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Age: 16
Member Since: August 4, 2004
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Last Update: November 15, 2005
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18/f here-does anyone know a really good deoderant to use? Not for smell, but to greatly reduce sweating? I have to change my shirts all day because they keep getting wet, it's gross and embarassing. And if no one has found one off the shelf, is a prescription one expensive, do you have to see a doctor (no insurance) or just ask a pharmacist? Deoderants I've tried are secret platinum soft solid, and adidas smart technology. And botox would be too expensive (it's supposed to stop excessive sweating). thanks guys.

Use Certain-Dry .. it works like a charm. You might be able to get it at the drugstore, if you cant, I know they have it at drugstore.com. Hope I helped =)

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OKAY will people plllleaase stop asking weight loss questions? i mean if god wanted you to be skinny youd be skinny right? and i hate to see/hear people saying they are anorexic or belimuc ( spelling ? ) because you dont need to diet if you can get out of a chair and breathe! ^ NOT TO BE RUDE :) HAVE A GREAT DAY!

Haha ... yeah those questions are annoying! If they are that concerned, they should just see a doctor.

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sry this is so long..
i'm 14 yr old female thats a freshman..

Well theres a guy named "steve" thats not his real name lOl well i'ved liked him since about..the end of last school year and he told my friend he used to liek me..he doesn't really talk to me in school i guess we're in different crowds and i don't have classes w.him but i talked to him once on the phone and he said his cell was cutting out so he'd call me back when he got home..but he didn't. but the other night @ a football game i started crying bc of smthn that happened w.another guy that made me upset ((but the truth is..nothing happened...i just wanted attention..lOl well i kno thats wrong so i won't do it again!!)) well steves twin brother and one of his friends came over and gave me a hug and they were trying to find out what was wrong and then steve came over and was like whats wrong and he started massaging my neck but then my friend was like..thats what we're trying to find out and he was like ooh ok i'll leave my bad and stuff like that...so a little later i was standing w.my friends and he came over and was like whats this guys name ((of course i paniked bc nothing was wrong..but i amde up a name lOl!))and he put his arm on my shoulder..i kinda got the vibe he wanted to beat him up or smthn lOl and then he was like alright wheres nick ((his friend...lOl not his real name either)) and he walked away...then @ the end of the night he came up to me and gave me a hug. like all the 'popular' guys were paying attention to me all right long and it was great..but i kno its wrong to make things up like that and i'm not doing it again..BUT steve and the other guys wouldn't have paid attention to me if i wasn't crying...oh i forgot to mention steve still knos i like him..and none of the other guys were as touchy feely ((well besides steves brother who hugged me)) but on to my question...that night he was onine and didn't IM me and the next night he was on and didn't IM me...my friend says i should IM him but i have 2 times in a row and i really think if he likes me he'll IM me..but what i wanna kno is since i don't think he woulda said a thing to me if i wasn't crying...do u think he is interested in me? and he didn't IM me or call me or anything soo...what does this mean.. i kno this question is a lil unclear but if u were in my shoes would u talk to him in school ((girls FLOCK around him so it'd b hard to get a chance)) would u IM him or what would u do?? sry this is so long but i really need help!!

Hello! Well, my advice is to try to talk to him more and know him better. Don't try to force anything on him, just give it time. Try to talk to him online, and find out more about him. If you talk to him one time and then go 'hey wanna go out?', then he might not say yes because he doesn't know you that well. Once you guys have a pretty good relationship and he knows that you are a cool person, maybe you can ask him if he would consider going out with you. Try to catch him at school, online, or even call him. At the next football game, try to talk to him there. You will know when the time is right to ask him. (Or he may ask you) I really hope I helped, let me know what happens and if you need futher advice. Bye

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How come i see so many kerry bumper stickers? I have yet to see one single bush bumper sticker. Is everyone voting for kerry or is bush just being cheap and not making any..???

Because so many people like bush, they dont have to be obnoxious about it :)

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Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.


Thanks loves

well said.

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Please, members of this site, stop putting that in your messages!

When you beg and plead for people to "not delete" things, it flags your message. It makes us think that there is probalby something wrong with the question and that it probalby DOES need deleted.

Don't do it!

Also, if a question gets moderated with enough 1 ratings (the frowny face), IT IS AUTOMATICALLY DELETED. That's how the system works.

There's a list of questions that are automatically deleted. It is clearly stated in the Help/FAQ section.

Stop asking the moderators to "not delete" your questions.

Your pal,

MFS

AGREE =)

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alright so im 16 and about a week ago i lied to my parents every night about what i did...id say i went to dinner and a movie or something like that but really i went out to party...well they found out and they found out i drank and stayed out past 12(when i stayed over at my friends house) and pretty much...im grounded for a long time until they feel like they can trust me again.this is not the first time this has happened, but its the worst ive ever done it and its the worst punishment ive gotten. i've lost my car as well and all im allowed to do is go tan,shool,dance and work.my mom keeps asking me how im going to earn their trust back but im not sure how im going to...other than talking to them, i mean really they cant test me cause im grounded and im sure they wouldnt test me cause they dont trust me. do you have any ideas of how i can get them to trust me again? thanks a lot!:)

Hello =) Do well in school, if you show that you are mature enough to study, then that is a plus. Show your parents that you are mature and you WON'T do it again. Don't beg your parents to unground you, that will get them even more frusterated. Just go on with your life, and GIVE IT TIME. It might take a while, but it takes a while to build up trust. Do responsible stuff with your friends, and always have your parents pick you up from the location, so they know that you are not anywhere else. You can try talking to them and telling them know that you learned your lesson, and you won't do it again. Tell your parents that you took your newly independent life style for granted. I hope I helped, drop one in the inbox if you'd like =)

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ok...well tomorrow is picture day, and i have this zit!! YIKES!! so...how can i make it go away by tomorrow?

