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hey everyone, Carrie here & - i`m back! sorry i was gone for so long, dealing with buisness and whatnot but i`m back soo anything you need or want to know i`m here to answer! if you wish to keep it private let me know in an email with your AIM sn (if you have one) and i will be IM`ing you shortly>
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What exactly does Prozac do for you?
It`s an anti-depressant that helps your mood and makes you happier. (in most cases)
Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?
Yes it`s a pill perscribed by a doctor, i`m not sure of what the name is but it`s specifically for anxiety problems. Talk to your doctor and he/she should give you all the info on that.
i wanna do track in spring, but i can't run and i have no stamina or anything. i can't run for more than two minutes without havin g to stop how can i get in shape?
Try conditioning yourself to become prepared for track. Start off by walking around your neighborhood or something for like 20 min every few days, then work your way up to jogging, then running exc. Good Luck
ok i want dimples on my cheeks soo bad ...like if i see ppl with dimples i think it is soo cute and i want them...my friend wasnt born with dimples but she got hurt and they did surgry now she has one dimple...i was wondering if u can just get a dimple...and how?? i kno it sounds weird but ya
Lol i used to want dimples so badly too haha. But i`m sorry to say i`m pretty sure you cant just get one. People are usually born with them, and its usually because they have chubby cheecks as a baby and may even still do. Sorry but i dont know what to tell you except that you should love your cheecks the way they are =]
When I'm turning and acclerating I hear this clunk sound from the engine and the rpm's drop(low) and it takes me forever to get into second gear. After second my car acts normal. This only happens on wet/snowy roads. What's the problem?
It could mean the wheel and axle are frozen and or stiff so it makes it harder to turn. I`m not sure though because i`m not a mechanic but i suggest you get it checked out. good luck!
What am I supposed to do with my pubic hair? 14/f, and should I shave or wax or nothing? I don't want it to itch, but be comfortable.
Well i`m not going to tell you what you should do with it because its yours and its a desicion you can make wether you want it or not - if you want to get rid of it make sure you use some kind of soap or shaving gel down there cause if you shave it dry - it`ll hurt and it wont look to pretty lol. I`ve personally never tried wax but if you wanna then go for it. Good Luck!
r there any other advice sites out there that are good... i love this one... but i was just wondering if any one knows of anyothers
well there are forums out there, just type in the topic you want to talk about and put forums at the end in a search engine and it should come up with lots of links
Well I have this boy friend and I like totally in love w/ him! But I fing out all the things he does and some of his personal life I dont mean to I just hear now it's gottin into a habbit I like know his whole egaenda! Is this noraml?
Your possibly concerned? I cant really help you because your not stating wether they be positive or negative so i apologize for that but if there positive things then - hey keep finding out? keep loving him for them i guess, i dont find anything wrong with that. But if they`re wrong and you dont like them, dont judge him - but help him. Good Luck and im sorry if that doesnt help.
Hey I babysit and I baby sit this little grl! And she's depredes she is like my life sux there's nutin to do w/ it why do we even live there is no reason to live I mean we all like and what happens we all die! Should I tell her parents about this? Or is it just a fase?
Well depression leads to more seriouse issue`s so if i were you, i`d let her parents know secretly without letting the girl know your telling her parents because she might take it to offense. And even if she finds out she`ll thank you in the end. Good Luck.
ok i am 14 and i get my truck in a year...how much money is the down payment on a dodge ram quad cab?
Down payments are what you decide to put down as your first payment towards a vehicle, its not a strict price. But as far as your Dodge Ram goes - I`d put down maybe 3 grand on it as my first down payment.
I always have to be perfect in every single way. That's just the way I am. Well, now that i'm getting older i feel very uncomfortable wiht my body. I weigh 97 pounds and i am 5'3". I'm worried my thighs are to jiggely and my butt as well. I'm also very uncomfortable wiht my bra size, i'm the 32 AA,=, and i hardly fit in that. Well, yesterday i was making a list about all the things i liked about my body and hate about my body. The only thing i liked was my eye color, and i have evrything else. Please help me!! What are some excersizes that i can get my whole bpdy toned up AND HOW CAN I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
You need to be careful about how your talking and feeling about your body - it all leads to annorexia and according to your BMI (Body Max Index) You are underweight. I know everyone has problems with their bodies and/or may not like some things about them but dont let it take advantage of you because one day it could be too late. If you really want a healthy body, eat 3 meals a day including 1-2 snacks. eat healthy meals w/o junk food. Run run run, running tones your body really well. Run about 1-2 miles 3 times a week and stretch. You may feel "fat" a lot of people feel that way but doing these things will make you feel so much better and so much healthier. Please please PLEASE dont let this take over you - eating disorers are not "fun" and are extreamly dangerous and this is how they all start. Good luck.
i was going out with this guy john secretly (i broke up with him though) b/c my friend alexia said taht if i went out with him then she would turn everybody against me. i didn't think that was fair so i went out with him secretly. but she found out and so did the whole school. i denied it but john didn't. everyone beleved me. but then my friend set me up and alexia was on the line listening. now she is REALLY PISSED at me. she is hella mad and might drop me as a friend and turn the whole school against me. she even said she was thinkn about it. i dont know what to do b/c SHE WILL turn everyone against me. she's already done it to some people. i just really dont know what to do. im not blaming anyone but myself. Please what should i do??!!
