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friends or....?
okay well i told ppl about this before so. but this is diff.....i think. okay anyways, my best friend likes me a lot. &i like him a little but he wants a real relationship that i`m not ready for. i told him everything, what i want, where i stand. everything. but the thing is he tells me all these things that every girl wants. but i never know if he`s lying or not. it really really really sounds like he isnt but yeah, he even told me he loved me the other day &i just said uhhhhh like a big idiot! then after that like a week later. he went to these girl`s from my school`s house whose very pretty&makes out w/ everyone and stuff at 11:30 at night. `til who knows? i`m getting really mad at him bc i actually thought i liked him until i just don`t know if i trust him bc he hangs out with druggies and blah and lives by a lot of girls that are like yeah. how do i know if i should trust him or not? i told him everything&he told me everything but i`m not sure if hes just saying these things... ROAR what do i do?!!!! oh and whats so confusing for me?
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Well, he's your best friend. You guys should stay in the friend zone because having a best friend..better yet finding a true best friend is very hard and it's a miracle for people to find even a friend that would be true and loyal to them and if you guys go out, it's just gonna mess things up.
Your guy friend is probably confused too because he admitted his feelings for you and felt like a big moron for doing so seeing your reaction to it. If you still like him, go after him. If you are having doubts, you probably want to just stay friends with him. If you can't trust him right now, you should just stay friends. Key words: Stay friends.
I think your feelings are tilting form one side to another because your bff just told you he likes you and now you're wondering if you like him that way too...so just think about this mroe and you decide if you think you like him as a friend or more.
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If you have to ask yourself if you can trust him, then it's a good probably that you really don't. What you are looking for is to try to have someone help you convince yourself that you do trust him because he is your best friend and you two talk so much. You should trust yourself with decisions, their are rasons for this. No one should tell you what to do. The confusing part is that you want to believe this guy even though you see or hear him doing all these other things. I would say, if you want to continue the friendship, all you can do is tell him that is as far as it goes and be there for him. Just advice, but you need to make your own mind up, I wouldn't consider this guy as someone to be dating.
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sorry but i would let this guy go. To tell you the truth if he tells you that he loves you, its prolly lie since he hangs out with other girls and doesnt invite you. There are tons of other guys for you, maybe he isnt the one? He sounds like a player to me, but dont worry, i bet you that a guy will tell you he loves you and mean it=)
hope i helped
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