I dont know about your picture takers, but today I had picture day and you can get a deluxe plan which gets rid of "minor blemishes" Look on the package :)

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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!!

Hello ... I'm not ashamed to say this, but I also don't have the ... biggest boobs in the world. haha, but since your fit (and I'm assuming skinny) Naturally you aren't going to have that much fat there since your skinny. You can't speed up time, so the only alternitive to buy a push-up bra. Also, you should be happy that you don't have D cups, I hear that sometimes, certain guys use girls for that. I hope I helped, leave one in the inbox if you'd like

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ok my friend jessica has a HORRIBLE problem! she never stops sweating. even shes sitting down shes sweating. People usually sweat when there hot or doing physical activity but she sweats when shes sitting on the couch and watching tv. she was too embarased to ask this question online so i told her that i would do it for her (ima good friend lol) shes tried ALL diff deoderants and NOTHING can stop it. its only under arm sweating and its gotten so bad. please help her! thanks!

signed..
trying to help a friend!

Hey, this stuff works really good:

http://www.drugstore.com/search/search.asp?search=Certain+Dry&searchtype=1&trx=28198&trxp1=60&srchtree=1

Hope I helped :) Steph

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hey! uhmm can you make me a icon? if so , IM me at PiimpinxPiink !!! please! KLG

yea im me at StephW4763

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Hi , okay when i wake up and i brush my teeth , after i get a HORRIBLE stomach ache ! it really sucks because it ruins my day ! is it normal? am i doing something wrong when i brush my teeth? PLEESE HELP ! I RATE 5 !

Hello =) If you want to see if its the toothpaste, then do this:

1. Don't put toothpaste on your toothbrush, just brush your teeth with the brush only to get rid of the leftover food.
2. Use mouthwash so you have good breath, like what toothpaste would do.

I really hoped I helped, drop one in the inbox if you'd like.

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help! okay well im going into highschool next week and i am also supposed to be getting my period i dont know where the bathroom is and i really dont want to be taken by Surprise what should i do ? please help

xoo confused

Hello =)

Sorry for the wait for the response, I was at school. Anyway, have you had your orientation? If so, try to look around the school for a bathroom near your classes. Also, before school starts, normally they keep the school open so if you want to come in and put stuff in your locker, etc. I WOULD reccomend doing that. I know that at my school, they open it up a few days before school starts so people can go in. Also, I don't know if this is availible to you, but you could try to get a map of the school. (That's what I did) Maybe your school has a website and you can check there. If all else fails, wear a tampon AND pad. I really hope it works out =) Leave me one in the inbox if you'd like

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does anyone know of any good websites with aim icons that are cute...not the dolls or original gay ones but cute ones??

www.iconator.com is a great site =)

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Anyone know any cool ways to decorate my dorm room. I'm going to be a freshman and I'm in a double. I'm not really into posters or anything becuase i think they take up too much room on the way. I don't care either what my roomate will say because one half the room is mine and she is already puttin up a poster(s)? So far I got leies to put sumwhere. Thank you so much!!

Ps. You can't paint or put haoles in the cement walls

You can get the following:

Comfortor, sheets, and pillows [a certain color you like]
A bright rug
Put lights around your bed
Make collages with pictures of you and your friends
Decorate your desk with a theme, like a certain color or design. Keeping that in mind, you can get pencils and a desk calander, etc.

I hope I helped ... drop one in the inbox if you'd like

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OK i think this is really sick, but for some reason, ionno why, but my dog love to sleep in the bathroom. I mean its not hurting me or anybody else. Can anybody enlighten me on why he does this every night?

Hello =) Well, is it really hot where you live? Because if it is, they like to sleep on a cool ground to cool them off. Since they have a fur coat [hopefully your dog does] they become very hot in the summer. So that's a way of cooling off. In summer, my dog likes to sleep on the kitchen floor where it is cool. I hope I helped =) Feel free to leave one in the inbox if you'd like

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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop?

Hello =) What kind of hits? Hard or soft? If it's a soft-to-medium hit on the butt or back, I would tell her that it's really bothering you and it's hurting you. If it's hard hits on your body- you need to tell another adult you trust. If you don't feel confortable telling another person, try talking to her and telling her that if she is angry with you, there is no need for her to hit you, and that she should be TALKING to you if there is a problem. If either of those fail- take matters into your own hands and I believe there is a abuse hotline. 1-800-abuse. I hope I helped =) Feel free to leave one in the inbox if you'd like

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i sweat really bad i need advice on a good deodarent taht will stop teh sweatin or another trick or thing i can do Thank u *

Hey, this stuff works really good

http://www.drugstore.com/search/search.asp?search=Certain+Dry&searchtype=1&trx=28198&trxp1=60&srchtree=1

Hope I helped :)

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ok.. my grandma is really depressed but when she is like this all she does is drink wut do i do to tell her that by her drinkin its ruining our family... i just wanna be a family again HELP!!

Hello =) Tell your grandma that it is really hurting you seeing her like that. Once she knows that its hurting you, any loving grandma would do anything to fix it. So, suggest to her to go to the doctor and get anti-dperessent. I hope I helped =) Feel free to leave one in the inbox if you'd like

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I need GOOD grades to get into a certain group, and be consistent about it. Does anyone have study tips or ways I can pull off a good grade by the end of the year?

Hello =) In class, pay attention and be sure to write down everything your teacher says. I think a very important part of getting a good grade is doing the homework. Just simply get your homework done at night. And if you know that you have a test coming up, don't cram it all in the night before. Take it a day at a time. I hope I helped =) Feel free to leave one in the inbox if you'd like

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