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hi im 13/f and my mom still wont let me babysit. its rlly embarrasing bc i am 13 but she thinks im not "matture" enough. i feel like im being treated like a baby. how do i get her to let me start babysitting so tht i dont hav to hav a babysitter? thanx ~steph~ (link)
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You should be allowed to babysit at your age. I personally know a lot of girls who are 13 and 14 and babysit. But they have also taken classes on it. Maybe you should talk to your mother about taking babysitting classes at your local hospital. If you talked to your mom, you could try to persuade her to let you babysit. You could also make a list of reasons why you want to babysit, and then have her make a list of reasons why she doesn't want you to. Then share them and talk it over. Keep trying, and good luck if you are allowed to!
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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Don't worry about asking your parents about birth control. Most of the time it doesn't even really help all that much. Just make sure you use a condom and that you are ready. Don't go into something that you really don't want to do. Follow your heart!
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i collect hentai for a liveing! but i dont masturbate to it or anything... my sis sais im a big pervert and my mom doesent mind. im verry interested in that kind of art. is it wrong to do this? (link)
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No, you aren't a pervert for collecting Hentai stuff. And she's your sister! Of course she will say things like that, it's only to make you mad. If you are really interested in it then go ahead. Don't worry about what other people say!
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy. (link)
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If I were you, I wouldn't bother with it unless you can get a condom. Don't take the risk because I don't think that either of you would be ready to raise a child. It's a big responsibility. And just because she ended doesn't mean that her egg hasn't reproduced. Sperm lives in a girl for 5-7 days and her egg could reproduce within that time and she could possibly get pregnant. Don't do it unless you are both completely ready and you can use a condom. Don't have unprotected sex becuase you don't know when an "accident" will happen!
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I am 14/F, maybe like two weeks ago I was hanging out with this kid that I used to like and my parents were out of town for the next three weeks! Me, my best friend and him were at his house just hanging out, he;s in 10th and I'm 8th grade.My parets are racist and he's Jamacan! A while ago me and him would hang out alot and we were best friends! But my parents were driven by to find me one day and saw me in his garage and thought I was givin him head! Never!This was last year! Now since they have left i wa shanging out with him! He came over my house wit my best friend and we started blowing kisses at each other and then pop kissed! Later when he left I talked to him on the phone for about two hours.I sneak out of my house to meet him and we started making out for an hour or more! He told me that he has liked me for a while! On halloween he dissed me infront of my friends and then came to me school and my friends asked him about me and him! He said that I was "dirty and disgusting" and he regreted makin out wit me. Then my other guy best friends told me it was because he was embarassed about making out with an 8th grader! I become really attached to him and want to cry thinking it was stupid to make out with him and then get embarassed! I need some help! Seriously (link)
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Don't listen to those guys. They don't know what they are giving up! Don't let it get to you. Maybe later on down the line you could talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. That is, if you are still having feelings for him. It may just be something he is going through. And I'm not trying to get you upset or anything, but he also could have been put up to this. He may have been leading you on or something, I've been through that. I would just forget about him though and move on. Don't show him that you still like him because sometimes guys tend to enjoy stuff like that...Knowing girls are crazy over them. Try to make him jealous :)!!
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ok.. my friend lets call her laura and laura's parents abuse her like hit her and leave marks and she hates her life and she chooses to cut herself and she cuts sorta deep and im afraid one of these days shes gonna cut to deep and kill herself.. and she doesnt want anyone to know cuz her parents wont do any good and my parents i dont rilly want them to know either cuz theyll get ideas about me cuz they dont trust me very well and i just rilly dont know wut to do anymore and ive tried to stop her but she wont and i dont wanna tell anyone either but i just dont want her to hurt herself anymore cuz im scared shes gonna cut to deep one of these times.. is there like anything that could like substitute cutting? cuz she would just keep cutting if she went to counseling or something like that so is there anything that could substitute cutting?? i rilly need advice FAST!! thanx s0o0o much! (link)
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Tell someone, tell a counseler at your school or talk to a teacher. Set up a time where you can go in and talk to someone. First tell them of the abuse, and then go on to the cutting. Make sure you can trust the person you are telling and make sure that they won't tell your friend who said something. Just have them say that "there is a person who is worried about you." You could also try talking to your friend if you felt that you wanted to. I have been through similar events myself and with friends and make sure you aren't pushing her into something she doesn't want to do. When you push people to get help, sometimes that will just drive them to do it more because they feel that they can do it on their own and they cant. But be careful that you are making the right choices for both you and your friend and her family.
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My parents are getting me a credit card. I dont think i can handle the resopnsiblity but I don't want to say know, after all it IS a credit card! It's also an ATM card and I don't like the thought of stalkers getting hold of my pin number or mugging me. What should I do? Take the card or wait a little bit? (link)
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So you're getting a credit card, sounds big! I think that you should be fine with having one and don't worry about anyone "stealing" it or anything. As long as you don't tell people about it then I don't think there would be a problem. You should go ahead and take it if that's what you want. But remember to use it wisely and don't misplace it. Think of this as a learning experience, and don't worry too much. If you are using it for ATM too, don't tell anyone your identity number and make sure you always keep the reciepts, that's a major must! Be careful with this and just make sure you are making the right descision and only accept it if you feel ready and responsible!
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Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you. (link)
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Maybe you should talk to him about possibly ending things. Sometimes a long distance relationship does work, but it just depends on the distance of where he is moving and how you feel. Even if you do part, make sure that you both talk and know each others' feelings. And of course, go with your gut instinct. Don't let another person change your mind, stick with what your heart tells you.
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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me! (link)
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Yes, go surprise him. Trust me, I have been through what you are going through now. I'm in still in the process of it. There is this guy who I truly do love, and we have been on and off for about 2 years now. I would tell him how I feel but I know he wouldn't understand it sometimes it seems like he doesn't care. Guys can sometimes be moody, sorry guys, but you should at least talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. Maybe once you get that off your chest you could talk about seeing other people for a while and then getting back together sometime in the near future.
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alright so im trying to get a flat stomach.. well trying to get some fat off my stomach.. can any one try to give me tips like any exercises that i can do and tell me what to do.. like how much i do, how many each day, and how long it will take to get to a flatter stomach ..im aiming to get a flat stomach in like a couple of weeks, but if it will take longer, thats fine thanks a bunch (link)
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To help you get a flatter stomach you could try doing sit-ups or another exercise. It would help to make a workout plan or even make a chart to record your weight. You could also make another chart that has the days of the week and your exercise plan so you can mark off what you do and each day you do it. Then tape it on your wall to track your progress! Good luck!
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