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HEy mY nAmE is AshLeY AnD Im 15 I lIvE In WaShInGtOn, bUt Im FrOm VeNtUrA, CA! umm I LoVe To DaNcE aNd hAvE fUn AnD Go SHOPPING! aNd WhEn iM bAcK In CaLiFoRnIa i lOoOovE To Go To tHe BeAcH aND sUrF AND sTuFF lIkE tHaT!! i lovE hAnGiN wItH mY fRiEnDS AnD DoInG NeThInG FUN!! and I love helpin people out with advice!
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I think i am a pretty cute girl,i have a great personality, and all of my friends love me. i just can not seem to get the attention of the guy i like. we are friends but i like him more than friends. i just dont know how to let him know i like him without messing up our friendship. what can i do to let him know in suttle ways that i like him? (link)
its good that u have confidence in urself, but im in the same situation, and i told the guy i like that i like him, and he said that if we are good for eachother, then it will end up that way, so u should tell this guy u like him more then a friend, its the best thing to do. hope i helped!


my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do???? (link)
You should tell him that hes boring, and u wanted to have a little fun so u made out with his best friend, that wasnt really the right thing to do, but um just tell him, hope i helped.


Okay i dont know why but i have this bump down there...i haven't had sex or nothing and been in any sexual activities or nothing...they kinda come on go and it kinda hurts when you touch it...i dont kno wut it is and kinda scared. i had one appears on my left side near my butt but not excatly there it's down a little from my vagina and it appear twice and now i have one on my right side. what do u think it is? i need help and i'm scared to go see a doctor because i dont want them to have show them and everything and i dont kno wut to tell my mom...PLEASE HELP! (link)
you need to see a doctor about it. tell ur mom u got somethin on the downstairs department, and see a female doctor.. dont be shy about it, its nothing doctors havent seen before.


Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick? (link)
put it on when u get to school, and then when schools out go to the bathroom and wash it off. lol i used to do it.


ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!! (link)
ok, well I have braces as well, and what i do when i get those sores from them is, i put the wax on it, the dentist should have gave u a little package with a lot of stuff in it to help u take care of ur braces, well just put a little bit of that on, and it will stop hurting.


what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that. (link)
1st base : making out

2nd base: anything with hands like grabbing and such.

3rd base: anything with mouth,getting eaten out or giving head.

4th base:Sex


is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high! (link)
NO!! of course its not wrong!! its her X-BF, so why should she care? its not like ur stealing him from her, they BROKE UP! If you like him, and he likes u, GO FOR IT!!


there is this guy I know his name will be Fred okay so I sorta like Fred but today I was talking to him and he kept telling me how he wanted to go all the way with me but I have been telling him that Im not ready for that and the farthest I will go with him is making out but he won't leave it alone help me please (link)
Ok, what u should do is this... i had the same problem with another guy, just tell him u have respect for urself and that ur not ready for that kinda commitment, and if he just blows u off cuz u wont give it to him, then u werent meant to be, but if he just says ok ill respect that then yall are meant to be, and that would be awesome if he did that! thats what the guy did that was askin me that, and he respected that i didnt wanna do it. hope i helped!!


ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???

plz get back to me (link)
i dont believe in long distance relationships, i mean the girl could be like 12 or something, or she could be out having another bf and u wouldnt know about it. i dont think u should get to close to her, i mean c'mon uve never seen her?? no no no thats not cool, lol get someone in ur area that uve actually seen and know!!!!


There is this girl I have known that is kinda my bestfriend.. I mean she is my bestfriend but she treats me like crap. we get in fights and then when I try to tell her why I did that or did what i did she wont hear me out and it bugs me and if I try to talk to her about it and she gets all pissed we dont hang out that much anymore because I went one way and she went the other but then when we get into fights she wonders why I dont talk to her and If I told her how I really felt we might not be friends and I dont want that to happen but I really dont like the way she treats me so can you help me please
WHAT SHOULD I DO

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PLEASE HELP ME (link)
you really need to tell her how u feel about her, as much as u dont want to, u do. im sure u have respect for urself but if u think u do u have to tell her that u dont like the way she treats u, and then maybe if shes ur real friend, she'll stop. i had that problem and i told my friend how i felt and she stopped.


like um totally like i they say i'm bomb but i don't think i am bomb! like should i tell them that bomb is like a dumb word because my x-bf is like totally a wigger and i was like eh all he says is bomb so should i tell these guys that they should fuck off??? like because i am bomb so they say haha are you bomb? lmfao! [phst guess who?] (link)
haha like i would so tell him to fuck off cuz like yeah ur bomb and they need to like stop askin "ru bomb"? pshht be like BITCH HELL YEAH IM FUCKIN BOMB, WUTCHU THINK?! haha I GET IT FROM MY MAMA! LMAO i love ya Jenny!!


Schools starting verrry soon and I am going school shopping in like a few dayzz so give me all the tips and advice there is to create a fresh looking preppy/whatever else me so that i can be original AND cute...

*im a girl*
XoXOoOOXooOO

i.love.you.forever.and.everrr (link)
GO TO FOREVER 21!! if ur preppy..


Ok, I have thick, brown, shoulder-length hair, and normally, I straighten it every day with my CHI straightener. But everytime I straighten it, it gets messed up within the next 30 minutes. So my question is, what should I use to keep my hair straight for the longest period of time possible? Like, should I use a gel type substance? If so, exactly what brand do you suggest, and exactly HOW do I apply it? Thanks so much! (link)
CITRUS SHINE is good stuff. my hair is really straight so i dont know.


my best friend always says he is gonna hug me but he never does and it makes me sad and mad i wanna slap i try to get more attention from him? he always hugs my other best friend never me.... what do i do? (link)
haha maybe he wants YOU to hug him first, hes probly one of them shy guys!! HAHAHA!


how do i know if i need a bra? (link)
um when ur boobs start to get big.


ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u


sighned
boy in denile

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hmm well sometimes, they only wanna be ur friend, maybe she stopped being ur friend and REALLY feels the same way about you, shes just too shy to admitt it.


Ok i got my period and i have really really bad cramps. i had such bad ones that i threw up 4 times and i had just taken medicine so i threw it up. Also when i sleep i wake up like every hour because it hurts so bad. What is something i should take or do?? (link)
MIDOL!!!


Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!! (link)
Oh whoa there lol sounds to me this guy is only asking u out cuz of THAT! ahem, u guys dont even know eachother, i mean guys now a days will only go out with u cuz of ur tits, they are soo perverted these days.. its so hard to find the right one.. i hope u didnt say yes to him!


Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches! (link)
Oh I have the same problem, accept he doesnt like my friend anymore, and she is NOTHING like me, but um well I would just wait for him to come along, becasue if he finally realizes that you 2 are good for eachother, he will ask u out, trust me!! thats what im doing with the guy i like A LOT! it will work. because me and this guy are getting closer and closer by the minute!! good luck!!


Hello I have a 19 inch penis. And it always gets in the way. Sometimes i wrap it around and store it in my anus but it hurts when i sit down. What should i do? Cut it off or just sling it over my shoulder? (link)
hmm.. well i would get a lot of it cut off and then make it about 6-8 inches. LMFAO! HAHAHA LOL SHUTUP WAYLON!!! (sorry yall that was my cousin) HOPE I HELPED YA CUZ!




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