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shes my "friend"
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Ok me and my friend lets call her Mary have been friends for about a year now and she has treated me like trash. She ignores me and talks about me behing my back but she's the type that will tell everyone my secrets if shes mad at me. And when there's no one else to call she'll call me and use me as a "last resort" she is so consited and she never helps me with anything. I'm not saying im the "perfect friend" because im not so great either, but i don't talk about her behind her back untill well basically now. She always calls me a bad friend when i don't do anything, and i think she's using me so she can have more friends. So I can't get rid of her. Please What should I do???
Please help me!!!! :)
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Well if she's doing that kind of things to you then she's not a friend mabye you should try putting yourself out there and try to meet people who want to be your friend and will treat you with respect!!
Love,
Massie Girl!!♥
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ok you should call her or talk in person which ever you prefer, and ask her why she talks about you badly, remind her that friends dont treat eachother like that and if this promblem consists tell her you guys need to stop talking for a while and maybe she will stop. i hope i have helped
love always & forever
<3 kristen
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You need to tell that bitch that you dont appreciate her talking about you and disrepecting you, and if she cant be a good friend to you until she dosen't have anybody else to turn to, then she can go to hell, because you aren't on nobodys backlot. If you don't let her know that soon, you will end up going insane. Trust me, because i have been there and made that mistake before, more than once. hope that helps.
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omg i had the exact same problem, but what i did, this is what my mom told me when i had a problem with this girl, lets call her anna. Well Anna made a nasty cheer about me, calling me all this names (and lets say anna isnt the skinniest person ever) you know what i did? i was like you can talk about me all you want, id rather hang out with other people than you. But dont do that yet, tell her if you keep talking about me behind my back, than whats the point of being friends, if she denies it than shes not a keeper, id rather have one honest friend than a 100 fake lying ones. Shes digging her own grave, thats what my mom would say to me. One day people will be so fed up with her lying & bashing they wont wanna be friends with her. heres a quote i found:
"keep your head raised high gorgoues, cause people would kill to see you fall."
and other words, dont let her upset you!
since we have a lot in common message me anytime if you wanna chat:]
hope i helped!
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Wait, why can't you get rid of her?
And Russianspy1234 has said the counterrumors work well. I can't vouch for that.
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