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im melanie. im 16 years old. i will be a junior in high school. i love giving advice and helping people :D everyone says im good at it, so ASK AWAY! absolutely anything :)
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okay, so theres this guy and i have liked him for over a year.. but he has had a girlfriend all this time.. but now they broke up. and we talk and stuff, but i want to get closer to him and flirt with him a little more, but idk how to do that without being too obvious. so i was wondering if you had any ideas on how to get his attention or anything.. cause idk what to do.. thanks
ok idk if hes still upset about the breakup but give it time. Once you think he is up for it be confident! Guys think confidence is sexy. Guys like girls who have a sense of humor..so keep talking to him! Guys dont like girls who try to hard..so keep cool & i hope it works out!
hope i helped=)
okay lets cut to the chase. im fat. overweight. gross legs and arms, potbelly. i'm just fat. ive been doing the healthy weight loss thing for years now and i havent lost any weight
what are some ways to lose weight QUICKLY. health doesnt matter, if youre some kind of health activist dont answer the question.
the fastest way to slim down is running:] trust me. even though on the scale you might slim down a little (maybe 10 pounds) but muscle weighs more than fat. But you'll look a lot smaller! Running outside is better, so find your local track or map out a course in your neighborhood!
hope i helped:]
What do you do? Like just stand there? I don't think so but what
basically you just say will you go out with me, people think its a lot harder than that, but really its not lol=)
f/14
Ok me and my friend lets call her Mary have been friends for about a year now and she has treated me like trash. She ignores me and talks about me behing my back but she's the type that will tell everyone my secrets if shes mad at me. And when there's no one else to call she'll call me and use me as a "last resort" she is so consited and she never helps me with anything. I'm not saying im the "perfect friend" because im not so great either, but i don't talk about her behind her back untill well basically now. She always calls me a bad friend when i don't do anything, and i think she's using me so she can have more friends. So I can't get rid of her. Please What should I do???
Please help me!!!! :)
omg i had the exact same problem, but what i did, this is what my mom told me when i had a problem with this girl, lets call her anna. Well Anna made a nasty cheer about me, calling me all this names (and lets say anna isnt the skinniest person ever) you know what i did? i was like you can talk about me all you want, id rather hang out with other people than you. But dont do that yet, tell her if you keep talking about me behind my back, than whats the point of being friends, if she denies it than shes not a keeper, id rather have one honest friend than a 100 fake lying ones. Shes digging her own grave, thats what my mom would say to me. One day people will be so fed up with her lying & bashing they wont wanna be friends with her. heres a quote i found:
"keep your head raised high gorgoues, cause people would kill to see you fall."
and other words, dont let her upset you!
since we have a lot in common message me anytime if you wanna chat:]
hope i helped!
I had my period this summer.But I haven't had my period for almost three months. Is there something wrong with me?
no not at all:] when i first got mine i didnt get it every month, not til atleast this year! your fine dont worry!
my bf is serously sweet but like @ partys and stuff we spend every second 2gether and i dont know how to tell him i just wanna dance with my friends and have a good time. without him thinking i dont like him or dont want to be with him. how can i be with my friends and tell him to be with his?
just tell him you need a little space..but say it nicely:) he'll understand if hes a nice guy
ok....so i wanna quit cheerleading! how do i tell my coach..i want to quit because im getting a job soon..and i wanna work on my school work (because my grades are dippn)...also what do i have to give her??(besides my uniform)
just tell her what you said in your question..she'll understand:]
i really like this guy that i know from school. we have made plans to hang out a few times but they never seem to work or because one of us always ends up not being able to do it. its never been just the two of us going to hang out its always going to have been us and another couple or other people but not really like a double date which is not what we called it but it may have seemed like that to someone else but to us it was just a chance to hang out. but i really like him and hes a really flirty guy with all girls so i have no idea how he feels. i want him to know that i like him more than just friends but i dont want to just come out and tell him because i dont want things to be ackward if he doesnt feel the same way. do you think he has realize? what things should i do or say that would hint to him that i am interested in being something more than friends?
one word: flirt!
1. dress to impress
2. play with your hair when he's talking to you
3. look him in the eye, when talking to him, if he likes you sometimes guys are to nervous to look you back, most of the time their looking at their feet.
4. compliment him!
5. Look your best and be confident!
6. give it time
7. if he treats you like one of friends around his friends than he probably told them he liked you.
8. If he plays sports, go to one of his games to show that you support him.
9.continue to try to make plans, i suggest the movies;]
10. the most important thing is to be yourself! do not change yourself for a boy:]
hope i helped!
14/f
What type or brand of jeans will make my butt look smaller?
thanxs
hmm i had a pair of jeans that made my butt look smaller. They were made by bongo, and they fit great=)
okay well i told ppl about this before so. but this is diff.....i think. okay anyways, my best friend likes me a lot. &i like him a little but he wants a real relationship that i`m not ready for. i told him everything, what i want, where i stand. everything. but the thing is he tells me all these things that every girl wants. but i never know if he`s lying or not. it really really really sounds like he isnt but yeah, he even told me he loved me the other day &i just said uhhhhh like a big idiot! then after that like a week later. he went to these girl`s from my school`s house whose very pretty&makes out w/ everyone and stuff at 11:30 at night. `til who knows? i`m getting really mad at him bc i actually thought i liked him until i just don`t know if i trust him bc he hangs out with druggies and blah and lives by a lot of girls that are like yeah. how do i know if i should trust him or not? i told him everything&he told me everything but i`m not sure if hes just saying these things... ROAR what do i do?!!!! oh and whats so confusing for me?
sorry but i would let this guy go. To tell you the truth if he tells you that he loves you, its prolly lie since he hangs out with other girls and doesnt invite you. There are tons of other guys for you, maybe he isnt the one? He sounds like a player to me, but dont worry, i bet you that a guy will tell you he loves you and mean it=)
hope i helped
I'm a little over weight. OK. overweight. i've tried to eat healthier things, drink less/no sodas, eat less fried foods, and exercise for about 2 and a half years now. Is there any way I can lose weight in less time??
any advise helps
thanx
the best way to slim down fast is running:] You should run atleast a couple miles maybe 2-3 times a week. Running outside is better than the gym, so find your local track or map out a course in your neighborhood.
hope i helped:)