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ok well here it does one of my friend complains 24/7. thats all she does is complains. and she cant just be my friend she has to be my Best friend. i cant stand her complaining tho. i mean yea sometimes i complain too but sometimes i just want to say to her "thats life, deal with it" but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do?
Well, Miss Non-Complainer, lol. When she complains, tell her a positive thing about what she is complaining about! And, maybe she'll say, yeah your right and she wont be complaining ^_^ Hope im helpful!
_Kadi_
okay i'm doing this project and we need to knoe when were ever going to use math like when we grow uo and stuff. well i want to be a professional basketball player and i was wondering what kind of math would i need to know for that? thanx
Okay, you would probly have to know like additon and subtraction. For finding your average points in a game and findin points n stuff.. not difficult stuff.
_Kadi_
I've been doing HTML on and off for about 7 or 8 years now, but I haven't done much of anything HTML related lately. I'm afraid my skills have lapsed over that time. So I want to start up another website from scratch so that I can see if I still got it in me. The question is, over what? I was thinking of a site for my workplace but my boss' girlfriend already has that covered. A site over something I'm interested in may be a little fun, but I'd like to make a useful site people will actually go to. I won't bother making a list of interests because no one will read a site about any of them.
I just need some practice. What can I do? Hell, if you want me to design a site for you I might just do that instead. Nothing too hard, though. And if you ask for too much I'll charge you. ;)
You can make xanga layouts! Lots of people look at them. go to www.createblog.com And register, paste your html codes and people will love it!! Alot of HTML designers do it for people. its really fun, hope you take my advice :)
_Kadi_
I have a big poster of aaliyah on my door and its getting kind of old ive had in since i was in 7th grade. what should i do with my door? i dont want it to be empty! nothing i have to go out for just stuff @ home. thanks!
What's really cool is, gettin old CD's that you dont use anymore, and putting them on your door! it looks so cool. Another thing you could do is, is get double stick tape and put it on your door. On the tape put pictures, sayings,poems, and even your name at the top or something. on my door, i have a sign that says "opened/closed" and it velcros for when i dont want people to come in my room! Do something that's you, but practical! You could always make a collage of pictures, hey try putting a mirror on the door. The possibilities are endless!
_Kadi_
Hey..my room is kind of big, but it's so boring! The walls aren't white, thankfully, but there's no where for my friends to sit when we hang out and it's not a really fun enviorment. Does anyone have any ideas on making my room more upbeat, inviting, or cool? Thanks!
What i do, is put bunches of pillows on the floor or beanbags! Try putting beads on your door to make your room seem inviting. Make the room seem personalized, lived in, and people will know that it's apart of you. Try doing unique things. Like, if you have a collection of something.for example:hats, hang them on the wall! it's functional and it looks cool. Just put little sayings on the wall on paper or something. Make the room _you_. Be creative! Do anything! It's your room. Have fun with it.
_-Kadi-_
ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?!
Tell her who you like. I mean maybe she'll back off those guys. Start flirting with the guys she likes. You'll feel better. Make yourself known...
_Kadi_
Okay how do I change my user name because I really want to have a new nickname for my column. PLZ tell me how!!!!!!PLZ!
You cant. Get over it. Make a new name. Sorry.
_Kadi_
Okay well, there is this guy i really like ALOT! and we've went out before, and i love him soooooooo much. But, he doesnt seem to love me like i love him. He seems so unhappy all the time. which really sucks. I've tried to move on, but i just cant. which sucks even worse. He says he loves me but im pretty sure its just the brother and sisterly love, not the love I feel for him. I've pretty much already told him how i feel.. kinda, i think. I dont know what to do. please help.
Okay, well i think you should tell him how you feel. This may not be the easiest thing to do considering that he might not feel the same way. Make yourself known, and dont settle for a kinda sorta answer. Make sure that you get an answer from him. and, move on, he's gonna still be there sad and depressed, but you'll be there wanting him more and more. So, just forget him if he doesn't feel the same way. I'm always here to help.Please take my advice...
