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Hey im a girl who expects everyone to give to me. i love giving advice..and also i like to recieve it in the right situations. i love to help the people who are in need. in fact wen i am older i plan on being a teenage pshycologist. i am also a very shy girl wen i dont know you, but when i get to know you, i open up and will speak greatly to you. i have gone through sum issues jus like ne body else. i have survived them issues and still standing strong and working hard to never have them again. I would except any subject or ne question, i love to help but hopin to actually help you. there may be times where i dont kno wat to say but later on i will. i will try to answer those questions to my fullest. if you would like any advice please dont hesitate to ask them.

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17 female How do I make sure I get a guy to ask me to the prom without asking them?

Like dont flaunt yourself and being all pushy over the guy or towards them just act normal and yourself. But dropping slight hints wouldnt be too bad as long as they aint drastic or to forward. but if you do the flauntin or pushy and stuff, truth is that could turn the guys off and not ask you. Just like i said put yourself out there like who you really are. not who you want to be just yourself.

Hope i helped and good luck.. :]

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is fingering yourself bad? i finger myself everyday and more then once a day. is it bad to do it so much?

no fingering yourself is not bad. It gives you pleasure so do it wen you feel its the right time to get pleasure. but i agree with everyone else dont let it interfer with your life. But it is perfectly normal.

hope i helped.

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i want to get my cartiledge pierced. does it hurt more than getting your ears pierced? and like idk just tell me what it is like and what i should know. also for girls does it matter what ear? thansks

to be honest for me the cartlidge did hurt worse then my ears and in fact my bellybutton. but tht was just my opinion. but for any other information there really isnt any except keeping it cleaned all the time.

for girls i dont think it matters what ear but i generally see them wit it peirced on the left side thts what i have. but its your choice.

good luck

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how can i become flexable without taks qymnastics?

strecth everyday for lik a half hour doing splits and such. and you should become more flexible each time.

good luck :)

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Okay, I've had my period for about a year or a little bit longer and it's still irregular. How long does it take for it to come regulary?

And are there any ways to get the cramps and backaches to go away without taking Advil or Midol or such? Is exercising (like running, pilates) helpful or harmful because I do those every other day

periods usuallly start out irregular and then eventually become regular. tho it may take a few years it does happen. but then later in years again it could become irregular again.

and to get rid of cramps. running helps..but takes a little longer so you should prob just stick with midol and advil.

hope that helps

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since i'm going to highschool in september i'm very curious how ppl. are judgemental.

1)i'm a girl and i waz wondering in school dances if i am grinding with a girl... would that be considered as being bi..because i'm NOT.. so is it o.k to grind with a person the same sex as you?

AND

2) say i'm grinding with a guy would i be considered as a slut or a hoe or skank or trick?

for the first question no you would not be Bi. Its simply dancing with your frineds. at my dances all the gurls are doing it and so do i. its just dancing.

for the second question no you would not be considered a slut or ne thing becuz u simply either like the guy your grinding with or you jus like to have fun and dance.

hope i helped and dont feel like you cant have a good time at these dances and stuff.

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what's the best way to get rid of pimples fast?

well i have pimples also and i use stridex pads and sumtimes oxy pads to clean my face everynight before bed. they both work really well on me soo theyshould work good on you tooo

hope tht helped

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Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it.

Kyndra elizabeth

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I am so frusturated today. I'm usually giving advice, but right now I don't have any for myself. I have been best friends with this one girl for 2 years and I'm really close with both her and her daughter, but she is constantly using me and lying to me. Finally I got fed up of her and called her to tell her she only cares about her self and then hung up. Does this diserve an apolgie? I don't plan on giving one, but I wanted to know what everyone else thought.

umm..well its good you got it out but you could have been harsh alil bit. and if you think your totally right dont apologize cuz obviously its the truth. but if you want to continue being friends wit this her you apologize and say tht it just needed to come out and you are sry for it. but thts if you want to keep being firneds in my opinion. but make sure she dont get attitude wit you bbecause of all this with you maybe apologizing.

good luck hope i helped ..sounds kinda confusing sry

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How do you french kiss somebody?

and what do you do when ur gunna have sex?


thanks

Um its kinda compleciated to explain how to do it.
But you just go with the flow and the moment. umm one tounge massages the next tounge and you keep doing tht until you feel like stopping. like i said jus go wit the flow lol.

ummm
you take clothes and jus go with the flow for tht one as well..

sry for the problems cant really explain.