If she`s that ignorant about it that she wants to turn an entire school against you (wich i think is highly unlikley) just because your going out with someone she may not like, shes not a true friend at all and has got to be extreamly bored and musnt have a life at all if she were to go through all that trouble to sneak around on your phone conversations and try to turn people against you. She is acting really immature and you should let her know. Personally i think she`s just jealouse. Dont worry about it, it`ll all blow over and she`ll come to the senses of how big of an idiot she was and how stupid and selfish this is all making her look.
What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?
Neglection, Uh if he stops calling you - when you call him he says he has to go right away, says he`ll call you back but never does. Stops telling you the things you used to love to hear him say, avoids you, ect. I`m not saying all these are completley true and try to scare you or anything because every guy is diffrent i`m stating the obviouse. Try confronting him if this is about you. Good Luck.
I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help
Well I feel exactly the same way except i know im not bi. yeah ive kissed another girl before, what girl hasnt, not really a big deal. and i look at other girls and feel jealousy not attracted. i want to look like them cause there so pretty and i wish i could look like them. if you really dont wanna mess around with another girl then your probablly not bi - you probablly are like me when it comes to seeing another girl and going "woah shes hot, i wish i looked like her"
im 16 and havnt had a period for just over a year.im not preganat cos i dun tests.i cant have cancer so young can i?i stopped having them about a month after losing my virginaty.i havnt got std cos i ahd a screening.wahts wrong i started like when i was 13.neone know?plse help swn cheers xxx
Your period probablly isnt regulated or got thrown off track. If your extreamly active or your on the thin side its highly possible for missing your period. I wouldnt get mayjorly concerned about it until your about in your 20`s. But try getting birth control or something if its really concerning you, birth control will help regulate it. Good Luck.
hi im 15 and still a double a (crazy, i know), is there any way i could make my boobs grow naturally?someone at my lunchtable said carrots? i need boobs!! i mean im 15! and im tired of everyone saying things about them i want to cut theirs off! okay yeah im weird someone help me!
Omg your so lucky, god im 15 and my boobs are way too big, i`ll switch you! haha jk. Well im sorry to say but there is no natural way of making your boobs bigger, you should be happy with what you`ve got and if you just cant, you can consider implants? I mean i know most everyone has at least one thing they hate on their bodies so if you feel as if you HAVE to change it to make yourself happier then do-so. But make sure if your going to go under the knife that its for you and your happiness. Good luck, and remember your beautiful without huge boobs, you dont need need need them lol (plus there kind of a pain) The other girls may be jealouse because the bigger they are the more they hurt when that time of the month comes around lol.
hi im 14 and i got my period in august and i only got it once and i hadnt had it since..august! i know im not pregnant! do i have cancer or an infection?? someone help me!
You have nothing to worry about, your just young and your period is still trying to maintain a proper cycle and become regulated. I`ve had mind for 2 years and i haven`t missed it once but it`s still irregular - it comes late all the time or soemtimes i`ll get it twice. Im pretty sure you dont have cancer. Are you active? Are you on the thin side? Being involved in a sport and being active a lot, or being on the thin side causes you to miss your period a lot. You shouldnt worry about it until your like twenty, then if its still weird then you should consult a doctor.
(p.s. If it`s a big concern you can ask your doctor to be put on birth control pills. Birth Control pills help you regulate your period and get it on a normal track so you know when to expect it and when to not exc. Good luck)
Im head of heels for this boy (you honestly couldnt even imagine). He's absolutly perfect in every way imaginable. Well almost.. he's not brad pit (lol) but his personality shines through and makes him beautiful. What's my problem? He introduced me to his best friend who is equally wonderful.. and he is brad pit (if you catch my drift). Im not dating either one of them because Im not allowed to date. But it was sort of understood that him (the first boy) and I were together. But this best friend of his has jumbled my heart. I've fallen for both boys in completely different ways. Should I choose one or leave them both to save their friendship?
Well im happy your not shallow! Theres too many god damn shallow people and im glad you see the first guy for his personality the most; but if you met his best friend and fell for him too, im thinkin you should just remain friends with the two and take some time to get to know each one better until you decide wich one you like most because if you act now someones going to get hurt. I think you should become there "3rd muskateer" for now and not worry which one you like best until a little later down the road. Good luck.
therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?
Your right you should be angry, but you probablly shouldnt get involved with guys like that, they can be also known as players - big time. But honestly the thing you should do for your "revenge" is just to ignore him. I know you might here that from everyone but its true, because once he`s heartbroken over a girl he actually cared about you he`ll see you walking around in happiness and it`ll destroy him. Who knows he may even feel destroyed now - guys are really good at making them look like the asshole and like nothing bothered them. So just ignore him and continue life in happiness. Trust me there are way better guys then him out there.
Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.
I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer
Well there aren`t many places that offer jobs to 14 year-olds but when i was 14 i was offered a job at Togo`s ( a sandwich place ). But I think it all depends on the "hook ups" ask an older friend with an average minimum wage paying job to see if they can hook you up. Another place that offers jobs to fourteen year-olds are community centers if you have one near you for like babysitting or lifegaurding. Good Luck!