_Kadi_
Ok so first of all my best friend (we both just started high school a couple months ago) is gorgeous and always gets all the guys... even if they're just friends... she's closer friends with all my guy friends than i am so that really gets on my nerves. It's not my friend that bothers me though because why would i be mad at her for having close friendships, but it's the guys that bother me because they act like i don't even exist. I've kind of gotten used to that, but there is this one thing that's really bugging me. There's this guy who i became friends with at the beginning of the year who was really sweet to me and he was always talking to me and hanging out with me. My best friend didn't know him for a little while, but then she met him and now he's much better friends with her than he is with me. He's actually really mean to me now; he hurts me for no reason, always says mean things to me, and he's just not acting like a good friend. He's one of those people who you want so bad to think they're not worth it anyway towards, but you still want to be really good friends with them because they're good people and fun to be around. So anyways, i think he likes my friend because he's always following her around and he spends more time with her than any other girl. I feel like if he were to ask her out, she would say yes. I don't like him or anything, but i would still feel really weird if they were to go out or even have a little thing going on. I guess i just want things to back to normal with him, where he's still a nice friend to me. What should I do?
Wow. Thats tough. Well, i think you should talk to -him- about it. Ask him why he's bein so shitty to you lol. And ask her if he likes her. Then you might feel better even if its still bad :(
_Kadi_
KADI! I NEED HELP WITH MY LOVE LIFE! IM 800 POUNDS! I DYED MY HAIR PURPLE, I THOUGHT IT WAS SOOO KOOL, BUT NOBODY ELSE DOES! WAHHHH IM ONLY 8'2! I FEEL LIKE THE GREEN GIANT DUDE!! =(! WELL THE PROBLEM IS .. NOBODY LOVES ME! :'( WHEN I TELL SOMEONE I LIKE THEM, THEY JUST RUN AWAY! WHY DO THEY RUN AWAY KADI?!?!!? AM I UGLY! OH MY GAH! IM UGLY ARENT I! OOOOOH MY GAH! KADI, AM I UGLY? WHAT DO I NEED TO DO!?!?!?!?!
hehe luv yew kadi! xD *!~MiRaNdA~!*
lmao.. shuttup miranda :)
Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do!
Well, For one, you just told us! But, you should talk to your mom about it. Even though it may not be easy. Pull your mom aside one day and ask her more about it. Like, having a mother daughter conversation. Believe me, it will take a lift off your shoulders by talking to her! Hope you take my advice, and i hope things get better.
_Kadi_
thiz guy we'll call him "bob" well bob is a really good friend of mine and we like each other well on aim the other nite i wrote in the wrong box "the condoms are in the pantie drawr" n he got it instead of mi friend n i realli dont hav condoms in thur mi friend sed she dose and so i 4got 2 put the ? at the bak so i was talking to him and he was like so can i come over so we can use the condoms and i was like i seriously dont have any but u can come over any way and he was lik sure but now he thinks i keep condoms and im only 14!!! so i dont know what to do now!
please help
thnx
Haha! thats crazy. LOL! Bring him over, and show him yer pantie drawer...and be like see no condoms...and he'll proly like laugh and like u even more.. hope i helped..lol
_Kadi_
Alright I just recently asked a question on how u get a picture on your column. I did what everyone said and it then it said you tried to upload a picture but it was greater than 15k in your filesize. It couldn't be uploaded succesfully. Does anyone know what that means or how I can possibly make a picture um..smaller than 15k..whatever that is lol. thanks again..
Hey, try making your picture JPEG(JPG) by opening it on paint, then saving it as Jpg at the bottom. I hope i've been help!
_Kadi_
I'm painting my room next weekend. A few years ago when I put up pictures and stuff like that I used glue and nail polish to hold them up. (don't ask) so how will I get the stuff off I tried like dish soap and water but it doesn't work
A good thing to do, what i found that works was sanding it down with sandpaper. In my old room, i used glue to put sum paper on the walls..lol same problem you had. Sanding it down will make the wall smooth again :)
_Kadi_
i just got a blender. what are some good recipes...you know like smoothies or something. thanx!
Oh!!! my dad makes the greatest smoothies.. It's not like Percise measurements or anything. but here's a recipie for a peanutbutter chocolate milkshake..It may be fattening but its soo good. LOL!
Some ice cream(you'll be able to determine how much)
Ice,a few cubes
Some vanilla extract
Chocolate syrup
Milk(enough to make it to a thick consistancy)
...This tastes really good, you should try it out!
