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Confidence
15/f going into 10th grade
Ok so I want to be more confident about what I wear and look like. I'm super small (80lbs) but not annorexic or belimic...(please believe me) but I won't wear a cute casual dress or high heels because I'm afraid of what people might think (last year I saw some girls looking at me then wispering about the heels, that I got the guts up to wear, they were makin faces like you know "those are ugly" and they weren't!!)
But anyway, if I do get the guts up to wear heels I won't wear them with shorts because you can see them.
I'm also too shy to talk to guys and even other girls I don't really know. How do I fix this??!??
I hate not being confident in things I wear and what to do!!!!?!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!
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The confidence exercise that always works:
Grab a piece of paper and a pen and sit in front of a mirror. Write down everything you like about yourself, physically and mentally. Everyday, or just when you're feeling down, look over this piece of paper. It will make you a lot more confident.
As for what you wear, it really doesn't matter. No one is going to remember what you wear, and it's not going to change who you are as a person. Wear what makes you like, and don't think about the people that make snide remarks about it.
As for talking to guys, remember they're people too. Just be yourself! Being a genuine person is great. Also confidence attracts guys, so walk with your head held high and don't let people get you down.
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You pretty much just have to look in the mirror,
and see the things they do on tv.
Like look in the mirror & say "Man, those heels
look amazing on me." OR " Wow, i'm tiny & i love
it (:" Always smile and laugh, because that
draws positive attention to you & people will
notice that, which will make you more confident.
Hang out with people who are nice, unlike the
girls thats jealousy made them laugh @ your
shoes. Ignore them, those girls are the ones that
everyone hates and you'll just lose confidence
listening to them! & for guys, just tell yourself
the worst thing that could happen is that they
wont talk to you, but chances are if you are
confident and just go up & strike a convo with
a guy, they'll notice that your outgoing & easy
to talk to. Hope i helped.
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