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ok well in the second season of laguna beach kristen was the leader right? and in season 3 kyndra is the leader. and in season 2 lauren was kinda like the second popular girl and so is that what tessa in season 3 is? lol sorry if its a little confusing but im really confused about it. thanks

ok season 1 was lauren..season two was kristen with lauren as the second popular like you said. i beleive season 3 is actually tessa and kyndra is the second gurl. becuase in the beginning u hear tessa's voice like you did for each season it was kristens for 2cd and laurens for 1st.

hope tht helped

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okay so i've been getting my period for almost a year. and so one of my boobs is like a 34a and the other one is flat across my chest. its been like that for 2 years now. is that normal??!!

yes its normal. both boobs start out at different sizes and sooon enough will be the same size in time. Most likely wen your done growing is wen they will be together. or maybe even a lil longer

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ok so there's this guy i like and he told my friend for me to c ome talk to him after school... but when i wa lked out of the classroom he was right behind me but then he turned right and i turned left and i never got to talk to him... so should i try to talk to him tommorow or not?

yea you should talk to him tom. he wants to like you said it just happened at the wrong time. Try again.

good luck

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College starts Monday and I'm having the same feeling I had the day before freshman year started in high school [really scared and in one week I already knew it was easy]. Is it the same going from high school to college [you're worried but soon learn how much easier it is than you thought]?

going to college is stepping basically into the real world. it will be scarey at first but you will get ahold of it and will become extreamely easy. highschool is infact different becuz your still a kid and everything..

goood luck with your college year..

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13/F
Hi!!!,
Ok, my mom told me that I was to young for the book but I went ahead and read it anyway and it has Very described sex scenes in it, now ever since I read it i can stop thinking about it. I dream that I'm having it with my BF(we've touched e/o but never kiss or acually taken our clothes off) and last night I dreamed I had it and then I got pregnat and the baby died and.... oh my god. I was so scared. what should I do?

maybe you should tell your mom that you read the book and are having them dreams.

this all could be from your conscience knowing you werent supposed to but did it anyways.
if you told it probably would go away..

good luck

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how do you break up with someone you`ve been dating for 9 months and what are some easy tips for getting over someone?
thanks.

since you didnt say why you want to break up with the person, you should sit down and explain that you dont want to go out wit that person. and just be like you need time to your self and space right now. like say its a break. and hey it might be because you might want the person back after breaking up wit em.

I guess to get over sumone is to just hang out wit a bunch of frineds being yourself and that should just get your mind off of the person becuase your having fun.

good luck..

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Me and my boyfriend were fighting a few days ago. We were swearing and stuff, and he goes "shut up you cooctie eyed bitc*. I don't really know what cooctie means and I tried looking it up but maybe he spelled it wrong so if anyone could help me figure out what he meant, that would be great. And I can't ask him because he's not talking to me anymore. Thank you.

he could have meant coochie..

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is it normal for people to cry over nothing? like seriously! i think something is wrong with me, maybe depression or something? but i can just sit here and start crying for hours. and so many things will just run throug my head.. do i need help?!

well cryin is normal for people. but if you dont know why. maybe you should go to a place and see why. You maybe depressed you may not. you may jus cry because you are an emotional person.

good luck on everything..hope i hhelped.

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What are the side effects of being on birth control? Good and bad?

I will be going on the pill once I'm 16. Not for sex though, for those lovely...wonderful cramps..

some bad side effects are...

nausea
bloating
headaches
breast tenderness
bleeding between your periods
decreased libido
irregular menstrual bleeding

and a good side effect is not being able to get pregnant.

good luck

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I was dating a guy who joined the army, and he was scheduled to leave for basic training at the end of May or beginning of June. At the beginning of May, he started to ignore me. Wouldn't answer phone calls or anything. I had no idea what was going on, because I had seen him the night before he started to ignore me and everything was fine. This continued for about two weeks, until he finally answered one of my messages by breaking up with me. He was worried that it wouldn't work because he would be leaving for a long time after this year. He ignored me for another two weeks after that, and finally a few days before he left he let me know when he was leaving. I asked him if he would tell me when he was back, and he promised that he would.

I know from mutual friends that he is back, but he hasn't tried to contact me in any way. I don't know why, and I don't know if I should try to talk to him. I miss him so much it's almost unbearable, as a boyfriend, but even just as a friend and someone to talk to.

What should I do? I want him back in my life...I don't think that I will hear from him if I don't try to contact him first, and I really want to, but then I feel like I should respect his space because it's clear he doesn't want to talk to me, right? I am SO lost.

I think you should contact him one last time to see where it will go. Ask him why he has ignored you. why he didnt tell you he was back after he promised he would. Tell him that you miss him. Just spill your heart out to him telling him how you feel exactly. And then after the conversation you should ask him if he still wants to be frineds or if he needs space for awhile. then you want to respect that. But if he says he still wants to be friends tell him to try and contribute to that friendship as well as you, by talkin to you first making that first move to talk.

Just spill everything out tell him how you feel and if he doesnt work out. its prob all for the best..

i hope everything works hope i helped and goood luck to youu :)

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