_Kadi_
im a 14 year old guy and i weigh like 150 pounds..im 5'6 or 7 and over the summer i lost like 20 pounds, but instead of it being gone, it turned to more muscle even though i naturally have a lot of muscle (it runs in my family) even though everyone tells me i dont look fat or anything, and actually some say i look so muscular and everything i dont think its true..i think im fat and i dont like it and im afraid to take my shirt of in front of my friends..although i know that my weight turned into muscle, i still look almost the same in the mirror. people tell me i look like superman because i have big calf muscles and shit like that (i have big calf muscles because i skateboard) why do i still think im fat and see myself as fat although everyone tells me im not?
I think this is because throughout your life, you have been used to seeing youself as ..well what you were before. And now that you're changing, you're not used to it. Try to imagine youself as what everyone tells you that you look like. Try to get that other picture out of your head that you had in your mind for all those years. Think of it as a new you, refreshed and energized. I'm sure that eventually you'll realize that they're right.
_Kadi_
I'm an only child. Through my childhood, I spend a lot of time at home. I didn't have THAT many friends at school, and I didn't have any friends in the neighborhood, so I was at home a lot, and I spent a lot of time being with my parents. When dad was at work and mom had to go somewhere, I would go. When I was a little girl, I spend SO much time with my mom. And my dad. My friends and other family members would say that I went everywhere my mom went. By 7th grade, I started to get a little...crazy. I got very moody around them, and every little thing they did would bug me. I felt like I needed to get out of the house and get away from them. I got to the point where I would go to my room and cry because they bugged me so much. They weren't abusive, they weren't mean, and they gave me everything I needed and more. But just having them around and nagging bugged me. I disliked them so much. But I didn't tell them, because I had no reason to. They just thought I had developed an attitude. Now, I'm in the middle of high school, and my mom has threatened to leave before because I treat her mean and I get mad at her all the time. And I really shouldn't, I know that. She's a great mom. But now, its like she's always nagging at every little thing and calls me like every 5 minutes (not to 'check up' but she has to have me do something for her, or she has to tell me something that I already know). She doesn't understand anything. And she's nosey. God, I just don't know what to do. I do have an attitude towards my parents, they've given me everything I needed, etc. I just spend way too much time around them. I even told that to my mom one time, and she was crying and yelling at me, saying "Well then from now on, I don't even want to talk to you! You're always so mean to me! From now on, you find your own rides and I just won't have nothing to do with you!" When she told me that I started crying too. I don't totally want her out of my life...I'm so confused. What am I supposed to do?
Okay..this is happening at home with me too. Tell your parents that now you're older, and things are changin. You love them very much, but they're used to spending alot of time with you. You're their child, and they dont want to let go. Have like a family meeting, and maybe schedule some time to spend with your parents instead of them bugging you all the time. Tell them that you're getting older, and like to have more privacy. And that you don't have an attitude, but your just developing in yous school life and your friends. Yes, i know that you love your parents and all, but you need your own space too. So, i hope i have been helpful, and i hope everything works out fine. I really do understand what you are going through.
_Kadi_
Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?
Dont worry about getting mad! She's stealing your pictures, and that S.U.C.K.S. theres only ONE of you and there shouldnt be someone bein just like u. Confront her and be like OH NO YOU DIDNT *SNAP SNAP* .... I mean maybe she'll be okay..if shes gonna keep doin this then i shuld stop. she must really suck to want to be you
_Kadi_
Okay well like guy..and he has a girlfriend..but he flirts with me..but when hes with his friends..hell like barely talk to me..or when hes with his girlfriend..he like say hey but then he just ignore me! i mean EVERYONE in my class that knos that i like him..thinks he likes me..but i dont think so..because sometimes he can be mean..but other times he so sweet. i could tell him anything..and i really like him..but i dont think he likes me! do you kno why flirts with me when its just us..and then when hes with his friends hell ignore me?! thanks!
.KMUL.
I think he likes you but doesnt want anyone else to know. I mean, if hes going to be like this, then why would you want him anyway? Wait..im puttin thoughts in your head. Well, i think you should make an attempt to talk to him more.
ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to.
Okay. i have a simple answer for this! when she cuts you off, start back into the conversation. And if you guys are walking, make sure your close to him if you suspect she's going to be all playful with him. No, you don't have to talk to her. Remember, actions speak louder and words. and clearly, with that girl..they do alot! I hope im help!
_Kadi_