she can feel comfortable that there
will be people there to watch you
[ even though nothing is gonna happen ]
If that fails, try and tell her how important
it is to you. You might as well guilt her
into it if you want to go that bad
hope i helped. (;
I went to this summer camp once, and I made friends with this girl and her older brother. They were a bit younger than me, but we were the oldest there. This was about two-three years ago.
Well, the guy added me on myspace, and we talk once in a while. And then kaboom!! he asks me out! I say yes, I don't know why, and then he says that maybe we shouldn't. Ok. No big deal. I don't like you that way anyway. This was two years ago.
Now hes sendng me these messages through myspace like to rate him, and list the things I would potentially be willing to do with him. Well, I only like him as a friend. Period.
What should I do when he sends me these messages? So far, he sent me two, the first one of which I filled out, but I really truly listed the things I would do with him (I think the furthest was hugging... but as friends, ya know?)
Well this one that he sent me I have to rate him. Could anyone suggest how I should rate him without hurting his feelings, but not making it sound like I like him that way, either?
---GRADE ME---
F= damn you're ugly
D = your parents must be heated
C- = You're just someone I don't want to talk to, okay?
C = You're okay looking, but you need work...
C+ = You're just average
B- = Your kinda cute and you're cool I guess
B = You're cute. And you're a pretty interesting person.
B+ = Pretty damn attractive. I'd hit that.
A- = You're extremely attractive, and you're awesome.
A = DAMN YOUR SEXXXAY!!
A+ = ... will you go out with me?.... seriously!
A++= will you marry me
A+++=TAKE ME NOW ON THE TABLE AND KISS ME AND DON'T STOP
Should I put A-?
...he's not extremely attractive, but obviously he just sent it to me so I would tell him something like "I'd hit that, will you go out with me?, etc.
B- = Your kinda cute and you're cool I guess
(;
He wont get his feelings hurt on that one.
Plus, the cool part makes it out as a friend
rating (; hope i helped.
do regular bangs require styling? like anne hathaway in the devil wears prada
If your hair is really curly, then you will
have to straighten them. Other than that,
you can either pin them back or put them
down. They are really easy, just make sure they
arent in your eyes hehe (;
i want to break up w/ my long distance boyfriend, for the second time (we broke up once and got back together). and idk why i really got back together w/ him. and now i want to break up again and we've only been bf and gf since the 4th of july and idk what to say...i dont have a good reason to break up..i'm kinda look'n for an excuse...but also some ways to break up gently, any help?
Instead of an excuse, just tell the truth.
That way, if the subject ever comes up again
in the future, you dont have to lie er anything
Tell him that you'd rather not date anymore
because we wont see eachother a lot & i just
dont feel that connection anymore because of
that =) If he gets mad, ( which i doubt he will
because thats as nice as you can put it ),
then just give him some space...
I have some probs with getting guys to notice me. What should I do?
You could start by smiling at him, or flipping
your hair. Any kind of "flirting" like that
should catch his eye. If you still arent catching
his eye then go up to him and talk to him.
Dont dumb yourself down er anything but laugh
@ his jokes, and talk about things that keep
his attention (; Keep dressing cute & stuff also.
(; hope i helped.