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Question Posted Tuesday January 2 2007, 6:34 pm

why do people enjoy giving head? just the thought is gross. first of all, i think it's gross if i had to suck someone's fingers, but sucking someones cock, that just seems gross. no i'm not young, and i'm not immature, but it's kind of repulsive thinking of people getting on their knees and sucking on someones private area when god knows where it's been and then having cum go into your mouth. um ew! i don't get it. why do people enjoy it? and if you have done it, how gross really is it? is it as gross as it seems?

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lilteacup answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 11:32 pm:

Just to comment on what someone said, because you do it, doesn't mean you are a slut. I don't have too much experience with this, but I have gone down on a guy before. I used to think it was really gross too, but this guy is clean so it wasn't bad. As for the cum in your mouth part, I stop and finish with my hand cause I don't think I could take it.

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Annieisonfire answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 8:07 pm:
it isnt so much as gross as it seems. but it just depends on how clean ur guy is... my guy washes his penis and so giving head is often good... however it is sensible to consider "where its been" before sucking!
hope this was useful

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lovelyladie answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 7:41 pm:
wow i definetly dont blame you. i know i will never do it, seriously i dont get it either. i guess we're NORMAL. lol i guess sluts only do it

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Mackenzie answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 7:15 pm:
Don't knock it until you've tried it, is what I always say. Often times men enjoy oral sex, so perhaps for the sake of a future partner, it might be something you would want to consider at least once. If you discover that it's not your thing, that is fine, and a proper gentleman should respect your decision. Just remember that nobody has a right to force you to participate in any activity that you would prefer to stay away from. Also keep in mind that any answer you get here is merely opinion. What's "gross" to you is not "gross" to me in the slightest. You'll probably never find a sufficient answer unless you seek it for yourself. :) I'd also like to add (to the answer above mine) that not "only sluts do it". Respectable people have desires, also...

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xomichelle891xo answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 7:12 pm:
People dont enjoy doing head. There might be a few people who do, but most women DONT. They do it to pleasure the guy. Thats basically what its all about. They think they have to give head to their boyfriend or else they wont be good in bed. Not necessarily true - although the pressure comes from the fact that guys are very open to saying they LOVE head..its pleasurable for them. Its okay that you dont want to. If youre with a guy that really loves you - it wont matter and he will understand/respect your boundaries and preferences. I have NOT done it, but I know someone who has and she said it was horrible and it tasted like burnt rubber. Ha. So obviously its not very pleasant (I think its pretty gross, myself. And not very hygenic.) And also, a lot of people (most) dont swallow the cum because that's disgusting.

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